| Jan 21 @ 12:19 PM |
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summershere
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This girl I have been seeing live in a small town about an hour from me. I have known her a couple years but we only started dating a few months ago and she has started staying over with me ( yes we are having sex now) when she is in my town. We have never gone out for a drink for lunch in her town and just before she left for a 2 week vacation she told me she has male friends that would fight for her. She said she would not call me from Florida where she is with her parents and her sister. So I have to wait untill she gets back to talk to her because as far as Im concerned I will not carry this on if she is dating guys in her town and is deliberately hiding me from them. Maybe she meant that her male friends are just protective? What a way to leave thingsand just disapear for 2 weeks.
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| Jan 21 @ 12:29 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Sounds like shes having her cake and eating it too.
DO YOU like being frosting?
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| Jan 21 @ 12:53 PM |
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Loreli
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Best of luck to you, but
We have never gone out for a drink for lunch in her town and just before she left for a 2 week vacation she told me she has male friends that would fight for her. is a big red flag IMHO
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| Jan 21 @ 1:39 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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We have never gone out for a drink for lunch in her town and just before she left for a 2 week vacation she told me she has male friends that would fight for her. She said she would not call me from Florida where she is with her parents and her sister.
red flags all over this one.,...especially the not call you part.. if you are a couple.. one would think she would be calling everyday yeah?? Good luck but be prepared to move on 
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| Jan 21 @ 1:55 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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.....I have known her a couple years........
but we only started dating a few months ago and she has started staying over with me ( yes we are having sex now) when she is in my town.
....We have never gone out for a drink for lunch in her town .....
and just before she left for a 2 week vacation she told me she has male friends that would fight for her.
She said she would not call me from Florida where she is with her parents and her sister.
......So I have to wait untill she gets back to talk to her because ....
as far as Im concerned I will not carry this on if she is dating guys in her town and is deliberately hiding me from them
It seems to me ...that this is the beginning of a relationship.. and you are jumping the gun here...
old boyfriends sometimes have a hard time letting go... parents and family sometimes are not introduced to a new boyfriend/girlfriend at the beginning of a relationship.. and nowhere did you say that you had "the exclusivity" talk
wait til she gets back.. talk to her.. slow down a little..and enjoy it for what it is...
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| Jan 21 @ 4:12 PM |
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custis
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She is hiding a buncha stuff from you. Move on to the next and forget her.
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| Jan 21 @ 4:16 PM |
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BandTMom
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Does she have a white line on her left ring finger? 
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| Jan 21 @ 9:45 PM |
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Loreli
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(living in Canada, that may not be as prevalebt a telling sign as in the south) 
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| Jan 21 @ 9:50 PM |
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robodad
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(living in Canada, that may not be as prevalebt a telling sign as in the south) We don't have any of that "prevalebt" in Canada...is it common in the south?
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| Jan 22 @ 9:40 AM |
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Loreli
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oops....
I just meant, the further north you go, there isn't as much sun as west or south.
No offense meant, and sorry for the typo 
(It could apply to me, but I get in the pool as often as possible! Last year, I had no lines on my ring fingers...)
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| Jan 22 @ 11:45 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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 ... any "other" tan lines???.....
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| Jan 22 @ 11:48 AM |
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willowy1
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^^nunyo 
OP dump now and don't ask questions later. 
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| Jan 22 @ 12:08 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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 ... you are right......
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| Jan 22 @ 12:27 PM |
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Loreli
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any "other" tan lines??? Nope.... 
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| Jan 22 @ 6:44 PM |
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blueyes101
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She is dating someone from her town, and is afraid being seen. 
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| Jan 22 @ 7:00 PM |
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willowy1
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blu way too boring   See I think she is really the property of some biker gang. As long as we are making up stories.
But in any case, she is not divulging the whole truth. She is disrespecting the relationship with the OP by her behavior. And only he can decide as to whether she is worth all the bullcrap.
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| Jan 22 @ 7:10 PM |
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blueyes101
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Truth is always stranger then fiction....
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| Jan 22 @ 7:30 PM |
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Angel178
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He didn't say if they were exclusive or not. So really, he shouldn't be concerned with it. Just have fun!
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| Jan 23 @ 11:17 AM |
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Loreli
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I hope he comes back to let us know
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| Jan 23 @ 1:56 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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two relevant points...
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