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eliteninjablade
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I been with my Gf for over a year. We are in a serious relationship and we have talked about marriage. We are both mature 26 of age.
So my question is this? i went on to me gfs computer the other day and her hotmail was open... i know iknow shame on me. I see that she is a paid member at several different dating sites. i dont know if she talks to the guys on there haha but im sure she does. How do i deal with this?
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| Feb 16 @ 4:13 PM |
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lazareth
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just my opinion, but I'm married and I'm on here.... give the benefit of the doubt first.. or better yet, ask, she may have nothing to hide.... my husband cqn read any post I put on here
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| Feb 16 @ 4:20 PM |
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BandTMom
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Ask her.
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| Feb 16 @ 4:23 PM |
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Loreli
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You started a new account just to ask about this?
Then there is probably no problem with her, either...you think?
Talk to her about it.
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| Feb 16 @ 5:05 PM |
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willowy1
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I see you speak dutch.  De vrouwen moeten niet dwaas betalen! 
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| Feb 16 @ 5:19 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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You have been with her for a year and yet you STILL dont trust her enough to NOT look at her open email---try being a mature 26 yr old and just ask her---if you do not know her well enough to be honest and open with her...I would really reconsider marriage.
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| Feb 16 @ 5:40 PM |
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thor22
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 ...and here I thought it was just the wimmens who don't trust! 
(course, they always have a good reason not too...)
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| Feb 16 @ 6:56 PM |
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JOY555
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1. you are on a dating site
2. you say you are 26, profile says 23
3. you say you are in a relationship
4. your profile says you are looking for casual dating
If you are in a relationship, why did you not choose the "in a relationship" option when you filled out your profile?
If I were your girlfriend and found out you had made up a profile to talk to people on the internet about me, big trouble 
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| Feb 16 @ 7:39 PM |
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Angel178
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| Feb 16 @ 7:42 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
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Haven't we all seen this before?
A brand new member ... in a *relationship* ...
Sets up a profile and posts one question.
Never to be heard from again.
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| Feb 16 @ 7:47 PM |
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Angel178
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| Feb 16 @ 7:48 PM |
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JOY555
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Haven't we all seen this before?
A brand new member ... in a *relationship* ...
Sets up a profile and posts one question.
Never to be heard from again.
Maybe we have it backwards, maybe his GF read his e-mails and now he is trying to find out from us how to get himself out of it 
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| Feb 16 @ 8:06 PM |
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eliteninjablade
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lol too funny girls.
obviously this is a fake profile :) i just wanted to see the responses i would get back. thanks anyway
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| Feb 16 @ 8:29 PM |
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robodad
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obviously this is a fake profile What? A fake! Really??!!?Why, I never heard of that! 
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| Feb 16 @ 8:35 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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just wanted to say.....it wasn't me... 
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| Feb 16 @ 8:46 PM |
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JOY555
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lol too funny girls.
obviously this is a fake profile :) i just wanted to see the responses i would get back. thanks anyway
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| Feb 16 @ 9:06 PM |
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signme
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Ok who wants to report the fake profile???
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| Feb 16 @ 9:10 PM |
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Loreli
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Yep, Jen.
I've brought it up before....but just wondered if someone was trying to bring new life here...
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| Feb 18 @ 3:13 AM |
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rough
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I don't believe it, surely no-one would have a fake profile on here!
Answering the question though... hypothetically, if your partner was PAYING to join dating sites, I would suggest that her intentions were dishonorable!
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| Feb 18 @ 4:32 AM |
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ForumMod
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don't worry. we know where he's actually from.  
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