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Angel178
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I agree mom...tired of all the crap. Like a rollercoaster ride. I'm too old for it
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| Feb 21 @ 11:24 AM |
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Skydognc
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totally agree Mom, at our age, we pretty much know what we want......
I am just looking at it in his generation, and what my kids experience, and what I see in the world today.
I am in no way encouraging him to ba an asshole.....
just dont get so wrapped up in "feelings" at 20 yrs old........
theres way too damn much life out there, yet unexplored in his world, to waste even a second on a girl, who doesnt have the decency to at least tell him, ...............
I like you, but I think I just want to be friends, I cant handle a relationship!
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| Feb 21 @ 11:25 AM |
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BandTMom
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just dont get so wrapped up in "feelings" at 20 yrs old........
theres way too damn much life out there, yet unexplored in his world, to waste even a second on a girl, who doesnt have the decency to at least tell him, ...............
I do remember the pain and heartbreak of being 20.
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| Feb 21 @ 11:29 AM |
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Skydognc
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ok, we all do..........
but let me ask you this........
looking back in hindsight.......
was it pain, or drama, masked as pain?
think about what you have experienced since then, then look back at it.....
I see that time in my life, and in my kids life, as pure drama, becuase I was clueless about"the real world"
just a thought......
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| Feb 21 @ 11:31 AM |
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JenRNinOhio
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~Agree with SkyDog~
but at the time it felt like pain
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| Feb 21 @ 11:33 AM |
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BandTMom
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A lot of it WAS drama, Doggie, because we were so damned and determined to be with "someone" no matter who that "someone" was. I married the first time because I didn't want to end up alone. I ended up with my younger boy's father for the same reason.
Well, I'm still alone, but content in that aloneness so I have learned. And I'm ready for him when he decides to show up.
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| Feb 21 @ 11:39 AM |
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Aeromuse
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Well, I'm still alone, but content in that aloneness so I have learned. And I'm ready for him when he decides to show up.
That's exactly where I was at not too long ago Mom. I was perfectly content to live out my life in my little house in the deep woods with my kitties.
Then - BAM! 
He'll show up Mom
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| Feb 21 @ 11:41 AM |
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BandTMom
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Just remember to light those candles, Muse. 
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| Feb 21 @ 11:41 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I'm 20...if my boyfriend had acted as if he didn't care about me way back when things started....he wouldn't be my boyfriend. The reason that I became attracted to him was because he made every effort to talk to me...he called me to say goodnight to me, he sent me Facebook messages before he was going to sleep, he loved to have long conversations with me, he was very open about his feelings...he really made a genuine effort to show me he cared, and he did it of his own accord. I didn't ask for any of it.
If a guy acts like he doesn't give a shit I'll assume he doesn't and move on. I don't have time for arrogant f***-offs.
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| Feb 21 @ 11:42 AM |
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Skydognc
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exactly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
well put!
and thats my point ststed much better.....
Here is a guy, 20 yrs old, who is losing it over a girl who has rejected him. It has insecurity and desperation all over it!
in my very honest opinion, he is not ready to be "in love" until he has learned its ok, not to be in love, and that life is good without it as well! If he doesnt get to that point, he will be clingy and desperate......
(like Thor) Kidding T-Man!
I feel bad for him, I truly do, becuse I remember the days......
but looking back, my best advice from experience........
go get a blow job, and quit taking life so serious! He has way too many days in front of him, where he will have too.......... now, he should be enjoying every moment of his freedom from the challenges ahead!
again...... only my thoughts, I could be wrong....
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| Feb 21 @ 11:44 AM |
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PullMyFinger
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Wimmenz in their 20's are evil, the 30's bring confusion and weight gain, by the time they reach their 40's, they're monstrously medicated and by the 50's, they're surrounded by stinking cats and just plain fkng scary, high on antidepressants.
You're either lucky and find one with a minimum of fkeduptedness, or you buy a dog and some vaseline....miracle whip can be substituted for vaseline if you're on a budget.
I got lucky but still have a dog, a couple tubs of vaseline and 2 Mexican channels on cable as backup.
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| Feb 21 @ 11:44 AM |
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Skydognc
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LG,
I have always told you , you are mature, far beyond your years........
and have always believed this about you.
but face it, you are definately not in the "norm" of todays modern 20 yr old girl. You actually have a mind that functions!
(last comment was a phunny) 
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| Feb 21 @ 11:49 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Well thanks. I'm mature in some ways, but not really in others but that's besides the point.
You are right about a lot of young girls, however, but definitely not me. I need A LOT of attention when I am in a relationship and if in the beginning stages a guy is aloof and inattentive to me that indicates that he will not be attentive as the relationship grows....and I want no part of that. That is why Marko became even more attractive to me...he fit with me perfectly.
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| Feb 21 @ 11:49 AM |
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Skydognc
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Muse said:
I was perfectly content to live out my life in my little house in the deep woods with my kitties.
PMF said:
they reach their 40's, they're monstrously medicated and by the 50's, they're surrounded by stinking cats and just plain fkng scary, high on antidepressants.
this is just wrong and fked up!
Muse is in her early 40' s and has more cats than Thor has had pussy!
she also wasnt hevily medicated until she moved here!
now the just plain scary part.............
She could scare a buzzard off a shitwagon.....
and thats on a good day!
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| Feb 21 @ 11:59 AM |
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thor22
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seriously tho, piodin...its like lipglossqueen said...if you ignore her she won't have anything to do with you...and wimmens are all about control...what this girl is actually doing to you is the ol' classic "bait & ignore" ploy...first she plays on your emotions and gets your attention just to ignore you and see how you react...
so what I reccomend for you to do is to go out and buy a fancy brand new automobile...say a "Hummer"(which would be very apporpiate!)...show up at her school and take her out to a fancy expensive resturant like white castle...buy her lots of clothes(yes, of course the nylons too!)...and take her to k-mart and buy her lots of jewerly...
and do all this even if you have to work 20 hrs a day for the rest of your happy lives together
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indigorose351
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Damn Harsh PMF......... said the woman over 50 !
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Skydognc
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Indy.....
we have about 9 cats to give away....
email me ya address!
and if you call in the next 20 minutes,
we will include a one month supply of prozac!
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| Feb 21 @ 12:07 PM |
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indigorose351
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Prozac? I would rather have the catnip
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JOY555
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I'm trying to move on but its like theres a double-sided axe stuck im my back. Who knows what will happen maybe I'll go into nevous breakdowns or something and need to get meds.
I guess I can only take the most extreme actions if I must speak with her again.
Thinking...
This is only from the 1st page  You are kind of scaring me 
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Loreli
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Here is a true story....
when my son was 20, he fell hard for a girl just on the verge of graduating high school. She had just lost 50 pounds, and was quite the Diva.
They were SO close for 2 years....together so much, yet spending time with their own friends, too.
I warned him that she had been awful young, and went through such a great change, he was her first real boyfriend....I felt it was hexed.
Sure enough-a year ago, she told him they needed a separation so they could both grow up. She's due any day with her next boyfriend's baby. It was eating my son up, but you have to sometimes understand that you might not understand.
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