| Mar 7 @ 7:21 PM |
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ayeayecaptn
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My boyfriend only called me once this whole week when usually he does like 3 or 4 times. He ALWAYS calls me today to tell me to come over. He has every weekend for our entire relationship. But today he hasn't. I called him twice, and he never called back. I don't want to keep calling him ya know? I don't know what to do. I have no idea if something happened to him or if he is just ignoring me. My friend said to drive all the way over to his house (he lives an hour away) but I think that is too psycho to do. What should i do?
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| Mar 7 @ 7:25 PM |
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KAOS2007
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Not much more you can do really, wait and see if he calls back I guess. 
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| Mar 7 @ 7:26 PM |
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Loreli
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He ALWAYS calls me today
That's talent!
So-he didn't call....maybe he was suffocating, changed his mind, working, spending time with family....
So what is your actual spam question?
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| Mar 7 @ 7:28 PM |
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ayeayecaptn
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I am sorry my question was too hard for you. All I would like is a little advice. Anyone else who is capable of understanding a simple little question, I would truly appreciate your opinions on what to do!
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| Mar 7 @ 7:31 PM |
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Loreli
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He had an emergency.....
Those were real answers....tough to swallow, maybe.
But you run to a dating site to find out what he's doing?
Talk to HIM.
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| Mar 7 @ 7:32 PM |
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ayeayecaptn
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that's kinda hard when he wont answer his phone!
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| Mar 7 @ 7:35 PM |
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Loreli
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Then, there's your answer.....
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| Mar 7 @ 7:36 PM |
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ayeayecaptn
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what!? That makes no sense! Okay can you please go away. I need real answers.
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| Mar 7 @ 7:40 PM |
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robodad
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You should listen to a friend before you listen to strangers...
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| Mar 7 @ 8:15 PM |
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Loreli
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I gave you answers
He's suffocating
had an emergency
changed his mind,
working,
spending time with family....
WHAT answer do you want?
Drive over there and see, then 
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| Mar 7 @ 8:18 PM |
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beachbabe
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Maybe try not to overanalyze the situation,just bide your time and the next time he calls find out his reasons for not calling sooner.The last thing you want to do is jump to conclusions 
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| Mar 7 @ 8:54 PM |
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wiccked
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 Loreli- are you thinking what I am???????????????? 
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| Mar 7 @ 8:57 PM |
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Loreli
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yep!  
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| Mar 7 @ 8:58 PM |
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wiccked
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do ya think i should post a pic??????? 
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| Mar 7 @ 9:00 PM |
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SonicFreak
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I agree with beachbabe.
Just because he didn't call you for one doesn't mean he doesn't love you or did anything bad.
If he doesn't call you more than 2-3 days, that is when you check on him.
But I don't a missed phone call for the day mean anything bad.
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| Mar 8 @ 10:57 PM |
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pomegranate
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He might be testing you. If something's happened to him, you'll find out soon enough and, if it hasn't, then he already knows you've been trying to reach him. Frankly, if he's doing it just to test you or whatever, I think he's very rude and childish, given that he's deviated from his usual pattern of calling you more often. I mean, if he wanted to go do something else with "the guys," fine, whatever. But the least he could have done is call you and let you know. Frankly, I'd be a little suspicious. Whenever they ignore you, there's always something going on. 'course, he could be dead, so that would be a legitimate excuse for him not calling, I suppose. ;-)
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| Mar 9 @ 8:44 AM |
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Fender
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My boyfriend only called me once this whole week when usually he does like 3 or 4 times.
Within this quote lies your answer...If my boyfriend only called me once a week he wouldn't be my boyfriend. He'd be a friend. If someone is in a relationship with you they usually take the time to call or see what's going on with you.
Obviously he doesn't care...No matter what kind of trauma or dilemma I would be in I would take time to let my significant other know what was going on. Even if it was a quick phone call.
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| Mar 9 @ 9:46 AM |
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RareQuestor
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Since you asked: Top Ten Reasons Why He Has Not Called You
1. He had to visit his wife at the state prison and the guards confiscated his cell phone.
2. He watched an episode of "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" and decided that it would be fun to be gay.
3. His buddies dared him to spend a day in Mexico.
4. His cell phone fell into the toilet and was accidentally flushed while he was using the can.
5. He is a CIA operative and had to leave for a secret mission in Mongolia.
6. He got food poisoning from a Happy Meal at McDonald's.
7. His vocal cords were permanently scarred when he ate an Indian meal with bhut jolokia peppers.
8. He joined a Trappist monastery and took a vow of silence.
9. He fell through a wormhole into an alternative dimension.
10. He was kidnapped by aliens and transported to a distant world.
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| Mar 9 @ 10:36 AM |
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FunFLgurl
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That is a good point actually....I mean asking on a dating site for advice about your bf but we are on a forum.
My last guy did the same thing. He wasn't cheating, but he was thinking about it he said. We didn't last much longer. The truth is I was cheating on him at the time and was about to break it off anyway.
I know it doesn't help. I'm probably much more screwed up but try not to dwell. Just let life be life and enjoy what there is in front of you, not whats in the back of your mind.
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| Mar 9 @ 11:02 AM |
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willowy1
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fungirl is a hoot.
OP send him flowers! 
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