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thor22
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yeah lor...just do 'em, jhy! 
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| Apr 21 @ 10:23 PM |
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signme
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It's a shame that kids can be so mean to each other. But they mostly learn it from their parents. My dad once said that once his generation died off, so would racial discrimination. Unfortunately that didn't happen. It was just passed down to the next generation. But at least my dad realized he was biased and tried to raise us to be different. And as a teacher who has taught many kids of different races, I've found that kids are just kids, and guys are just guys (as was just proved by Adrian! LOL)
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| Apr 22 @ 12:24 AM |
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pamdemonium
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You're so right! 
My neice works for a white woman, married to a black man. Their children, naturally mixed race.
The woman came into work one day, upset over an issue with her son. He wanted to date a particular girl, and the parents forbade it. They'd never met the kid, had no idea who he was.
In larger cities, mixed race couples might have a chance. In smaller communities, no matter the financial status, it's still frowned upon, socially.
Maybe not right, but it's the way it is.
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| Apr 22 @ 12:10 PM |
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10zie
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But a lot of the women who I am most attracted to come from a mulitracial family and it to me it does feel more acceptable and familiar.
Makes perfect sense to me. The strongest foundations are built on common grounds.
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| Apr 22 @ 2:39 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Maybe the way the OP is naturally attracted to mixed race people, some of us are just naturally attracted to our own race. I know it's not "PC" to say that, but it's the way I am...if I were single, I wouldn't date someone I wasn't attracted to. Marko is exactly the type of man I like physically...thick, blond hair, light eyes. People love to talk about how it's the inside that counts, and while that IS true...could you make love to someone you couldn't stand to look at?
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| Apr 22 @ 2:49 PM |
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thor22
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well lipgloss...wanna hear "the tale of the whale", jhy! 
(wouldn't really call it "making love" tho) 
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| Apr 23 @ 11:19 PM |
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custis
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If you really like someone, the color of their skin or their nationality should be of no concern whatsoever. However, if you just have a fetish over a skin color or the slant of someone's eyes, I find that rather sophomoric and shallow.
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| Apr 23 @ 11:39 PM |
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Tiramisu4u
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My oldest daughter is married to a black man....he is wonderful...successful and treats my daughter like a princess. They gave me 2 beautiful g-children. I couldnt be more blessed to see what a wonderful marraige and family they have.
AND.......When he throws a BBQ......OMG!!!!   
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| Apr 24 @ 12:57 AM |
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sthnhylander
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yeah I could.......
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| Apr 24 @ 10:58 AM |
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katydid438
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I never really thought about it too much,,,but since meeting a great guy in Cuba...I guess I could 
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| Apr 24 @ 11:51 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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If you really like someone, the color of their skin or their nationality should be of no concern whatsoever. However, if you just have a fetish over a skin color or the slant of someone's eyes, I find that rather sophomoric and shallow
Could you date a woman who was 400-500 pounds?
A lot of men couldn't.
I can't date black, Hispanic, or Asian men cos I just don't like the way they look, and I'm sorry, but I have to be attracted to the man that I'm dating. I love the look of Scandinavian men...they're fair and beautiful. That is what I like. I'm sure there are wonderful black, Hispanic, Asian whatever kind of men out there...but (if I were single) I wouldn't want to be with someone who it would disgust me to look at. That's just the reality.
It's not a "fetish" with me, but it is just what I like. I think people get really flipped out about race, and I think it's kind of funny. It's like this untouchable subject, and we're not "allowed" to consider skin color at all when selecting a partner. That doesn't fly with me.
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| Apr 26 @ 5:01 PM |
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thor22
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lipgq...that sounds kinda like not being allowed to pick their hair color.
a fellow I worked with hated Am. Indians (I call him Big Ben the Redneck) and always talked smack about us to anyone, anytime the opportunity presented itself for him to expose his ignorance...he had 4 daughters and the twins love the skins, hey...one of them even got knocked up by one while still in high school.
did someone say karma?
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| Apr 26 @ 5:16 PM |
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jdctx
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lipglossqueen9
ultimately people should have respect for anothers choice as I expect they would want the same respect
we all like what we like no matter its justification.
how ignorant and stupid would it be for me to pass judgement in what choice belong to you
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| Apr 26 @ 5:23 PM |
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BandTMom
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LGQ is right.
People who say it's what on the inside that counts are most of the time fooling themselves. If you are not physically attracted to a person, the a good chance you'll never get to know what's on the inside.
Once again, what one person finds attractive, another doesn't. When I say physically attractive, I'm not talking about some Chippendale dancer  or super model. We all have a "type" that catches our eye and prompts us to want to get to know the person on the inside.
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| Apr 26 @ 5:25 PM |
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signme
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I'm not passing judgement on anyone. Whatever I said goes for me and me only. Everyone is entitled to their own views and opinions. It's what makes this world so unique!
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| Apr 26 @ 10:07 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I really don't mind what other people do or what other people prefer, but yes I would like the same respect for my choices.
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| Apr 29 @ 10:29 AM |
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AngelLight
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I LOVE and adore the man I am with!
He's "mixed" (up), but then again, so am I  .
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| Apr 29 @ 2:14 PM |
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custis
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My girlfriend is a 41 yr old tall and shapely redhead with very pale skin. I love her body and her personality so it would not matter to me if she was green with blue hair.  Us guys tend to be funny that way. If she has a great ass and a great personality, we do not care if she is Nigerian or Uzbek.
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| Apr 30 @ 6:34 PM |
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brinkmann
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My ex is Asian. She had a racist aunt who made me kinda uncomfortable. In the end I ignored it and everyone else was cool. I didn't like hearing about what she said. Kinda funny since my ex's dad, who is Asian, married a white woman when he remarried.
As far as me personally, race is completely irrelevant. I decide whether I like someone based on their personality and how attracted to them I am, and if it feels right I go for it.
Ruling out a group of women based on race is cheating yourself IMHO. Honestly I have no racial preference. I treat everyone as an individual and choose my friends the same way. They make up a rainbow colored group, racially, sexual orientation wise, and politically. Only being around people exactly like you is boring.
In my case my wife and I split up because neither of us wanted to continue on in a destructive relationship. It honestly had nothing to do with race.
-B
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| Apr 30 @ 8:58 PM |
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SugarDaddy62
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When it comes to hot poon, they're all the same color to me. 
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