| Jan 10, 2006 @ 5:55 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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chrissyw1207
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 Hey guys, just wondering what is it about all of you. Now don't get me wrong, I know there are plenty of you out there, who love BBW's, but there are some who won't even give us the time of day. What's up with that? You know not all of us BBW's are nasty, smelly slobs. From my recent picture here, you can see I take very good care of my looks. I am curious to see all of your responses. 
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:09 PM |
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spongebob777
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You know not all of us BBW's are nasty, smelly slobs.
That's one Ive never heard. Actually I happen to like most of the BBWs I know but I'm just not sexually attracted. However there are plenty of men who are attracted.
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:13 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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waiting41
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You will get alot of people here to say it's personal preference, among other things. I'm with you.......it's on the inside what matters most, but, initially for alot of us I'm afraid physical attraction may be what draws us to a person.
I have noticed many times in my life when a persons looks seem to change, sometimes drastically, the more I get to know that person, if that makes any sense. 
I have had relationships, for example, where a guy, who, in my opinion, started out as "okay" looking, and the more I got to know him, he kept looking better.....and better....and better...... 
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:16 PM |
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walkingman
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I am with sponge on this one. I have met alot of BBW. There are some of the nicest people I have met. I just am not physically attracted to them. I feel like people of the same general build's are attracted to each other. It's just a matter of personal preference.
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:24 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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chrissyw1207
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so are you saying im not good looking enough for you??? I happen to think I am better looking the many slim ladies.....  
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:30 PM |
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spongebob777
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so are you saying im not good looking enough for you???
Not at all, in fact I think you're quite pretty. Ive never fallen in love with any large women but I don't think it's impossible.
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:31 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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MoonBeamTag45
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This is a very humbling comment...but I don't find large men to be sexually attractive. I have many large friends, and I love them. It doesn't deduct from who they are as people, but in a relationship, I want the person to care about themselves. ( now the humbling part ...I smoke ) There have been men that wouldn't date me because I smoke. I can understand that, and even appreciate it. It doesn't mean I'm a bad person, or that we can't chat...we're just different
Just be you honey, and don't fret... you are beautiful.
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:31 PM |
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MoonBeamTag45
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This is a very humbling comment...but I don't find large men to be sexually attractive. I have many large friends, and I love them. It doesn't deduct from who they are as people, but in a relationship, I want the person to care about themselves. ( now the humbling part ...I smoke ) There have been men that wouldn't date me because I smoke. I can understand that, and even appreciate it. It doesn't mean I'm a bad person, or that we can't chat...we're just different
Just be you honey, and don't fret... you are beautiful.
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:33 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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Classy_Blonde
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Chrissy,
I know. I'm a snoop. I just looked at your profile. I would, without a doubt, post your THIRD pic, as your main photo for viewing. It is GREAT!!
I think the same goes for we women, as goes for the guys. It is all a matter of personal preference. Don't you have a specific type of man that you are attracted to? I know I do.
[Edited on 1/10/2006 6:36 PM]
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:34 PM |
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walkingman
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Ok Chrissy. I should have said that it all depend's on the person.I checked your profile, You are very nice looking. I should haves said it all depend's on the how a person take's care of themselve's which you do. I based my opionion on the bbw I have met. That was not fair of me. I am sorry. My mistake.
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:35 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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chrissyw1207
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 thanks alot for the compliments everyone. Just because I am a BBW doesnt mean I eat alot. I happen to struggle with my weight and no one knows why. I eat 950 calories daily and that's it. I walk 2 miles a day. My entire family has had this problem and I will not use the same old lame excuse of having Thyroid problems.....Docs are baffled by this, as they are about many things in life. They call these Medical Mysteries.
I am very proud of the way I look. I take pride in myself. I feel as if those who don't want to get to know me because of some excess weight, their loss...
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:36 PM |
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chrissyw1207
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  Many thanks Jeff for admitting your wrong doing.....That takes a big man to admit he was wrong.....no hard feelings on my end!
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:38 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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Always_Striving
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What's up with that?
It has to do with personal preferences. Frankly I'm a little pissed that this subject came up, because women turn down guys all the time for various reasons -including looks. So why the hell can't us guys have personal preferences too? Should we just tell all you women to cover your faces and never speak a word so that men can not distinguish one woman from another?
Enact a law that requires you all to put bags over your head so that we won't be allowed to distinguish one woman from another?
That kind of a world is hopeless, Paleeeeeeeeze 
The Atlantic ocean? Think about the intent of the thread! No woman or person for that matter deserves to be noticed. THEY have to earn it. So get your butts out there compete and flaunt those tail feathers. The most attractive will always win.......Period
[Edited on 1/10/2006 6:53 PM]
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:39 PM |
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Classy_Blonde
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Glad you brought the dieting subject up.
My niece has always struggled with her weight. About two years ago, my sister took her to an allergenist (sp?), and it turns out, she is allergic to dairy products. Once she learned to steer clear of them, she dropped the excess pounds.
You never know.
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:39 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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waiting41
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 I am definitely with Classy (just not as snoopy) 
POST THE THIRD PIC!!! 
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:40 PM |
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MoonBeamTag45
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Chrissy...
I just looked at your profile too...it's great. I do agree with Classy...that I would change the main picture to the third one.
You are a beautiful lady...what a great smile !!!
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:40 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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MoonBeamTag45
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Dang...Leave it to women !!!! LOL
Chrissy...we love ya !
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:42 PM |
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chrissyw1207
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 wow that's alot coming from a man who has corn rows and Violet eyes, LMFAO......How fake is all of that????
Anyone who feels that they would need to be with me only if they covered my smiling face with a bag, should not think twice about swimming in the Atlantic where it is shark infested. Hopefully they would go for the NADS first, but slowly nibble on them, so you can think about what you just posted and how shallow you are 
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:42 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance
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chrissyw1207
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 i have 4 pics posted, how many more do you want me to post, lol
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| Jan 10, 2006 @ 6:43 PM |
WHy do men judge a book by it's cover? They could be missing out on the best thing ever, if they would give her a chance |
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walkingman
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thank you chrissy. I still feel like a sap. I will have an open mind to dating Bbw and it is because of you.
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