| May 6 @ 1:55 AM |
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Zanza
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Is it normal to keep thinking about a girl even though they said were not gonna see each other again? I feel like I'm  everyday and have such low energy and feel terrible looking at the only picture I have of her. This has been going on for far too long now....f***ing depressing.
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| May 6 @ 3:46 AM |
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custis
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Stop it! If she does not want to see you anymore, there is nothing you can do. Get rid of the picture and move on. Life is far too short to obsess about someone who is not interested in you. For every girl who is not interested in you, there is one who will be. Obsessing over her when she does not want you will only further convince her that you are a loser. Just stop it and move on. No ifs, ands or buts. Just move on.
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| May 6 @ 6:38 AM |
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BandTMom
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Yes it is normal and it will go away eventually.
Just put the picture up some place where it's not easy to get to (I wouldn't throug it away) and move on.
Every loss has a mourning period. How long it lasts is up to you.
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| May 6 @ 7:06 AM |
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rough
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yeah it's normal, but it fades with time.... go out and get yourself a date, go and have a few beers, do something, anything! I remember when I was a kid I split with my girl and only had one photo. I looked at that damn photo so many times, til i got fed up, burnt it, and went out and painted the town red (and ended up in bed with a really ugly girl). Maybe not the best advice, but it sure worked for me!
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| May 6 @ 8:49 AM |
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Zanza
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hmm burning a computer file....
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| May 6 @ 10:14 AM |
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Loreli
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Yes it is normal, but after a short period of mourning, you should forgive and forget.
It isn't worth making yourself sick over.
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| May 6 @ 5:32 PM |
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Zanza
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Is the pain suppose to fade? Because its been a few months now and I don't think its faded much. To make matters worse I actually met her in Mexico and I'm having feelings of calling her.
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| May 6 @ 5:48 PM |
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SensualGemini
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...Two ways to get over her... time, or a replacement and since I am not masochistic, I would opt for replacement asap. 
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| May 7 @ 10:43 AM |
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Zanza
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So I went to a coffee/pub last night and met this girl, she was about 2 years older than me though. Shell be there next week too... shes nice though
I guess this is helping a bit since I only checked that vacations girl myspace 3 times today instead of 8.
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| May 7 @ 10:53 AM |
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Loreli
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2 years older?
No biggie!
Try to make yourself quit looking at vacation girl's myspace.
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| May 7 @ 12:09 PM |
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lj450
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Your new girl is nothing but a crutch because you were too weak to walk away from the old girl on your own two feet.
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| May 7 @ 2:00 PM |
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willowy1
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you always walk mo steady.. with a pair!
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| May 7 @ 3:28 PM |
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Zanza
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Your new girl is nothing but a crutch because you were too weak to walk away from the old girl on your own two feet.
I cant help it man she touched my heart in ways I cant explain, the thing I got left is the photo with her and the intense flashbacks I sometimes get.
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| May 7 @ 3:47 PM |
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SensualGemini
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...  ... the delete button works well for photos on your PC and a match works for the real ones.
...My Grandma gave me a piece of advice when I was young; "when you get old, all you have left are memories, so you best be making them while you still can."
...Did you have a good time with this girl? ... Great! ... one memory, now get your butt in gear and make some more and for god's sake, don't be talking about the past with someone new.
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| May 7 @ 3:49 PM |
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SaintBacon
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What SG said...good advice there!
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| May 7 @ 5:27 PM |
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Zanza
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Delete that pic? I'm not sure what would happen to me if I did that. Damn memories is all I got after this torture. By the way I'm not with "someone new" I just met her and shes gonna be there next week too.
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| May 7 @ 5:44 PM |
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BandTMom
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It's only torture if you allow it to be.
Chalk it up as one of life's experiences and move on. You are to young to be wallowing in pity.
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| May 7 @ 5:54 PM |
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Zanza
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Yea your right I guess its just one of life's miserable moments. I'll just call her one more time and then hopefully I can move on.
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| May 8 @ 4:30 PM |
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pamdemonium
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Custis is right. SG is right.
Just stop it! You're reopening the wound every
time you contact her. You're gonna make a nice
mess for yourself if you keep it up.
Save what's left of your dignity and let her go.
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| May 8 @ 5:01 PM |
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Laidback742
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Just a suggestion ....
QUIT LOOKING AT HER FREAKIN' PICTURE!
Easy, huh?
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