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urbeautifulangel
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Beauty is only on the interior. Look at Michael Jackson. He did so much work on himself and spent so much money and where is it now? The only thing that matters at this point is how good of a person he was. I would say the entire world is shallow at this point, except for a few. Guys are only looking for sex anyway so wear a bag and they are in your bed. I have no respect for men and keep trying to find the one that just stands out. I think this happened after too many bad experiences with them. I have gone on over 100 dates in 4 years and never met a really great man. That is horrible odds! So, the answer to your question is.........the world is shallow. Wish it would change.
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| Jul 2 @ 12:45 AM |
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chubs
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100 dates in 4 years?!!! did ya put out any? 
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| Jul 2 @ 4:50 PM |
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newlife2006
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The point is - beauty alone is not enough for making a person attractive, it's CHARM that matters .
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| Jul 3 @ 3:40 PM |
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Always_Striving
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Yes I would like a pretty face to look at and be happy with while in a relationship. As long as she is reasonably height to weight proportional then that'll be ok. It is especially important that she honestly appreciates spending time together, thinks I'm funny, and like my ethics.
Sharing a whole lot of common interests and leaving a little room to explore new things is beautiful too. The best relationships of my life lasted because of my significant other's creativity and williness to impress me with her great ideas.
That is pretty much what I want, also a woman that has nurturing characteristics ..... that is very attractive to me.
I am absolutely repulsed by the type of women who act like they have the need to be suited up for roller derby or t.v. wrestling - tearing clumps of hair out of people's heads, or use snuff/ chaw spittoons while hoisting up her crotch as if she has a package too.
This kind of description actually belongs in my profile but since Jen created a thread then I figured oh well..... the door is opened now.
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| Jul 4 @ 3:25 AM |
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lobo65
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Angel's post was hilarious.
[Edited on 7/4/2009 3:27 AM]
[Edited on 7/4/2009 3:28 AM]
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| Jul 4 @ 3:26 AM |
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lobo65
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This thread cracks me up. I want to find someone beautiful too--at least to me.
I wouldn't say I'm the best looking guy in the world, but my mom loves me any way, and little kids don't run screaming from the room when I come in. 
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| Jul 4 @ 9:02 AM |
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eyesofastranger
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I have never cared about my looks. I can't be accurately photographed because when you sit down with me and talk I slowly become entirely different looking. I know thia and have been told this many times. I married a girl with a body and face exactly the same as a supermodel. Actually I put a pic on our desktop of a nude supermodel with the head cropped and she stared at it for a while then asked when the hell did I take that pic of her nude? But she was just ordinary where she came from so it has been very strange for her to wake up stunning beautiful one day. It hasn't changer her one bit.
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| Jul 4 @ 9:17 AM |
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chubs
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so, if your wife is that beautiful, then she must be from Aruba!
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| Jul 4 @ 7:13 PM |
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Fender
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All I can say is that if someone wanted a "hot chick" and stated that on their profile I wouldn't write them...Hell I don't write people on here anyway but that's besides the point.
...I honestly usually just like people who have good personalities...Sadly though, a good personality can turn out to be a motherfvcking prickface once you move in with them and leave all that you know behind. Not that I'm a complainer though...Evidently I'm just a nagging jealous bitch with not a shot in hell of ever being happy.
Ah, that felt good to get out.
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| Jul 4 @ 7:17 PM |
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kjac
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Sadly though, a good personality can turn out to be a motherfvcking prickface
Stop telling my secrets. 
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| Jul 4 @ 7:43 PM |
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DwainP50
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I usually go by their picture first not only to see if they are cute but have a genuine smile. Then go and check out their profile to see if they can articulate a little about themselves. A smile and being able to articulate about yourself is sort of my assessment of someone’s profile. Some profiles just plan blows! Beauty has always been in the eye of the beholder and I go by what I think is cute or beautiful not what Hollywood of fashion magazines tell me what it is. 
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| Jul 7 @ 4:23 PM |
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agustinge
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I believe beauty is not just a phisical quality...
many things can make a woman or a man a beautiful person.
after all beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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| Jul 8 @ 1:30 PM |
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Fender
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^^^Bravo 
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| Jul 19 @ 5:02 PM |
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everrett
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Beauty is so relative that it is as pointless as saying you want someone that is fun. People need to describe what they want. In my case I know there are some features that I find beautiful that do not fall into the catagory of traditional beauty. So yes, I want a woman that I consider to be beautiful, who is also likely to maintain that beauty even when she is old and grey.
Is that all I want? Of course not. It is one of MANY characteristics that are important.
Does that mean I am shallow? People that are only focused solely on looks could be considered shallow. It does not mean that anyone that cares about appearance is automatically shallow. Just like not everyone who is overweight is lazy.
There are also those women who are attactive that become more beautiful the more time you spend with them. However they would already need to be attractive to start making those leaps. For me attractiveness boils down to weight, hygene, the way a woman moves, and general poise.
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| Jul 19 @ 6:55 PM |
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DiamondRain
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My lifetime observation is that *IN GENERAL*, the appeal of a person's personality is inversely proportional to their looks.
That is, the better looking they are, the less appealing their personalities are.
I see many physically beautiful women. But often, the minute they open their mouths, I am completely turned off. On the other hand, I also meet a lot of women with interesting personalities but find their appearances often leave me uninspired.
I've hypothesized that this happens because people who's physical appearance is not exceptionally appealing tend to focus on building their personalities as a compensation in order to be socially appealing. People who are physically attractive don't need to do this as they are usually popular without it.
For me, the turn on is that rare exception: the woman who has both. That gets my va va voom going. I am surprised how uncommon it is (except on MD  ).
A stunning woman with a humble personality? There's another combination that gets my motor going.
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| Jul 19 @ 7:01 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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I can kind of see what you're saying, DR...
I didn't get my looks until I was 20....and while I was the ugly duckling I developed a personality...
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| Jul 19 @ 7:01 PM |
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BluEyedQT
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I see many physically beautiful women. But often, the minute they open their mouths
I think you can also say that it has to do with your expectations. You wouldn't be nearly so disappointed if an ugly girl was stupid.
JMHO
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| Jul 19 @ 7:10 PM |
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DiamondRain
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Hmmm... but I said that my experience leads me to have the expectation that a physically appealing woman will have an UNappealing personality and that a less physically appealing woman will have an interesting personality. So I don't think that's right. 
When that beautiful woman opens her mouth and something great comes out of it... THAT'S when my expectations are violated. And that's a good thing! The unexpected pleasant surprise.
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| Jul 24 @ 12:20 AM |
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everrett
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Actually I have found that many unattractive people have equally unattractive personalities. Some have suffered for their looks and respond in ways they have been treated.
I take each person as they come and let them reveal what they will.
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| Jul 24 @ 1:25 AM |
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indecipherable
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both good points, Diamond and Everrett. I think what Diamond said about very physically attractive women having underdeveloped (or no) personalities tends to be true with women in their teens through their early 20's. At that age, they let their looks do the talking because they know they'll get hit on. But when the cellulite and wrinkles start appearing...
But Everrett is right too. Don't judge a book by its cover.
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