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| Jul 2 @ 4:05 AM |
is it really love,or a lie?-please,please help
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heyimthatguy
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ok so im 21,and i met agirl[20] on facebook,,iknow what your thinkin[itll never work
well,we met up,really kicked it off to say the least,seen her about 3times already and have been dating for 3months,,only thing 1 month and half in,,,all this wierd stuff starts poppin up,now she lives with her uncle and he confirmed it on the phone with me
but,,shes gettin more distant lately,,and i havent seen her for the last month and ahalf,,and we talk ont he phone for about 7hrs aday at night,since,,we cant see each other right now
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like she doesnt want me leavin comments on her pics anymore since i got in afight cause one of her friends mocked me on it[verbal fight]and she says she doesnt want that,,but then her fb supposably said we werent in arelationship anymore..which i know she has to click,,and she denies,,it but i told her i want her to put it back up
and she told,me''whats the big deal,its just the internet id ont care what they say,i care what u say''and shes always goin on and on about how much she loves me...but if she loved me couldnt she do that one tiny thing??and not make a big deal about it
and she doesnt think that her guy friends doin certain things,will matter,cause she says she only loves me,like if there all,,o you look so beautiful ;) ona picture,,i cant do nothin about it,,,and now im bien put second behind her friends like everyday,,and shes says that o well ill do this,ill do that,,but then she forgets[also supposably,,,]and gets pissed when i get all pissed about it,and says that im tryin to create drama
now she wants to move in with me,but i havent seen her for amonth and ahalf,,plus,her phone dies mysteriously half the time we talk now,,but then she always begs me to believe her,,now after what her friends have done,shouldnt i have the right to be jealous,and should i move in with her,or is she lying?i mean its hard to think someone would lie,,if they talk on the phone with you for 7 hours!! seems like a waste of time
o and she was raped,before i met,her and has a stalker x boyfriend,,[i dont know if that should be a big warning sign,but i try to overlook things like that
what should i do,what should i say to all of it,,how do i catch her if she is lying,since ive not seen her,,,and she talks about marriage all the time[i never brought it up-and she told me she loved me like week 2
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| Jul 2 @ 4:10 AM |
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chubs
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well, you should marry her while you still have the chance! 
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| Jul 2 @ 4:15 AM |
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heyimthatguy
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what if its all jsut a lie,,and shes just a really sadistic person,,i mean shes made 5 promises in the last 2 weeks and only kept one....but i cant get rid of her,everytime i try,i miss her too much,,if i could pin her to the ground with one of these lies,,id deff be able too
i just want to know,,if you all think she is lying,or what is in my best interest-and if shes just bonkers or somethin
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| Jul 2 @ 4:18 AM |
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chubs
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well, wimmenz don't usually lie, espically about love, but she is probably just confused and too excited about you...so you really should snag her before its too late and someone else grabs her...she really sounds like a good wimmenz and a great catch! 
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| Jul 2 @ 4:40 AM |
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heyimthatguy
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lol are you kidding,,she keeps lying tho,,how can someone say they love someone else,if all they keep doing is lying,thats like saying''hey i love you enough to give my word but never keep it''and im bieng placed like 2nd-3rd all the time lately
and its always about her,and shes never willing to compromise,,why would i want somethin like that,,but like i said,she crys theni feel bad,then i think about it
but when i get down to it,,i think i love the thought of her,and since she cant hold a promise isnt that a lie too?
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| Jul 2 @ 5:23 AM |
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chubs
Posts: 2,130
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well, kid, its like this...wimmenz love from their heart which we menz all know is true, but sometimes in the natural course of life and its unexplained or unplanned little complications things will suddenly come up to mess with your blissful beginnings and some compromise have to be reached and agreed upon between the 2 parties (usually the menz)...and so if a wimmenz ever assurres and tells you that she will call you back, or write you back, but then doesn't do that for any long amount of time that causes you to begin to worry and doubt her veracity...just don't make the same mistake I ever did and call her on it and what she had previously told ya'a...that will only get you into more trouble and will make you the bad guy...espically if she couldn't avoid what it was that delayed her, and espically if she has to further explain what delayed her due to your own ignorant insistance of wanting to know what delayed her, as if its any of your pervue to make such demands in the first place...I mean, hey, they running the show and if something comes up to make us feel like we only 2nd, 3rd, or 4th...so be it, and if we insist that we feel like we have a right to know why...then that will be what makes them lie then...so like me, it will only be your very own fault that you cared enough to want to know, and you might lose her too! 
[Edited on 7/2/2009 5:43 AM]
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| Jul 2 @ 3:47 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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Oh lord where to begin??... First and foremost you are being played son.. she is controlling the hell outta you... if you really are in a relationship with her and she cares for you as much as you seem to care for her then her status on ALL sites should reflect that without saying... Sorry to say she is not that into you ... and I know it hurts but it would be better to MOVE ON... a date a month really does not constitute a relationship especially if one of the partners is acting as you say she is...what it does constitute is maybe a booty call arrangement .. not necessarily sexual but more of a "well when you are around we can be together thingy" .. If you are looking for something more substantial then I would look elsewhere and maybe c loser so that you can see each other more often.. It really takes maturity (which she might lack) to have a LDR or one where you can see each other often.. good luck
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| Jul 2 @ 3:55 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,529
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Its a lie.
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| Jul 2 @ 4:25 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
Posts: 23,834
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She is a fake. Using you.
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| Jul 2 @ 4:29 PM |
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burnslikethesun
Posts: 13,005
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I agree with Lj and Spirts
Run man run
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| Jul 2 @ 10:19 PM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 37,948
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Lie.
Run while you can.
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| Jul 2 @ 10:24 PM |
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uab_5
Posts: 4,753
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Listen to what BandTMom says!
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| Jul 3 @ 10:35 AM |
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artcat7
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RUN! She is playing you..........and BTW, chubs is kidding.
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