| Jul 31 @ 6:04 PM |
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mortalez
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Found this artical here.: http://www.prweb.com/releases/online/dating/prweb2082894.htm
It may be decades since the sexual revolution but a new survey from free online dating site www.smooch.com shows some gender divisions might never change.
Smooch - Free Online Dating
Smooch asked its members if people who have sex on the first date are liberated or simply 'easy' and the response from over 37,000 members was overwhelming: A resounding 65% of men consider such behaviour refreshingly liberated, whilst an equally emphatic 65% of women think it's unacceptable.
Female respondents were cautious and judgemental with comments such as:
If he wants to do that with you, he's probably tried it with everyone.
He won't respect you if you do.
I don't want to be another notch in the bedpost.
Conversely male respondents were eager to see such actions in the best possible light:
Most of my long term relationships have started with first date sex - the chemistry was irresistible!
Women who think it's 'easy' are living in the dark ages and that's what I'd find offputting.
If it feels right do it! I wouldn't date a woman who let calculations override her emotions.
The obvious question has to be however, if so many women consider first date sex unacceptable, precisely who are all these 'liberated' men having first date sex with?
Research:
Smooch.com polled 37,540 members over a one week period. Detailed stats & breakdowns available on request.
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| Jul 31 @ 8:06 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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interesting, thanks for sharing.
Im making my Anne wait til we are married.
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| Jul 31 @ 8:07 PM |
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Nightowl001
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The obvious question has to be however, if so many women consider first date sex unacceptable, precisely who are all these 'liberated' men having first date sex with? I don't believe what you THINK of sex on a first date necessarily means you've HAD sex on a first date.
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| Jul 31 @ 9:44 PM |
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mortalez
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LoL the answer to that is simple the 65% of men are haveing sex with the same 35% of women lol kinda like highschool exept that 35% is much harder to narrow down I would guess. since you dont have the gossip mil like you did back then.
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| Aug 1 @ 12:02 AM |
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ForumMod
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is smooch.com your dating website per chance? the one you were told not to advertise here unless you contract with our business office?
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| Aug 1 @ 12:15 AM |
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BandTMom
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*giggle
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| Aug 1 @ 8:31 AM |
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mortalez
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is smooch.com your dating website per chance? the one you were told not to advertise here unless you contract with our business office?
no, infact I found this artical on a blog.
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| Aug 1 @ 2:29 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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so..to recap....if she will have sex with me on the first date.... she PROBABLY will have/has had sex with others on the first date too...
statistically.. she is probably in the slut category... and has herpes....
thanks but no thanks.... 
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| Aug 1 @ 2:46 PM |
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mortalez
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lol my ex-wife had sex with me on the first date and that lasted 9 years, the last longterm I had that was 2-1\2 years also had sex onm the first date.
in fact most women who have made me wait it did not last very long, maybe because it had so much time to build up in my mind the actual sex could not compete, while getting it out of the way early it never becomes an issue.
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| Aug 1 @ 2:55 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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 ..I am not you.....
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| Aug 17 @ 9:19 AM |
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cherishlife7898
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Well , that depends . It's the way which the physically thirsty two will do . I think only the responsible man will wait for their intimacy to come naturally by getting to know his special one patiently . Love is responsibility , respect and appreciation rather than pure physical fun .
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| Aug 18 @ 2:58 PM |
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newlife2006
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For non-emotional ( first-date ) sex there's hardly any need for matchmaking websites - it would be less time consuming to simply use sex-service order (male or female ) catalog sites , dont you agree?...
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| Aug 19 @ 8:55 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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ew....no sex on the first date plz
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| Sep 2 @ 6:34 PM |
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SKIDELZ
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I've done it ... but it ruins everything .... hi everyone , 
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| Sep 2 @ 10:19 PM |
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alaskenmike
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No Sex Please, We're Women!
Yeb, the old get away from me you man !... all day  and come here...come here,  lover boy all night thing. Women !!!  
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| Sep 2 @ 10:24 PM |
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willowy1
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^^you may have that theory backwards.
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| Sep 2 @ 10:33 PM |
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katydid438
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^^you may have that theory backwards.  ..sweet jesu,,you are one sharp cookie Willow  ...I luv it
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| Sep 2 @ 11:38 PM |
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chubs
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uh, smooch getz itself over 37,000 members per week logging on and looking fer love in all the wrong places, while over here in deadsville we average less than 400 a day...oh wow, what is poor ol' chubs still doing hanging around MD anymore
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| Sep 2 @ 11:45 PM |
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willowy1
Posts: 9,181
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don't let the revolving door hit ya where the god lord split ya.
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| Sep 2 @ 11:52 PM |
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chubs
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humpphftt! 
well, I didn't say I was running right on over there to join up, but maybe I'll put it in my bucket list
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