| Aug 9 @ 11:06 PM |
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skierdude246
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How do you know if a women is flirting with you or just being friendly
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| Aug 9 @ 11:28 PM |
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indecipherable
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You don't. But if you suspect it, and like her, I think you should reciprocate. 
Otherwise, you'll never know!
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| Aug 10 @ 9:29 AM |
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Fender
Posts: 8,474
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Listen to what he wrote...You have to take a chance! Good luck!
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| Aug 10 @ 9:35 AM |
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Loreli
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^^2 very good answers!
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| Aug 10 @ 9:44 AM |
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mysterious30165
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Great job indec. Good Answer.
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| Aug 10 @ 10:16 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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i agree, with Inde.
yet there is another way ya can tell.
If they lean in, its a flirt, think Marilyn Monroe.
If they lean back its just being nice, like old Aunt Sue, getting a good look at how you have grown.
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| Aug 10 @ 10:28 AM |
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katydid438
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If they lean in, its a flirt ...I've found this to be true
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| Aug 10 @ 11:09 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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me too.
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| Aug 10 @ 7:57 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
Posts: 4,103
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How can you tell from looking at your monitor
screen if I'm leaning in ... or back??
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| Aug 10 @ 8:05 PM |
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Laidback742
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How can you tell from looking at your monitor screen if I'm leaning in
If my monitor gets dented ..... you're leaning in ....
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| Aug 10 @ 8:07 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
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Not even gonna ask what caused the dent.
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| Aug 10 @ 8:10 PM |
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Laidback742
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Well you were the one leaning .....
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| Aug 10 @ 8:47 PM |
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ForumMod
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here are a few more threads on the subject:
http://www.matchdoctor.com/forumSearch.aspx?search=flirting
as you can see, you've asked something that every guy has wondered since time began, lol.
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| Aug 10 @ 8:58 PM |
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knotkeeno
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guess we keep asking because we still don't know.....
and if we respond to a flirt in the "wrong" way we get called names, sexist pig, dirty old man.....
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| Aug 10 @ 9:25 PM |
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Nightowl001
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you've asked something that every guy has wondered since time began, lol. Wouldn't it be great if we actually got an answer!
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| Aug 12 @ 7:18 PM |
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indecipherable
Posts: 546
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right knotkeeno. I hate that. women just aren't obvious enough. 
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| Aug 12 @ 8:02 PM |
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your_princess
Posts: 3,389
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right knotkeeno. I hate that. women just aren't obvious enough.
OH like you men are any better?!? I have the hardest time trying to figure this out in every day life!! I never want to be wrong, because that flattered feeling vanishes very quickly when you want to crawl under a table when you find out he was just being friendly.
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| Aug 12 @ 8:06 PM |
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Laidback742
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You know, if we always knew exactly what other people were thinking all the time ... life would be pretty dull ..... figuring each other out might be a pain in the ass at times, but at least it keeps things interesting .....
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| Aug 13 @ 7:15 AM |
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MotownManiax
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here are a few more threads on the subject:
to ForumMod. I thought this topic's been done to death...lol.
I think the context most people have with flirting is of a more mature nature, whether there is "serious" intent behind it or just playful fun.
Like most on here, I flirt like crazy. But it's all innocent. Distance makes it so, since every woman on here lives too far away to even meet, let alone date.
Some may then charge if the behavior doesn't indicate serious follow up, isn't it disingenuous and harmful to an impressionable and gullible mind?
It would be if the flirter is not 100% honest and mature about it, and never spells out their intent from the beginning. If you know someone is obviously starstruck and infatuated over you, and your feelings aren't equal and reciprocal, but you string them along with false interest, flattery, and "promises" of relationship follow up, you're being dishonest and using the emotional goodwill of the other person for your own selfish ego.
If "both" understand the flirting is not serious there shouldn't be any foul. But I know misunderstandings happen all the time. When they do, it's up to the individuals involved to be adult about things and clear it up.
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| Aug 13 @ 10:14 AM |
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Fender
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I never want to be wrong, because that flattered feeling vanishes very quickly when you want to crawl under a table when you find out he was just being friendly. Hell yeah.
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