| Oct 14 @ 10:55 PM |
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MisterJ
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I have a friend who I have known since gradeschool. We're both in our mid twenties. He has been seeing a girl now for the last six years or so. They live together and share a home. I suppose it all started about a year or so ago. Me and his girlfriend of six years have been fooling around. It all started so innocently. A hug that of might of lasted a bit too long, a shoulder rub, a peck on the lips and such. But it has evolved into full flesh making out. It has happened at his place while he is present hosting parties and whatnot. Now, I will admit I am aware that I am fully in the wrong and what I am doing will eventually hurt everyone involved, but I get such a thrill out of it. Just the other weekend while bar-hopping for a friends birthday we were grinding on each other on the dance floor when he walked up and caught us. Not much happened of it though I am surprised. The following day we were all hanging out at his house watching the games and grilling some food. I guess he just blamed it on the alcohol.
Although it hasn't led to actual sex, I am afraid it eventually will. She has told me in the past that she has had dreams of us sleeping with each other. Even I had one the other day involving her. I really can't believe the situation I am in since.... Or at least thought I loved my best friend like a brother. I am unsure how I should approach it.
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| Oct 14 @ 11:52 PM |
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redhairNfreckles
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Around these parts, that could get yer ass shot right out from under ya! 
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| Oct 14 @ 11:53 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Quit screwing around with your "best friends" girl and get your own.. you know it's wrong or you wouldn't be asking how to "approach" it !
Simple enough 
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| Oct 15 @ 12:20 AM |
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Say_Yes
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I've got news for you. If you are messing around, with his girl, behind his back, then you are not his best friend.
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| Oct 15 @ 12:31 AM |
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wandaful123
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and not only are you not his best friend.... but she will not be a friend of your either...
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| Oct 15 @ 12:36 AM |
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willowy1
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Oh ya? Last night I dreamed I kissed the newest Nobel Peace Prize recipient (lousy kisser by the way!)
Screwing HIS girlfriend will NOT make YOUR penis any bigger.  
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| Oct 15 @ 12:47 AM |
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wandaful123
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Can't sleep either willowy? 
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| Oct 15 @ 12:57 AM |
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willowy1
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I could I guess  but I have all this orneriness built up and no place to spew it.
Hello wonderful Wanda you have been missed! 
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| Oct 15 @ 1:00 AM |
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chubs
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misterJ...just do her, that way she would be mrsJ 
(oh, thats a name of resturant in my hometown...mr & mrs J's!) 
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| Oct 15 @ 7:48 AM |
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oct_cat
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 Are you for real???
Come on people . . . someone finds a singles site, makes a new profile because he 'has a relationship' problem?? 
Whatever happened to writing to Ann Landers, or Dr Ruth, heck try emailing Dr. Phil . . . he'll set ya straight.
Methinks a 'duper' is in da house.
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| Oct 15 @ 12:22 PM |
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redhairNfreckles
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^^^^ I agree
I think many of these "posers" are former disgruntled members. 
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| Oct 15 @ 1:54 PM |
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wandaful123
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Willow, thanks!
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| Oct 15 @ 2:08 PM |
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drs297
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if your going to screw him over why not just fuk them both. get it over with all at once
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| Oct 15 @ 7:34 PM |
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Laidback742
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What ^^^ said .....
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| Oct 15 @ 8:42 PM |
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daisy315
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| Oct 16 @ 2:20 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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You should stay away from your best friend's girlfriend and not "approach it". That's really what you should do. Find your own gf. If she wants you that's her problem that she needs to solve with him. She needs to think about why she's straying. It's not your job to satisfy her sexual needs, it's his, and if he's not doing it...it's their job to discuss that. Stay out of their relationship.
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| Oct 16 @ 5:56 PM |
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Laidback742
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What ^^^ said, too.
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| Oct 16 @ 9:32 PM |
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chubs
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LGQ...but if he does her, just think of all the exciting forbidden sex he can have hiding it from his best friend
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| Oct 17 @ 6:09 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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yeah that works in a porn not in real life. some of my boyfriend's friends would like to do me, and i have never given it a thought. do you know how many times they steal the phone and yell shit at me like "I LOVE YOU" or something? one time one of them heard marko say i was getting dressed and he took the phone and said to me "please don't get dressed..."
so yeah, i don't EVER give that a second thought. i have one man i share my body, mind, and heart with. that's what a relationship should be, and if she feels the need to stray, her and HER BOYFRIEND need to settle that and decide whether they should stay together or not.
this shit really makes me mad...people who think it's "hot" to sleep with already attached people, especially if their others are their "best friend". best friend my ass.
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| Oct 18 @ 2:52 AM |
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MisterJ
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I thought I would feel some shame or guilt but the fact is I simply don't. I feel nothing. I can still look this man straight in the face with a smile, laugh at his jokes, make conversation, and cheers a drink as if nothing is wrong. I want her, and I always get what I want regardless of the consequences.
I made this post thinking that getting this off my chest would give me some solace or guidance. To realize I am hurting my best friend and I need to immediately stop what I am doing. But now I am revealing in the fact that my affair with her has gone unnoticed for nearly a year now.
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