| Oct 20 @ 1:45 PM |
My dilemma with the first girl that I ever really am interested in. Please help.
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Zaraki
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I met an awesome girl in a college class like 5-6 weeks ago and the week when I was going to ask her out, she did not show up.
We talked for a total of 6 hours, which is 2 class sessions, 3 hours each.
Since then she has not shown up to class, so I guess she dropped the class. She did tell me that she was forcefully taking the class, so I guess she did not like the class. The class was a communication class that required you to go up in front of class to recite poems and prose's.
Anyways... after not seeing her for 2 weeks in-class, I figured I would drop by where she works in order to ask her out to ice skating for a first date. Unfortunately, I was not able to find her at her work place.
Since then I have stopped trying to get into contact with her. However, I could not get her out of my head because I want to know if she would have said yes or no when I was going to ask her. The reason for this is because, when I was talking to her she seemed so awesome and there were lots of genuine(gleaming) eye contact and I believe there was a good enough of a click for a date.
Some information about her: We are the same age (20 years old).
Said she does not like to dance (which I found interesting because she is in great shape and if she does not like dancing then it most likely also mean that she is not a party girl, right?).
I just got out of my other class and what a surprise.... I saw the girl that I am talking about leaving a class that is right next to my class.
However, when I saw her I just kept walking and froze up! I did not even go up to start a conversation. I think she did not see me! I froze up because I was not ready to see her at all. I could not comprehend it. I was so out of place at that moment. It was so damn shitty. Now that I know she has a class next to mines, I will definitely say something on Wednesday.
What are some things I should say? I was planning to first say. Hey it's "Megan!"(not her real name) How have you been? Ohh good to hear. Hey whatever happened to you and the class? You all of a sudden dropped out. I know you said you were forcefully taking it and that the teacher was arrogant.... blah blah blah
After the quick hello's and how are you and updates, I am going to ask her for her number. I will say something along the lines of this: You seem like a cool friend. Lets's hang out this week. Let me have your number.
What do you guys think?
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| Oct 20 @ 6:26 PM |
My dilemma with the first girl that I ever really am interested in. Please help. |
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chubs
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well, I think that because it was a communication class, and megan (not her real name), dropped it without even communicating to you that she indeed had dropped it for sure, is a good sign that megan is no longer interested in communicating with you, so, you probably better just move on. Also, when, and if, you do meet someone new and different, don't be shy and afraid to communicate your feelings and intentions to her right away while the two of you are communicating, and before something similar happens that might cut off that new communicaion your having with her...see, communtcaion is the key and in this and every future relationship you become involved in, you and the wimmenz are going to have to learn how to communicate with each other, and the sooner you learn to communicate with the communication skills you need to communicate with them, the sooner your communication of that will help you to successfully communicate your feelings, and pay attention in your communication class so you learn how to communicate with them wimmenz better. by communicating this to us here at MD, you are taking a good step towards learning how to communicate better. if you happen to see megan on wednsday and communcate with her again, however, by all means please keep in communication with us here at MD. although not every member here will communicate with you in this thread, most of us here know what your going though, and we will be watching to learn if you stay in communication. 
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