Internal and external attraction:Is one superior to the other?

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Jan 26, 2006 @ 9:09 PM Internal and external attraction:Is one superior to the other?

suzieq0808

Posts: 1,080
I used to be dirt poor and butt ugly. Then I decided to become non-materialistic and ruggedly handsome.

Yep, it's all in the marketing.

Jan 26, 2006 @ 9:15 PM Internal and external attraction:Is one superior to the other?

livinlovinMO

Posts: 2 You have a very good point there. I guess someones love is what they make it and what makes them happy. I don't want to get in trouble here, but some men go after that dream girl and then when they have been with her for a week or so realize she is a ditz and keep on searching. When a woman gets those internal feelings it takes a little more time to get rid of that feeling. Does that make any sense.

Jan 29, 2006 @ 9:55 AM Internal and external attraction:Is one superior to the other?

Thor1960303

Posts: 3,555 Livinlovin,it absolutely makes sense.I think both genders would do well to learn from each other.Men would do well to try to learn (as much as possible,men's and women's brains are wired differently)the woman's techniques of watching body language and expanding their intuition.Women would do well to learn the man's ability to be emotionally guarded and not to take every aspect of this mating thing so seriously.After all,aren't we all looking to just have fun sometimes?What's wrong with that?

Feb 24, 2006 @ 1:08 PM Internal and external attraction:Is one superior to the other?

Dad2Four44

Posts: 56 It's hard for me to answer this one. I know I'm a big guy and nice looking at the same time. Still not the right combination for most. I will look at a profile and if I see that their ideal mate would have to be toned/muscular/average...I don't even bother because that person has already chosen not to get to know who I really am. Why waste my time, right?

Truthfully, I have never dated a woman with those traits because I have never found anyone with those traits who will give me the time of day. I assure you, the rest who gave me the time of day got the absolute respect and honor I can give them.

After saying that, I feel to some...appearances do matter. Just know, to the ones I have winked at on this site, it was mainly what you wrote in your profile is what encouraged me to wink.

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