| Jan 30, 2006 @ 1:51 AM |
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wittynaughty
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I have been for some time, trying to date younger women (Tom Cruise Philosophy) without any success at all. I am in my very early 40's and I have been looking for yougner woman in their mid 20's.... However, as we all know, that is kind of not looked at very well in our society. As a result I have never been successful so far. I do belive I have the chemistry suited for younger woman than woman of my age. What can i do to attract such younger women. Are there any groups as such which are meant for a meeting place for younger women and older men? Any suggessions.??..
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 4:32 AM |
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beatriceistheone
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Become a multimillionaire and famous. When I was mid-20s I had absolutely no interest in a 40 something male, there were too many men around my age to go for what I perceived, at that time, as an old fart. It does matter how old you feel if you are 40 something you just are.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 5:57 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Become a multimillionaire and famous. When I was mid-20s I had absolutely no interest in a 40 something male, there were too many men around my age to go for what I perceived, at that time, as an old fart. It does matter how old you feel if you are 40 something you just are.
That isnt true were not in the Dark Ages here..there are women out there younger then 40 who prefer an older man..you just have to keep looking witty until you find her.
I wouldn`t give up if I were you..age has nothing to do with people getting into a relationship if they really care for each other..I say Good Luck to you..and one more thing perhaps your approach is all wrong 
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 8:08 AM |
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bevrice
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Well, honey, I like some others in here had no interest in men your age when I was in my twenties. I wanted a family, and really, honey, men who are in their forties are just not compatible most of the time with that and if they are, they are just too old. Face it, young people were meant to be parents, bodies get old and can't keep up with kids. Besides, it is really sad seeing a man in his fifties and even at sixty paying child support or trying to raise kids on his own. By the time you get to your fifties, it is so nice to have your time for your mate and be free to do what you want and not tied down by kids anymore. My mom was very wise, she had a saying, "There is no fool like an old fool." Gee, sugar, I see it all the time, men moaning about going with or marrying the younger ones, who bleed them dry, use them and then lose them for someone their own age or younger. Happens more often than not. So be careful. And if you become a millionaire, they can just take you for more money, lol, and they will, too.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 9:12 AM |
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Mischief484
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I've never had any trouble with women of any age. At this moment, I have a 23-year old practically throwing herself at my feet. On another "social network," all of my friends are between the ages of 21 and 41.
Look, attractive 20-somethings already know that they're cute, desirable, sexy, HOT, etc. They get told that about a bazillion times a day on sites like this. When you get 137,564,887 emails a day from men of all ages saying "UR hot. Let's chat," it gets old.
Try something different and creative, and approach them in a way that has nothing to do with their age or how they look. Age is just a number. Transcend it.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 11:27 AM |
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bevrice
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Lol, I have twenty three year olds, throwing themselves at my feet all the time, doesn't mean I want them, would rather step over them. Wisdom, guys, wisdom. And isn't it strange, we older women can have all the younger guys we want if we want them, young guys seem to be chasing the older women, isn't it strange that the younger women are chasing the older men, hmmmmm, must be a reason, guys, lol.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 11:39 AM |
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wittynaughty
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Thanks Guys. I appreciate all of the above comments. But most importantly, what TinkerGrrrrss...said in her last line, -- I must be doing something wrong in this area, and thats the reason I am not getting any younger ones. Thats exactly what i am asking suggessions for, can someone give me some clue..what i might be doing wrong?..how should i approach a younger one?...what will tick?...how should i make my strategy work?..thats what was my question. I am sure...some will say age difference matters...and some will say it does not....but to me it does not matter...because..to the young woman to whom the age difference matters..she is not giong to come to me anyways...so i am not giong after her....i only like to go for the ones that do not think age has anything to do with .liking and loving someone....how and where can i get those ones..?...
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 11:43 AM |
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sjpinatl
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Yes, Bevrice, it is so ironic...I hear from as many early 20 men as I do my age. I just don't think it is fair for them. I'm more mature and they need to grow with someone more their age. Plus, I want to be with someone who has a certain amount of maturity anyway.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 11:49 AM |
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altogirl67
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A pic might help... of course, it might hurt also. But with no pic, these youngsters might just see your age and nothing else. Give it a try... and good luck! 
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 11:49 AM |
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2Biatchy4U
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Become a multimillionaire and famous. When I was mid-20s I had absolutely no interest in a 40 something male, there were too many men around my age to go for what I perceived, at that time, as an old fart. It does matter how old you feel if you are 40 something you just are. PsSh..
There are ALOT of younger women lookin for older men!
Keep lookin, maybe you will find one!
this subject tends to offend some women your age because your not attractive to them. (I said SOME ladies, dont have a shiat fit on me) They say the only reason someone of that age would want you is because of your money. ALL Jealousy.
In some cases... yeah thats what SOME women want no matter what thier AGE. Good luck findin you a lady! 
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 11:49 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Ok..heres some tips.. 
Be very casual in your approach. Strive to make her feel safe and comfortable with you because at first she is going to feel suspicious of your intentions. Whatever you do, don't lust after her. Just act friendly and make her feel relaxed.
What can you expect when dating younger women: cancelled dates, picks fights to break up with you, and she's unstable.
Don't be possessive and jealous with her. This will really scare her away. And don't be concerned if she has a boyfriend.
You will have better success pursuing the average-looking single women. Avoid the beauty queens.
Try to hook up with a rebellious type of young woman. They are more inclined to date older men.
Remember that they might be attracted to you out of just pure fantasy. They may curious what if would be like to be with an older man. Accommodate their desires and enjoy it while it lasts.
They might be interested in you for sexual reasons because their male lovers their age or younger are more interested in satisfying their own sexual desires. They would welcome an older lover who would be concerned in giving her pleasure.
Suggest out-of-the-way date where there is more privacy. She may have fears of being seen in public with an older man or where her friends might see her.
Get slim and trim. Young single women are not attracted to balding men with a potbelly.
Take classes where you are likely to be exposed to young single women. Get to know the younger guys too - they can introduce you girls they know.
Always keep in mind that your relationship may come to a sudden end if Mr. Right comes along.
When with her: Be funny, light-hearted, silly, and laugh a lot.
Good Luck 
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 12:03 PM |
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zoomzoom511
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it doesn't actually revolve around money... although that is a shortcut.
it's all about the ability to suspend disbelief. if you feel your actual age... you probably won't relate with younger women.
if your are physically youthful, and mentally youthful, and you meet a girl who is young, but mentally more "worldly"... you will absolutely hook up... that's just how it works when there is some sort of spark.
suggestions... stay in shape and laugh a lot!
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 12:09 PM |
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lukleslov
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I was one of those girls in her 20's who dated older guys, my son's father has 13 years on me, and we got along great. On the other hand, I was the first younger girl he dated, he didnt go out looking for someone young, nor did I look for someone old, it was just the way it worked out. Dont take offense, but if you are narrowing your search down to a certain age group, that is kind of shallow. It is the person inside, not the physical age. Maybe these young girls are smarter than you think, and are catching onto the shallowness of it all. Why dont you just be open to giving any woman the chance you expect them to give you.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 1:09 PM |
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13lucky
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Well I would,, as as lukleslov said..Don't limit your choices..you might be very well surprised how foxy older women can be...
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 1:12 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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..you might be very well surprised how foxy older women can be...
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 1:36 PM |
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scarletsara
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Maybe the fact that you are intently looking for only young woman
makes them feel like prey. I would shy away from that also.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 1:44 PM |
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Mischief484
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Well I would,, as as lukleslov said..Don't limit your choices..you might be very well surprised how foxy older women can be...
Great point. I see a much younger woman looking at me and smiling, and I wonder: "Is she just being nice, or she smiling because she's interested?"
I see a 30- or 40-something looking at me and smiling, and I think: "She's looking at me like I'm...  !"
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 1:58 PM |
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spongebob777
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Don't limit your choices..you might be very well surprised how foxy older women can be...
No kidding, have you seen sciurusniger? Great googly moogly!!! 
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 1:59 PM |
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bevrice
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Lol, girls, lets handle the jealous part first, don't think I am jealous of a forty year old who wants to date twenty somethings, gee, I wouldn't go out with someone who is forty. It just sounds like he is hitting his midlife crisis, and, oh, boy, can that get you in deep trouble, sugar. Be careful, you might get what you are looking for. Most young women who like men twenty years older than them are looking for money or a daddy, they are generally insecure and want you to take care of them. Plus, like you were told, you have very little in common with them. I have two daughters, one thirty eight and one thirty six, they wouldn't even go out with anyone forty or older, they both prefer a little younger man. The younger one is married, and the older one likes the really model type, good looking, muscular guys with money, but then she is gorgeous and has money herself. You would do much better to go out with women who are closer to your own age, they will be more attracted to you and have much more in common with you, and probably less likely to use you, honey. I am a retired psychologist, sugar, deal with people who have made the mistake you are making all the time. When you marry a younger woman, and have children at your age, that is a HARD mistake to reverse, impossible. If you just want a trophy to make you feel younger or look good, that is what you will wind up with, too, and you will be out looking for someone to meet your needs, and I really get tired of that line--my wife doesn't want sex anymore, and GENERALLY, their wives are much younger than they are, and lots of them are fooling around on them with YOUNGER or RICHER guys, and the poor ol hubbies know it, and just take it, or go without, because they have kids together, or because they "love" them, gee, sugar, be careful.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:00 PM |
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waiting41
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that does it!!!! where is Sci?? 
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