| Mar 2, 2006 @ 4:43 PM |
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MotownManiax
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Pete, I hear ya.
Some of us older guys like going out with 20-somethings because, compared to women our age, they seem, or at least some believe, lower maintenance, less jaded, easier to impress, more energizing, better looking....a thousand reasons. I agree.
But I also, equally agree there are a lot (I say the vast majority) of older men that pursue much younger women simply to bang young chicks, to lust and chase and conquer, and have absolutely no other moral compunction than to satisfy their selfish ego and horniness, “Hey, look at me, I’m 55 years old and can bag a hot 25 year-old babe???”. Isn't that special.
If that’s what one is after, fine, but come clean about it. Don't BS. It’s the boldfaced deceit and outright lying these guys employ to hide their real “intentions” that irritates the h*ll out of me.
 Edited, just had to put the dancing banana in...lol.
[Edited on 3/2/2006 4:54 PM]
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 5:03 PM |
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Pete73052
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There's really nothing to banging 25 year old chicks - it's not a big accomplishment. But the topic is - it's "Dating" younger women. I assume dating means more than sex (It does to me, but I have to assume what was in the mind of the OP). I'm 53 - so 25 is a little young for me for dating. But 35 doesn't seem too young, mature enough to hold an intelligent conversation, and still open to new ideas. A 35 year old may even get most of the references I make when I'm trying to be funny. I don't think that's unreasonable.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 5:08 PM |
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MotownManiax
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One thing I've learned reading these forums is "dating" timeframes have a wide variety of connotations to many different people, from a few weeks to a six-month relationship, so my context is perfectly valid.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 5:20 PM |
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bevrice
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Lol, guys, how many of you would take Brittany Spears over Sophia Loren? See the difference, jaded, lol, no, gee. Older women don't have the fixation you guys do because we can have all the younger guys we want, and, don't kid yourselves, most are professional, make good money and are very very handsome. Hmmmmm, I wonder what they know that you older guys don't? When I was twenty and thirty, lol, I was very difficult to manage, had a bad temper, was used to getting my own way, going out lots and lots, needed lots of money things to be happy, and my children were first in my life. All of that has changed as I have gotten older, am not demanding anymore, love sex even more than then, not so likely to have to go out all the time, and am happy with what I am, who I am, and don't have to have tons of things and money. Now ask all the other older women in here if they are not much better and easier to be with as they get older, you will be surprised. You all seem to attribute things to younger women that aren't there, lol, I raised two daughters, as well as a son, and sure wouldn't want to be with anyone their age, I see them and their friends, and I remember that I was just like them at their age. So you guys stop and think. Lol, it is much harder to get an older woman and keep her anyway, they are much wiser, it is a much greater accomplishment, we are not just looking for any husband and babies, we are not desperate, we are looking for the RIGHT man. Younger women have a time clock, and are fearful of not getting married, lol, gee, guys, you old ones are a good target. They will marry you, use you, and lose you for younger ones, happens all the time, I talk to those men everyday. Child support is really hard when you are in your sixties, lol, and what woman who has brought up her children wants to have to bring up more?
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 5:36 PM |
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bevrice
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Motown, you are such a doll and so very astute, if you were closer to me, I would grab you up and keep you.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 5:39 PM |
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MotownManiax
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Flattery will get you everywhere, Bev.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 5:44 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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and what woman who has brought up her children wants to have to bring up more?
some women do 
nice pic MO 
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 6:02 PM |
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MotownManiax
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 Thx Tinks.
I thought I'd jump on the old pic bandwagon and put up some of my own. I believe the pic is about four years old if I'm not mistaken.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 6:27 PM |
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bevrice
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Lol, tinker, you are a glutton for punishment, my kids all came out great and they love me dearly and I, them, but I am more than happy to just enjoy my grand kids now, lol. I have five teenaged grand daughters, it is a big reminder of how hard it is to bring up kids, lol. I also have two grandsons, but, to me, my son and the grandsons are much easier to bring up than the girls were. Lol, moody, moody, moody. And some of these guys are wanting girls not much older, moody, moody, moody.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 6:37 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Lol, tinker, you are a glutton for punishment, my kids all came out great and they love me dearly and I, them, but I am more than happy to just enjoy my grand kids now
But their soooooooo cute..
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 8:29 PM |
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DwainP50
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Lol, guys, how many of you would take Brittany Spears over Sophia Loren?
I wouldnt mind meeting Sophia Loren type anytime! 
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 9:11 PM |
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Pete73052
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June 25, 1745
MY DEAR FRIEND:-
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural inclination you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you will find solid Happiness. Your Reason against entering into it at present appears to be not well founded. The Circumstantial Advantages you have in View by Postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that makes the complete Being. Separate she wants his force of Body and Strength of Reason; he her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are most likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissors.
If you get a prudent, healthy wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking that Commerce with the Sex is inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice that in your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. This you call a Paradox, and demand my reasons. They are these:
1. Because they have more Knowledge of the world, and their Minds are better stored with Observations; their conversation is more improving, and more lastingly agreeable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Man, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a thousand Services, small and great, and are the most tender and useful of Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an Old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of children, which irregularly produced may be attended with much inconvenience.
4. Because through more Experience they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your reputation; and regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be inclined to excuse an old Woman, who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his manners by her good Councils, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part. The Face first grows lank and Wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower parts continuing to the last as plump as ever; so that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old one from a young one. And as in the Dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of Corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal and frequently superior; every Knack being by Practice capable by improvement.
6. Because the sin is less. The Debauching of a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend making an old Woman happy.
8. 8th & lastly. They are so grateful!!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry immediately; being sincerely
Your Affectionate Friend,
Benj. Franklin
I like #8... 
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 9:16 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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[QUOTE]2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Man, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a thousand Services, small and great, and are the most tender and useful of Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an Old Woman who is not a good Woman. [QUOTE]
I like No 2 
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 9:38 PM |
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MuskogeeBill
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Now you could have just shortened that to read. Pick women over forty cause they don't swell.they don't tell and they are grateful as all hell.
Ok flame away, i'm gonnin back to lurkin' now. 
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 9:41 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Now you could have just shortened that to read. Pick women over forty cause they don't swell.they don't tell and they are grateful as all hell.
Grateful..thought that was the ones over 60 or beyond.
and who says they don`t tell
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 10:09 PM |
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MuskogeeBill
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Uh oh think I been busted.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 10:21 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Uh oh think I been busted
why you date younger women
oops over 60`s?.. 
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 10:29 PM |
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MuskogeeBill
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Not since barbara Eden turned down my proposal. Well ok, iot was a propasition but she said no none the less.
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| Mar 2, 2006 @ 10:34 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Not since barbara Eden turned down my proposal. Well ok, iot was a propasition but she said no none the less
I`d never date a Younger Woman..
1. Because they have more Knowledge of the world, and their Minds are better stored with Observations; their conversation is more improving, and more lastingly agreeable.
I like this one too says older women are smarter
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| Mar 3, 2006 @ 12:03 AM |
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Pavlysha1
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I ENJOY THIS TOPIC.
  
One thing that makes this particular topic very interesting to me is that it often evokes VERY emotional responses from people.
Some people say, "It's sick for an older man to date a younger woman"...some people see it as perfectly normal...and some see it as MORE normal than men dating women their own age.
Everyone has an opinion about it, one way or another.
Another reason why I find this topic interesting is that the younger women who like to date older men have a wide range of opinions as well.
In other words, one 20-year-old woman might think that the idea of dating a guy who is 27 is TOTALLY GROSS, while the next one might only find herself attracted to men who are over 30.
The point that I am trying to make here is that if you are going to date younger women, you must not let yourself be overly influenced by the opinions of others...especially the women you would like to date.
Just because one woman says "I think that any guy who asks a woman out who is more than three years younger is sick" doesn't mean that ALL women think that way?
The girl right behind her might say "I just don't have a clue why ANY woman would want to date ANY guy who's under 40...they're all immature".
Here is one of my rules. If I wind up talking to a woman who isn't interested because I am” too old", I JUST MOVE ON...and don't let it distract me.
Remember the world is full of Women.
Now, from experience. By posting this same question in a few websites that I usually frequent to get opinions, I’ve found that women usually fit into one of the following three categories when it comes to how they view this topic:
1) "It's perfectly normal" (Maybe 20%)
2) "It's taboo, and very intriguing" (Maybe 20%)
3) "It's GROSS!" (Maybe 60%)
I just made these numbers up based on my personal experience and my personal observation.
Some guys I know ONLY date women who are much younger than themselves...and their experience is that MOST younger women want to date guys who are older and not for any other reason that you might think. Since I like to date only foreign women, from experience I can say, that none of them has been with me for financial reasons, green cards, etc; contrary to one of my American ex wife’s who almost took me to the cleaners.
No offence intended, not I’m trying to prejudice all American women. I just talk from experience.
Next, I personally think that maybe only 25% of the younger women I have personally meet is not even worth my time and attention.
While the 75% are in the categories of not interested in older guys, I have found is because they feel not attractive themselves physically or personality-wise, too immature, etc, etc, etc.
The point I am trying to make once again is. If a man want to date a younger women, to me is perfectly OK and I don’t care what everyone else thinks or say.
 
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