| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:11 PM |
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bevrice
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Lol, by the way, I haven't seen Tom Cruise in any long term marriage himself, maybe you should follow Paul Newman's example, sugar, he seems to have been happily married for a long, long, time. For you to say you are following Tom Cruise's philosophy would be like us women saying we are going to follow Elizabeth Taylor's example, lol.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:18 PM |
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Mischief484
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Most young women who like men twenty years older than them are looking for money or a daddy, they are generally insecure and want you to take care of them.
There you go with that broad brush again. Quite a few well educated younger women find older men more attractive because of maturity and a common intellectual development. A lot of their 20-something male counterparts are still running around clubs and  with each other.
Meanwhile the 30-something and 40-something men show stability and responsibility. Throw that in with a penchant for adventure, measured confidence and a self-deprecating sense of humor, and the 20-somethings really do throw themselves at his feet. It's not the money they're interested in. It's the stability and security of being with someone who's already figured himself out.
I've said it over and over and over again. Age is just a number. It doesn't measure anything that's really important. Never has. Never will. To each his or her own, I say. If you meet someone in a different age group and the chemistry is there, you're a fool not to go for it. The same goes for meeting someone in an age group you didn't think you were interested in.
Painter007 is smokin' hot. So is Sciurusniger. So is the 23-year old with a Masters degree who's offering to buy me dinner tonight. If she's after my bankroll, why's she offering to pick up the tab?
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:23 PM |
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waiting41
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l Spongebob and THIS one have no taste 
Well, FINE, I didn't think you guys were so cute yourselves.
I'll just head back to that other site where men act like they've never seen a woman before.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:27 PM |
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bevrice
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Honey, you are just fooling yourself. Chemistry is not love, and can be fleeting at best and deceptive at worst. But, if the younger thing floats your boat, go for it. It sinks lots more boats than it floats, believe me.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:29 PM |
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bevrice
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By the way, wouldn'g go near the two twenty somethings both college degreed or the thirty something who have hit on me today. Like I said, is called wisdom.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:33 PM |
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Mischief484
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Honey, you are just fooling yourself. Chemistry is not love, and can be fleeting at best and deceptive at worst. But, if the younger thing floats your boat, go for it. It sinks lots more boats than it floats, believe me.
The woman thing floats my boat, and the woman thing doesn't have an age limit on it. If she's old enough to buy me a beer and young enough to not have attended Woodstock, I'll at least entertain the idea. Women don't magically become women at age 30-something, nor do they stop being women at age 50-something.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:40 PM |
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waiting41
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Wisdom is one thing.
Trying to enforce your personal choices on someone else is altogether different.
We all have personal preferences. We all are at different points in life.......seeking different things. To each his own.
Chemistry......awwwww..........chemistry.......the most incredible feeling in the world. Why would you want to take the away from someone just cause YOU are past that point??
Jeeeezzzz..........live and learn. We all have our paths.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:46 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Honey, you are just fooling yourself. Chemistry is not love, and can be fleeting at best and deceptive at worst. But, if the younger thing floats your boat, go for it. It sinks lots more boats than it floats, believe me.
That is just plain wrong.. 
I haven't seen Tom Cruise in any long term marriage himself, maybe you should follow Paul Newman's example, sugar, he seems to have been happily married for a long, long, time. For you to say you are following Tom Cruise's philosophy would be like us women saying we are going to follow Elizabeth Taylor's example
so is that 
Relationships rarely look like romantic movies or books.
Imaginary people fall in love quickly and live happily ever after. Real people fall into real love slowly and live fully ever after.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 2:57 PM |
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bevrice
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You are right, real love comes gradually, is a growing thing, and lol, haven't outgrown chemistry, just have come to recognize it for what it is, not going to be taken in by that again, it is very deceptive, and is more attraction than anything else, has nothing to do with love or compatibility or even friendship.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 3:03 PM |
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waiting41
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Well, that's a relief. Chemistry can almost be addicting. I am at a point myself where I too recognize it for what it is.
Ya know, it's really hard to argue with people that smile in thier picture I have noticed.
Waiting may have to try that herself. 
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 3:08 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Waiting may have to try that herself
come on..show us those pearly whites  
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 3:11 PM |
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13lucky
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Well if we are going to talk of words of wisdom.... "Pictures aren't paint in one color and either is life"...
and "What you find is common sense might only be yours" :)
Moral of the Story....
If you find love with 20+/- more power to you...But either way you need to go into it with an open mind and be ready to learn new things..and be patient!!
I'm a romantic..and I beleive that if you follow the above anything is possible..
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 3:16 PM |
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bevrice
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I know, Waiting, chemstry is a wonderful feeling, and I have relied on it too heavily in the past, mostly to find out that the person is no one I really like, that I was just attracted to him. I have come to the point where I want to get to know someone and come to like him and love him for the person he is, I want something more real.
Love at first sight runs in my family, lol, my mom had it three times, and each time she thought she had met her "soulmate", not a one of them was worth having, lol, not even my dad.
So, now, instead of just going out with someone maybe one time and deciding that there was no chemistry and not going out with them again, I am going to get to know them and give things a chance to grow, to develop, I am sure I have missed out on some really nice men that I had a lot in common with because of the chemistry thing. I think that internet dating is full of people just searching for chemistry because there are so many available dates and goodness only knows, I have been on more of them than I wanted, it gets very old, and face it, I have not given any of them a chance. The chemistry thing has been hard to let go of, but I realize that I have to do just that and get to know men for who and what they are, that is much more important than the chemistry in the long run.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 3:21 PM |
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bevrice
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Lucky, not even going to think of going out with one of the twenty somethings, even if all things are possible and I could fall in love with one of them, and they me. Why set myself up for that kind of problems? Lol, and sure would hate people to think that my mate was my son, would be very awkard going out with him. Also, there is always the compatibility issue, I have nothing in common with someone so much younger, nor they with me, other than the obvious, and can find that with someone much closer to my own age.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 3:51 PM |
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SlotCar1
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...like my profile says: "Must be able to bear children. Otherwise, what's the point?".
Seems to me that most Western women want a guy who is younger than them while Eastern women seem to want a guy who is older than them. Could it be that Eastern women want stability with older men while Western women think they will get more/better sex from younger men?
And, as for 'offers' from younger women: Yeah, I still get them but usually they're TOO young, as in under age. I like my freedom alot more than 'hooking up' with females THAT young.
Funny, all this happens from me just being myself, too. I'm NOT going to put on an act just to try to give somebody a good 1st impression.
Go figure.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 3:56 PM |
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Mischief484
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Seems to me that most Western women want a guy who is younger than them while Eastern women seem to want a guy who is older than them. Could it be that Eastern women want stability with older men while Western women think they will get more/better sex from younger men?
I don't get that vibe, man. Most of the "Eastern" women I've come into contact with just want a visa and airfare. Western women (Americans, I presume) have tastes that are as varied as they are. YMMV, though.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 4:08 PM |
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bevrice
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So true, mischief, that one is a DOUBLE whammy. Besides, most western women don't need a man to provide stability or security for them, they can do that themselves, but, lol, sex with oneself is not much fun. Also, we are looking for love, not stability, so let them go for their older men, poor old things, the older ones get took REAL good by those women.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 5:56 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Relationships rarely look like romantic movies or books.
Imaginary people fall in love quickly and live happily ever after. Real people fall into real love slowly and live fully ever after.
I am in trouble then.
Although, we "knew" each other for around 3 years from the old MD forums and then on other boards.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 6:21 PM |
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T_i_m
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I have wondered, with a lot of profiles, men and women, looking for someone younger, how's anyone going to hook up? As for me, I'd like to meet someone around my age, plus or minus a few years.
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| Jan 30, 2006 @ 9:10 PM |
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beatriceistheone
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Jealous, of some man in his early 40s like me wanting to relive their youth through dating younger people? I have had about 300 responses from men 32 and younger even more since they seem to be endless. I don't respond to one friggin one of them. I am very happy with my age and embrace it. I don't want to date anyone young enough to be a son or nephew. It is very immature when you don't even want to date anyone within 10 yrs of your junior. That is sad it means you are stuck in your 20s and haven't grown up and want a peer to relate to.
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