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Dec 9, 2011 @ 7:29 AM Is she interested?    
Jaydee323


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Hi was hoping someone could help me out here and give me a view on where I currently stand with a girl I like as I’m as pretty confused and would appreciate an outside opinion.

So… I met this girl a while back and got on really well but I had a girlfriend at the time so it never really went nowhere. We texted and flirted a lot and she was pretty open she liked me but in the end it didn’t seem right so it didn’t go any further. She got a boyfriend a little while later and we lost touch for a year or so.

Few months back she texts me out the blue we starting chatting and turns out she’s just split with her boyfriend. Since then we’ve been in close contact, mostly text we flirt quite a bit and she has told me she still likes/fancies me and I’ve told her the same.

Asked her out for a date after about a month of us texting, she said yes but then cancelled last minute saying it was too early after her ex and she wasn’t ready. I said fine no problem let’s just see what happens. So we’ve continued texting like almost everyday for 4 -5 months now and she still doesn’t want to commit to a date? I have seen her a couple of times but with friends, whenever we meet the chemistry is good but she keeps saying she’s not ready to take things further. Stopped asking her out directly now (asked her out a couple times since the first time and she always came back with she was busy doing something else) as I guess she know how I feel and I don’t want to keep bringing it up.

Feels like I’m in the friendzone as she clearly doesn’t want to commit to a 1on1 date, but I’m a little confused as we still flirt a good deal and she keeps telling me she feels something could happen with us when she’s ready and how much her friends like me. If I don’t contact her for a few days she always texts me asking where I been or she misses me and gets super jealous if she hears I’ve been out with another girl.

Asked her straight out if she wanted to take things further or just be friends and she was like ‘but I’m the last thing on your mind’ then kinda avoided the subject. Really not sure with this girl I like her but can’t gauge whether she’s genuinely interested and wants to be single for a while or if she just likes the attention and knows I won’t be around as much as a friend only. Doing my own thing so it’s not like I’m waiting on this girl but I can’t work her out, what do you guys think?
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Dec 9, 2011 @ 9:37 AM Is she interested?    
clickityclack


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sounds like she belongs on Md too
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Dec 10, 2011 @ 12:46 AM Is she interested?    
NotBetty


Posts: 1,702
The only reason she is acting like that is because you allow it. Cut her off. Sheza playing with yo head. Not the one you wantz her playing with.


I found this somewhere and thought it was funny and true. What she is doing is called TSP...
Tactical Securing of Penis. ( Until a better one comes along)
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Dec 10, 2011 @ 3:41 AM Is she interested?    
Loinlee_Sole


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wish someone would tactically secure my penis
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Dec 10, 2011 @ 4:18 AM Is she interested?    
Jaydee323


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TSP not heard that before, but i hear what you say.

How do mean 'i allow her to act this way' what else could i do? She usually contacts me first so not replying at all seems a bit juvenile.

Thanks for the responses
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Dec 10, 2011 @ 10:23 PM Is she interested?    
BandTMom


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She just not that into you, If she were, she'd go out.....no excuses.

She keeping you on the string because she craves the attention but you are not the one she wants.
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Dec 14, 2011 @ 10:14 PM Is she interested?    
Readytobehappy


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Sorry OP, your post too long to read....sigh...I've had a long day

Anyone have the cliff notes version?
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Dec 15, 2011 @ 6:16 PM Is she interested?    
NotBetty


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RTBH,
IDK if I can help.BTW welcome to the forum. JSYK this guy needs help with a WWP
TSP.


Jaydee come back and tell us how it is going.

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Dec 15, 2011 @ 6:22 PM Is she interested?    
Angel178


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NB...stop talking in CODE

Sorry...too much wine
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Dec 15, 2011 @ 6:23 PM Is she interested?    
NotBetty


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lol
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Dec 15, 2011 @ 7:12 PM Is she interested?    
Angel178


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Dec 15, 2011 @ 7:12 PM Is she interested?    
Angel178


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Dec 15, 2011 @ 8:05 PM Is she interested?    
Loinlee_Sole


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^^ code talker
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Jan 10, 2012 @ 12:01 PM Is she interested?    
Jaydee323


Posts: 3
Hey so update...

Basically i took your advice and cut her off... shit works javascript:emoticon(''); didn't contact her or respond for a while. unsurprisingly she hits me up after a week asking wtf i been ignoring her. We were gonna meet but i changed my plans last minute and again she's like 'wtf why didn't you meet me?'

Still txt every couple days i start telling her about dates i been on with other girls.. Hey presto i get this long txt about how i'm perfect guy for her, everything she looking for, hasn't met anyone that compares to me, just needed time to be single, wants some thing to happen blah blah.

At this point i'm like whatever 'lets just see what happens'. i kinda met someone else so not that bothered anymore, but why not say this from the beginning javascript:emoticon(''); i was cool with being a friend if she wanted to be single...Women sometimes javascript:emoticon('');
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Jan 10, 2012 @ 12:03 PM Is she interested?    
clickityclack


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good job...ya played it perfectly...wimmenz hate to be ignored by the menz
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Jan 11, 2012 @ 5:38 AM Is she interested?    
datingada


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i think its like a small love story just share only your feeling dear not a story thanks.
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Jan 11, 2012 @ 12:03 PM Is she interested?    
Fender


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Good for you Jaydee for having some balls
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Jan 26, 2012 @ 10:57 PM Is she interested?    
burnslikethesun


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stuck in the muck of hurt made by other men. Its safer this way for her and you too. Be thankful.
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