| Feb 7, 2006 @ 2:36 PM |
How do you handle your incoming winks/e-mails????
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ohiotim
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To be flat out honest, I'm not sure what the best (polite) way to respond or not to these e-mails and winks?
At this point in my life, I really want to get that "wow" feeling when I read an ad or see a picture, then read the ad. There are certain things that I look for that is a must in peoples ad's and when that "wow" isn't there, what do you do? I have had a fair share of responces and two have really had a close "wow" factor and I have at least responed to them, but what about the rest, do you write and say, not interested, or just not respond.............BE HONEST, I'd really like to know what you do.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 2:40 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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To be flat out honest, I'm not sure what the best (polite) way to respond or not to these e-mails and winks?
At this point in my life, I really want to get that "wow" feeling when I read an ad or see a picture, then read the ad. There are certain things that I look for that is a must in peoples ad's and when that "wow" isn't there, what do you do? I have had a fair share of responces and two have really had a close "wow" factor and I have at least responed to them, but what about the rest, do you write and say, not interested, or just not respond.............BE HONEST, I'd really like to know what you do. Well jeez, I didn't think it would upset you so much Tim  Im kidding
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 2:44 PM |
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ohiotim
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 Funny thing is, I just saw yours, and here is the best part, I met my Ex when I lived in Georgia for a short time with the job I had at the time and she moved back here with me and is now back there........................
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 2:47 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Well let her go somewhere else, got enough women in Ga already Im going other places to look now
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 2:50 PM |
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wvbluebaby
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hmmm...to wink or not to wink....that is the question 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 2:50 PM |
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TigerEyes71
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I delete them like I never got a wink... I have learned from asking on this board that it's no big deal to get a wink from an undesirable. I actually did listen to the advice that was posted on a thread I started that was similar to this topic.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:06 PM |
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MarysPlace
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You are saying that we need to actually handle those...?
Damn, it didn't even cross my mind... 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:07 PM |
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spongebob777
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Honestly?
I usually start a thread to bring attention to the fact that I get em. 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:12 PM |
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zulamaze
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If I find them attractive I will wink back.
If not-- I delete it & do nothing.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:17 PM |
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13lucky
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I either wink back or email depends if I'm busy or not :)
and of course check out their profile
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:39 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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If I find them attractive I will wink back
 well nothing wrong with that i suppose.
I wink back then send them a polite thank you even if they aren`t attractive.. 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:55 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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I either wink back or email depends if I'm busy or not :)
and of course check out their profile No wonder I felt naked
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:04 PM |
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13lucky
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And It was good for me also....      
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:06 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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   And It was good for me also.... Spent now Now back to your winking friendzy
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:08 PM |
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msdodie835
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if i like their profile and my requirements i wink back..to the ones too far away i just say thank you, this doesn't work for me...one fella, very young, responded with....i was just old and desparate anyway....so, some character straights come out...don't they.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:10 PM |
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msdodie835
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that would be desperate and traits...brain dysfunction today
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:29 PM |
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T_i_m
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Quote: msdodie835
one fella, very young, responded. . .
How young was this guy?
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:44 PM |
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msdodie835
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if i remember right in his mid to late 20's...i get a lot of kids, hate that...have six of my own and not raising anybody else's...lol my baby is 24...see
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 6:35 PM |
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ladyraindove74
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I almost always follow up a wink with an email after I've checked their profile. If they are too young, the distance is too great, or somthing else, I politely thank them for winking or emailing and give them a reason for my disinterest. I try to treat everyone as I'd want to be treated...and a bit of courtesy never hurts anyone...
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 6:47 PM |
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walkingman
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I will alway's respond to them. I just think to totally ignore them is not right. I agree with Ladyraindove 100% on this one. Just be courteous and nice.
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