| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:27 PM |
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monica82
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We have been dating for 6 months, and recently, he has started the 'where were you?' (when I am not home when he calls)and when I look at another guy "why do you keep looking over there? what are you looking at? when I want to be home at a certain time 'why? are you expecting a call?
Are these signs that this is his true nature? He always told me that flirting is ok,and now if I look at another guy it is a big deal...
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:29 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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 Sounds like he doesn`t trust you..kind of a control freak..no offense meant..just my opinion. 
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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DwainP50
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Are you sure that you didnt sent any red flags his way in something you have done? 
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Red Flag!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:47 PM |
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SylvanDreams
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Something to ask yourself:
If he has trust issues this soon into the relationship (6 mos.), and they were not evident since the beginning, will the situation keep worsening as more time passes?
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:48 PM |
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SylvanDreams
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On the other hand, has anything happened during your time together that could have shaken his trust in you?
Sounds like a pretty big red flag to me, if nothing has happened in the past 6 months to cause his trust in you to dwindle.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:48 PM |
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Pete73052
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Sounds like he's preparing the pre-nup.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 2:50 PM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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Sounds like a guilty conscious to me.
Maybe you need to pay more attention to what
he is doing.
The guilty dog always barks first.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 3:14 PM |
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LSU79
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It seems like an obvious case of "run, don't walk" to me.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 3:17 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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It's called insecurities. The thought of losing you at a moments notice is his mainstay.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 3:18 PM |
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littleross
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Ohhhh, I've been here before and I'm with the majority
RUN!!!! As quick as you can, as far as you can. It doesn't get any better, time only makes them only more controlling..... Ick.
But of course, that is simply my humble opinion! 
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 3:35 PM |
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mailorderannie
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Oh, leave it to Dwain to take the guy's side! 
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 3:36 PM |
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swingpup
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There are many reasons for this to occur....... and when I look at another guy "why do you keep looking over there? what are you looking at? Why not indicate to your boyfriend that you're simply checking out the guys "crotch".
In all honesty sounds like your s*** detector has sounded, time to send him packing.......his bark maybe smaller then his bite. 
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 3:48 PM |
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soultry_one
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dump him,hesa wacko. Usually a sign of a guilty conscience besides if he's accusing YOU of $hit.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 10:04 PM |
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the_real_me_ok
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Are these signs that this is his true nature?
Monica you have answered your own question
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 10:12 PM |
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RAKS37
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Possibly no one else is going to admit this.
But I don't really think I'd like a girl I'm with flirting with other guys or drooling over them.
I think most people have a little of this in them.
He sounds like he doesn't trust you.
I see red flags on both sides of the street
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| Feb 28, 2006 @ 8:50 AM |
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GraciePa
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Control and insecurities, been there done that left that! My father once told my ex. I would worry more if a man don't look at her then to have a man look and smile at the both of you!! Just look at all aspects of things. 
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| Feb 28, 2006 @ 8:53 AM |
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sciurusniger
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Yup. It's his true nature and a Big Red Flag.
It's quite common for those who accuse others of this type of behavior to be engaging in it themselves. How long do you want to wait to find out he's cheating on YOU?
And if he's not, yet, then he's far too insecure to be in a committed relationship.
My advice: dump him.
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| Feb 28, 2006 @ 9:01 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Huge, Gigantic, Monstrously Immense, top-of-the Empire State Building, flappin' madly in the breeze, Bright, Neon, Sparkly, Glistening, Fluorescent Red Flag...
...is that visual enough? 
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| Feb 28, 2006 @ 9:03 AM |
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GraciePa
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I thought those were fireworks!! Dang am I wrong....
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