| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:08 PM |
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smurphysue
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Ok guys help me out here. Do men really exist that say what they mean or do they just tell us women what we want to hear? It really kills me when I meet men who say they are one thing but turn out to be the complete opposite. Am I just living in a dream world or are there some honest men out there? 
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:12 PM |
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GuruFromDaNorthPole
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I think it goes both ways.
Everyone starts a relationship
with good intentions.
Then it deteriorates. Men
don't have a corner on dishonesty.
It's a good question. I mean
I always start a relationship
thinking that this one will be
better than the last because
I learned from the last one.
Where do we go wrong is the
big question?
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:14 PM |
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Wulfchyld
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Well smurph I have to say I wrote a book on what I mean. That way she can point it out if i get contrary.
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:14 PM |
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spongebob777
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We all see ourselves differently than other see us.
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:14 PM |
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smurphysue
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I totally agree on learning from the past but it just seems to me that every guy i meet pretends to be something he is not maybe I am just looking in the wrong places.
I do agree that there are women out there who are dishonest to I guess I should edit my question and ask how to tell if a guy is truely honest?
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:19 PM |
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exiled131
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i say what i mean..but i am single. guess no one wants to hear what i say then. tough sh!t.
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:20 PM |
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smurphysue
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True bob we do all see each other differnet but im talking about what they want or who they are. For example If you are planning on meeting a girl and say no matter what happens when we meet we will be and are friends, then you meet and no longer speak to the girl then what happend to we will always be friends was that just a lie??
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:28 PM |
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exiled131
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why would a guy say that no matter what happens, you will still be friends? that sounds like a line right there. you have to take time and get to know someone(not just online) to be friends.
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:30 PM |
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irish20835
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Ohhhh
a little from colum A... a little from colum B
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:31 PM |
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smurphysue
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Omg Omg I think I need to go back to dating school. K guys give me a crash course in lines lMAO 
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:33 PM |
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exiled131
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there was a dating school? dammit, no wonder i no virtually nothing on the subject!!!
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:33 PM |
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exiled131
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friggin double post. anyone know any good lines?
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:37 PM |
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smurphysue
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There damn well needs to be a dating school cause i am so lost in this dating world that I NEED ONE
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:40 PM |
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SwaggerNStrut
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I think if any of had a clue we wouldn't be on this site!
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:42 PM |
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smurphysue
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Very true Swagger. So if none of us have a clue is there really any hope of successful dating???
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:44 PM |
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SwaggerNStrut
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Logically... no. Theoretically? Here's hopin'!
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| Mar 6, 2006 @ 1:59 AM |
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sissycat411
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Smurp.....the old saying really stands true on dating sites....
Dont believe anything you hear....and only half of what you see........it's not in the words....it's in the actions.....so see if the actions equal the words.....and it takes time....its really a school of hard knocks...sorting it all out....
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| Mar 6, 2006 @ 3:07 AM |
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chinabull2000
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This works both ways, and from a personal point of view, I've met far more women than men who are prepared to lie and bullsh*t to get what they want.
I always mean what I say, which is probably the reason I'm single! LOL
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| Mar 6, 2006 @ 4:12 AM |
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SunBabe
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Well smurph I have to say I wrote a book on what I mean. That way she can point it out if i get contrary
OMG!!!  Your "book" with the 118 "rules" ???
Oh geez. someone save me. I'm dyin' of the giggles here --- and nobody but Wulfie knows why!
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| Mar 6, 2006 @ 8:55 AM |
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bevrice
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Well, the only thing I really know is that if they are dishonest and lie to me, I have a hard time trusting or believing them ever again, that sure is no basis for a friendship and for sure not any basis for a relationship.
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