| Mar 27, 2006 @ 6:42 PM |
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mikeoutthere
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What kind of body language will a woman use and what will she say, to let the man know that she is attracted to him and wants him to approach her…at work, store or in a bar ? 
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 6:46 PM |
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someone_me
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mike, don't even ask. If she looks at you and smiles just take that as an invitation to talk with her if you like. Makes things a lot less complicated than trying to learn all the signals a woman sends out. Besides, you'll never really know if she's into you or not until you do talk with her (which can make or break the whole deal anyway).
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 6:47 PM |
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holding4u
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I am female and I don't know how to attract a man's attention. So when you find out, let me know. 
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 6:50 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I don`t approach men or give out signals..but like some_one said..you just have to talk to her..actually even a smile doesn`t really mean much..I smile at everyone but it doesn`t mean I`m throwing out signals.. 
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 6:51 PM |
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Lunaymar37
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I'll definately smile and make sure that person knows that I am interested by the smile that I give....simple....and take it from there.
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 7:04 PM |
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someone_me
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I smile at everyone but it doesn`t mean I`m throwing out signals..
Tink! You're giving away all my secrets here! Stop that!  The whole point is that if he wants to go talk to a woman he finds interesting, he should just do it. You never know what will happen if you do and unless you try, you could spend the rest of your life wondering what might have happened. But then again, I'm not one who fears rejection either but find it to be rather comical most of the time. (I mean really, you aren't going to stop breathing or die a horrible death just because someone turns you down.)
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 7:07 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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The whole point is that if he wants to go talk to a woman he finds interesting, he should just do it.
Of course he should just do it..lol..if no one made the first move then no one would be getting together...
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 7:11 PM |
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someone_me
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if no one made the first move then no one would be getting together...
Which is exactly why it should be incumbent upon the women to do it first. 
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 7:15 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Which is exactly why it should be incumbent upon the women to do it first In this day and age..certainly the woman must do her part..unless of course the woman has old-fashioned values..where the man makes the first approach.
[Edited on 3/27/2006 7:31 PM]
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 7:25 PM |
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Loreli
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Anybody who is attracted to somebody should not be afraid to smile, nod, wink, raise a glass to, send a drink over.
Or buy them a new car.
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 7:29 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Or buy them a new car.
 
some people are just too shy to make the first move..
[Edited on 3/27/2006 7:32 PM]
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 7:32 PM |
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luvshorses644
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OK.. this is just my opinion and how I show interest. First, if you see someone that you are attracted to.. watch, her. Don't make it your life's quest, I mean.. you don't have to sit and stare at her, but glance her way from time to time, casually, while you are talking to a friend. She will pick up on that (it's kinda like the feeling you get when you know someone is looking at you.. the back of the neck kinda burning thing going on).. when you see her glance you way.. smile and maybe even do a subtle wave (the type like you would do to a passing friend.. the half handed thing).. if she smiles back at you, this is a good sign!!! Then sit tight for a few more moments.. and glance one more time.. if she smiles back and touches her arm, her neck, her face.. she is interested, then casually walk over and say something sweet, but none of those bar pickups (stay away from .. "did it hurt when you fell from heaven" .. or "you must be made of candy, cuz you are so sweet".. ppppphhggggghhhh.) Something simple, like "hi, my name is mikeoutthere, I just wanted to introduce myself and say what a beautiful smile you have." ..she can and will pick it up from there .. then mikeoutthere .. work it!!! Turn on the charm...what have you got to loose... you already won, you talked to her!!!!
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 8:42 PM |
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painter007
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I am totally dumb on how to get a man attention....
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 9:34 PM |
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mikeoutthere
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They say that the caveman just clubbed the females over the head and drag them to his grotto, do you think that dating would be easier if women did the same with man…this days ?
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 9:38 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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They say that the caveman just clubbed the females over the head and drag them to his grotto, do you think that dating would be easier if women did the same with man…this days ?
It might but not everyone believes in violence..
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 9:40 PM |
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painter007
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You know what? Next time I dig a guy Im gonna stand close and look into his eyes
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 9:57 PM |
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seashell827
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I'm kind of shy but I will smile and look at a fellow but it's hard for me to make the first move in actually talking. I'm pretty brave in the car ....
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 10:28 PM |
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altogirl67
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This usually works... eye contact, smile, and open body language. Body language is SO important! In open body language, you never cross your arms or legs and eye contact is relaxed and prolonged. It's like opening yourself up to the other person, making yourself appear very approachable.
Here's a neat website on body language:
http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/open_body.htm
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| Mar 27, 2006 @ 10:41 PM |
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Cupcake43130
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Eye contact and body language say it all. I have a friend who is a therapist that gave me a few pointers on body language. I didn't realize how unapproachable I was. I always leaned back in my chair....arms crossed....legs crossed...not at all relaxed. I have now learned to lean into the table to show my openess...never cross the arms...can't give up crossing the legs though. But I do see a difference in the way people approach me now. It took some time because old habits die hard...but it was very good advice that I am putting to good use.
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 4:22 AM |
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walkingman
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I like alot of the response's I see on here. I think we all would like to know what the other is thinking. I think a glance and smile from a lady is a good start. I feel like the worst that can happen is that they are not interested. You never know if you don't try.
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