| Mar 28, 2006 @ 12:39 PM |
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RachelVaz
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I was just wondering how many of you look at the "winks" or only just mail? I think the "winks" are so cute and I always look at mine.
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 12:42 PM |
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mailorderannie
Posts: 6,021
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I appreciate winks too, but email is better!
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 12:49 PM |
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sophie313
Posts: 144
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Winks are like Trix, they're for kids.
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 1:00 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I like both..I don`t mind getting either one actually.. 
I take the winks as just a compliment... 
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 2:39 PM |
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Jafwerb772
Posts: 67
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I honestly don't know what to make of the winks... mainly because I don't understand if there is an unwritten rule that you have to wink back? or if you should just take it as a compliment (which I don't know how I could since I don't have a picture posted yet).. email them? WHAT!???!?!? 
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 2:54 PM |
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MICHIGANGIRL11
Posts: 1,649
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I more often than not delete the winks. I do answer all of my emails.
Migirl11.
Finally 52 degrees here and the flowers are peaking up out of the ground. 
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 2:55 PM |
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Cupcake43130
Posts: 1,747
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I prefer an e-mail over a wink. I get winks and wink back and never hear from the "winker" again....so what was the point? An e-mail shows a genuine interest.
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 3:44 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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I keep on getting winks from women who live 5000 miles from me and I dont really see the point of them winking at me. However, I do usually send a brief mail back saying thanks but you're too far from me, apart from one lady who had potential so I sent her a longer email after she winked, and never heard from her again! lol
Anyway, I like getting winks even though most of them are pointless, it's always nice to know I'm appreciated! But emails are better, of course, unless they're form letters...
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 3:47 PM |
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WickedWench
Posts: 1,613
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Winks are sweet but I do delete them.
Prefer emails
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 5:04 PM |
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DwainP50
Posts: 5,102
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Winks are ok if sent to show interest. But why not send an email it is free! An email sent shows that someone put some effort into saying hello and I tend to give them a quick reply if they are found to be interesting. 
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 5:11 PM |
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walkingman
Posts: 639
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I usually look at wink's but don't respond to them. If they are local person then I will send that person an e-mail.
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 5:51 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
Posts: 13,813
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Winks are ok if sent to show interest
sometimes there sent to to tease...*grin* 
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 6:21 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
Posts: 18,606
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It depends at least partly on my mood...I think a lot of guys wink just to get some attention back, rather than to express any real interest. Works for me - I'll usually wink back, I don't mind spreading the attention around (c'mon, we all need it!). This is 99.9% about fun; frankly the odds of actually finding someone are pretty slim. Nothing wrong with having some fun and flirting though!
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 6:36 PM |
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beachnutRU
Posts: 3,228
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I winked at myself........well heck sometimes if you can't wink at yourself ....you know charity begins at home.....I wink at heaven all the time......she deletes it I wink again.......the other eye though....multi talented. I laugh at myself too. I am an idiot what do you expect.
Winks are a flirtacious way of saying and showing interest...I respond to them but .......
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 6:38 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
Posts: 18,606
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Beach, you can wink at me anytime (you've got mail..again!)
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 6:44 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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Winks, e-mails, calls or letters......all receive a response. 
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 6:49 PM |
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beachnutRU
Posts: 3,228
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I have to print this. This is how Mdoc says to deal with winks.
Winks are a way of showing interest in a person without having to email them. If they wink back at you, send them a message. Below you will find a list of users that have winked at you in the last 30 days. Newest winks are located at the top.
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 6:51 PM |
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Jankia
Posts: 11,896
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It gives me a good idea if a person actually reads your profile when I tell readers that I dont answer winks, and I still get winked at.
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 6:52 PM |
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spongebob777
Posts: 7,904
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We get mail?
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| Mar 28, 2006 @ 7:02 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,398
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yes
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