| Sep 28, 2007 @ 11:35 PM |
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Pete73052
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And like Body Double... nothing is as it seems... 
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 12:04 AM |
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lj450
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How can I trust again
AGAIN?!?!?!?! 
Its almost impossible. If you were able to do it the first time and then blew it......theres no going back. You can kid yourself if you want to though. Thats kinda fun sometimes.
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 7:44 PM |
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DaisyforU
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I know how you feel! At last I thought I found my true love after one divorce and being single for 14 yrs! Guess what? I found my new husband cheating on me two weeks into our marriage!  YOU guessed it our divorce is soon to come. Married less than two months! WOW THAT HURTS ones pride!  It's hard to show my face now!  I feel very betrayed!
I also have trouble with trust now! MY soon to be X says, ALL MEN CHEAT! .  
I THINK I WILL REMAIN SINGLE A LONG TIME!  Cheating HURTS..  ~~~~~~~~~
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 7:48 PM |
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robodad
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Two months? Ow!
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 7:49 PM |
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blueyes101
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Not all men cheat,  just the wanna be's. 
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 9:15 PM |
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katydid438
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So sorry Daisy  at least you found out when you did......some men cheat all their married lives.......cheaters know all the right words 
Real men don't cheat!
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 9:24 PM |
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robodad
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Real men don't cheat! Bah! Typical woman statement! I'm getting fed up with the man bashing.
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 9:28 PM |
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Palomino
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"Real men don't cheat" isn't man bashing. I believe Daisy's ex did the man bashing with "All men cheat".
So sorry Daisy for what happened to you. {{{hugs}}} 
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 9:55 PM |
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katydid438
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Pali, thankyou for the clarification 
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| Sep 29, 2007 @ 11:25 PM |
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mrobvious444
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Daisy well its good you found out right away that still don't help the pain !! The excuse he made about ALL cheating is just to try to ease his own dumb ass conscience the guys here are right they all don't cheat ! I really liked Pali's post  this is the link ... http://www.takebackyourheart.com/ ... you gotta keep clear of the players ! Good luck ! 
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 12:50 AM |
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DaisyforU
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I know down deep NOT ALL MEN ARE PLAYERS! I just fell for a smooth talking, handsome man. He broke my heart but it will repair!  I have learned threw this to be strong and hold my head up even if it wants to hang down out of being played to the MAX!  I'M NOT BASHING MEN! I think they are great!  I know many men have got hurt just as bad by ladies! I'M not alone on spouses being unfaithfull it hurts all of us to the MAX! I know thier are a lot of faithfull men and women around we just have to find them!
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 1:05 AM |
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carpediem48
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Experience has shown me that men(and women) who were cheated on by their wives and who have 'stuffed' their feelings about it are sometimes prone to being untrustworthy themselves...even if they weren't before.
We not only have to WORK on a relationship....we have WORK to do BEFORE a new relationship.
Whew!!!...no wonder so many people conscuiously or unconsciously just want to fool around. 
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 2:15 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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We not only have to WORK on a relationship....we have WORK to do BEFORE a new relationship. Amen to that! And the better the work we do on and with ourselves prior to embarking on our next relationship, the better than relationship should be....
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 2:47 PM |
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waterfire
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It is harder NOT to trust and so much more human to.
Just realize that another can not take what is yours.which is the heart, yes that can be shared but never taken.
[Edited on 9/30/2007 2:54 PM]
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| Nov 9, 2007 @ 9:51 PM |
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madamegeek
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You WON'T trust again.....until you are surprised to find that you do.
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| Nov 9, 2007 @ 10:20 PM |
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painter007
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It comes with time.............................and then you just do,
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| Nov 10, 2007 @ 4:04 AM |
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blueyes101
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Perhaps it is how I live my life, or who I choose to be in mine..... but trust comes easier than not trusting... And so far it has served me well....... Not to say everything turns out the way I expected, it is just ......... I except things for what they are, and make small adjustments.. Life and happiness is a journey, not a destination....... 
If you burn a pizza are you afraid to cook another?
If you hit another car are you afraid to drive again?
If you break a bone are you afraid to leave the house????
How can I trust again You just do, ............ hopefully a little wiser...
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| Nov 10, 2007 @ 4:33 AM |
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twotall911
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It comes with time.............................and then you just do
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| Nov 10, 2007 @ 5:38 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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It comes with time.............................and then you just do,
You just don't make the mistake of trusting the same person.
What is cheating? Sex, right? And sex is just friction and the release of a little fluid, really no big deal. The big deal is the bond of trust between partners. Cheating is breaking that bond of trust, and once broken, it can't be restored. If you forgive them and they swear on their child's life that they will never do it again, the bond is still broken, because you will always doubt them, it will always be in the back of your mind, a little germ of doubt and worry, eating away at you. Poisoning your relationship forever.
That's why there can't be forgivness for breaking that bond. It has to be over, no matter how much it hurts you to do it.
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| Nov 10, 2007 @ 6:22 AM |
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SensualGemini
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madamegeek:...You WON'T trust again.....until you are surprised to find that you do.
...Isn't that the truth! ... that was good.
Touch:... And sex is just friction and the release of a little fluid, really no big deal.
...About a billion Muslims conclude that when body fluid meets body fluid, you are married. Of course, he simply says "I divorce you" three times and you are divorced... :)
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