| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:01 PM |
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sweet5red
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at this point i am wondering if any fellas out there are really Looking or just window shopping.. I get winks and send an email and No response... so fellas if u are not serious dont send a gal a wink and not follow up.. just my thoughts, i bet other ladies feel the same.. sweet N Louisiana  
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:02 PM |
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Marwizzle87
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It's not just guys. That happens to me too.
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:04 PM |
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donny3
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at least you email I will give you credit for that. I get nothing in return for winks and most emails. I don't wink if I am not interested.
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:04 PM |
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silknpearls
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I have wondered about that myself - why send a wink if you do not intend to follow-up?
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:06 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I used to wonder about that myself but I`m not any longer... 
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:06 PM |
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jim9562
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it's just to see if you have any interest at all,,,,,,,,,,,,,,it may sound lazy but why pour your heart out in an e-mail only to be shot down ,,,sometimes a quick wink can save alot of heartache,,,,,,,,,,it's probably a rejection issue,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:14 PM |
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silknpearls
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Jim, LOL, she is talking about why they would send a wink and then not reply back to her.
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:16 PM |
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jim9562
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Jim, LOL, she is talking about why they would send a wink and then not reply back to her.
the first thing i can think of is just ,,butterfingers,,,hit the wink button by accident,,,,,,,,because why wink if your not willing to respond,,,,,,,,,,,,,i stand semi-corrected 
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:17 PM |
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sweet5red
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it's probably a rejection issue,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Jim I dont have "rejection" issues just issues with winkers that dont follow up after they send you a wink.. I am very serious and sincere and beleive in MY heart that the"one" i seek is out there someplace.. Sweet N Louisiana
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:18 PM |
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jim9562
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Jim I dont have "rejection" issues just issues with winkers that ,,,,,
didn't mean you i meant the winker,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,winker? is that a word? i know wanker is,,,but that's a dif. topic
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:21 PM |
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chinabull2000
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at this point i am wondering if any fellas out there are really Looking or just window shopping.. I get winks and send an email and No response... I always send a pm in reply to a wink (unless it's an obvious scammer) because I just think the lady is a bit shy and doesn't know what to say first-off. I even reply if only to say thanks but no thanks. And then, on the rare occasion that I am interested romantically and I send a fairly lengthy pm, it seems that they don't reply back to me. So yes, what is the point in winking if you're not interersted???
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:27 PM |
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sweet5red
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Jim I dont have "rejection" issues just issues with winkers that ,,,,,
didn't mean you i meant the winker,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,winker? is that a word? i know wanker is,,,but that's a dif. topic
I try to be sincere and serious in my thread post and Jim Trys to turn it into a Joke.. JIM<----- Ok I took care of that,,  Sweet N Louisiana
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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jim9562
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try to be sincere and serious in my thread post and Jim Trys to turn it into a Joke
sweet i was too ,,you misunderstood,,,i was talking about the guy who winks instead of writing having rejection issues,,,,,,,,,,,,not you ,,you totally mis-interpreted what i said,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and i always find humor a better thing than anger 
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:31 PM |
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Loreli
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Sweet-
I've gotten several winks that I wink back, and never hear anything ever again, so, who knows why?
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:32 PM |
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DrewinJersey
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What Chinabull said. Although I seem to have that problem a lot lately(not just with winks), I'm getting a bit discouraged to send a PM and then just sit there with the silence hanging over me.
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:39 PM |
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silknpearls
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The PM thing may not work for all - does not work on my machine. Try email
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 2:40 PM |
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DrewinJersey
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PM is private messaging, i.e., the emailing on the site. IMing is when you just fire one off quick to someone(and I've never used it, since don't you need to pay to use it?).
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 3:17 PM |
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silknpearls
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IM/PM are usually used synonymously (although terms vary by sites) - email on site is often called messaging or email.
It all can get confusing, especially since there is no uniform manner from site to site.
Instant messaging can also refer to Yahoo instant messaging.
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 5:37 PM |
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grumblebear
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either we write too little or we write too much... we don't care, or we're smothering...
lol where is the middle ground?
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| Apr 19, 2006 @ 5:44 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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either we write too little or we write too much... we don't care, or we're smothering...
Not everyone thinks that way...
I`ve never had much of a problem with the emails...so its not much of a problem for me..you just have to go with the flow..if they write they write..if they don`t they don`t...winks..hmmm..I just take those as a compliment and if i remember I send a quick thanx for the wink...
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