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Apr 28, 2006 @ 9:30 PM The art of dating a Japanese woman    
RareQuestor


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i just wonder why you prefer japanese...? lots of pretty asians here..including SB..(hehehe!)


I have always enjoyed the beauty of Asian women. I like to think of myself as an Oriental who was punished for some sin by being reborn as a white man. Who knows? Perhaps I was once a fierce Samurai who broke the heart of a geisha and this is my punishment.

In all seriousness, I like women of all races, but I live in a city that is predominately white, so I suppose that is part of the fascination. Like SB, I consider myself a citizen of the world.
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Apr 29, 2006 @ 4:56 AM The art of dating a Japanese woman    
sleeping_beauty


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Finally, a well-thought of response from the OP! I thought you freaked out after reading my posts. Anyhow, we know now where you are coming from. And i thank you from the bottom of my heart for your interest in us, Asians.

Hopefully, I will be able to post a new photo as soon as I find an eye-patch or a fake scar or something which makes me look really fierce and dangerous.

You can send me a close up pic of yours and i'll do the complete makeover. I'm photoshop expert. Personally, I don't think you should be worrying about if your pic is good or bad. The funnier it looks, the more you'll get a response. Most Japanese girls are attracted to men who are fun and free spirited as they are the attributes that most Japanese men lacked. Educated Filipinas, on the other hand, look more on the guy's intelligence and humor only comes second. Looks are usually the last after personality. Maybe this is the reason why many foreigners love to hook up with Filipinas. The men i dated in the past have all the average looks but all are intelligent and fun to be with. I knew i could get infatuated soo easily with looks but it doesn't usually last for a day or two after i found out they have but a small brains to go with it.

I have not yet seen that movie apart from a couple of trailers on television, but it seemed rather tame to a man who has enjoyed Japanese porn.

In all seriousness, does anybody recommend it?


Do you mean the Japanese porn? You should know better they are freely available on the net. Just google it.

The mamas and daddies of the world should be very thankful that I had some morals when I was younger or else there would now be a whole horde of devilish Rarequestors running around seducing their daughters!

Even if there are devilish Rarequestors running around seducing me, there will always be a sword pointing at their private parts.

In all seriousness, I like women of all races, but I live in a city that is predominately white, so I suppose that is part of the fascination.


I felt the same way as you. I'm also living in an predominantly Japanese populace so i'm fascinated by men from cultures other than Japanese or Filipino.

regards,
S.B.
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Apr 29, 2006 @ 6:45 AM The art of dating a Japanese woman    
Bagherra


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Well, I've never been contacted by a Japanese women on this site either.

I have contacted a few & the correspondence has ranged from sweet to fascinating but ultimately unrealised. ...On reflection, I'm not sure that they were seriously looking.
All of the Japanese women I've had anything to do with in the last 15 years have been introduced to me (or I to them...) by an intermediary. Sometimes a friend, often a stranger & occasionally a teacher (I studied Japanese language for 2 years and martial arts, religeon & philosophies for >10.
So, if you are really interested, plug yourself into a network.

Also, for what its worth - since I started my sea-change / bohemian turn into the arts & journalism about 5 or so years ago, the only Japanese women who pay me any attention are ones a bit - or quite a bit - older than me who want to take a walk on the wild side. Now, I can scrub up surprisingly well in a 3 piece suit... but that's not what my profile or my usual day to day demeanour suggests. Someone who is looking for a suit is not so likely to 'get' me.
The 2 exceptions - who may read this one day - were both musicians & bohemians themselves. Both are chain smokers & it was just not going to happen!

Being uber clear & erring on the side of respect works well on the 'net. My main purpose here has to do with being clear about what I want in a life partner but clearly I'm not interested in being a monk in the meantime!
So these adventures were fine with me - not women I was ever going to start a family with but wonderful women nevertheless. However, none of these (flings - I think you'd have to say) went anywhere beyond a few weeks, or 4 months in one special case. But it was nice being wined, dined & appreciated for a while. :)

So, how open are you to those Japanese women (small % but large population) who might be willing to experiment?

Regards,
- TonyG

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