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May 3, 2006 @ 12:35 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
holding4u


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Everyone is so concerned about finding a mate who is truthful, but it is the little things that trip you up. A friend of mine, after a year courtship, recently married. After 3 months of marriage, she discovered he wore DENTURES!!! Apparently hubby placed his dentures under a towel which he carefully placed on the window sill ---until the dog found them and ate them. TRUTH IS IMPORTANT!!
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May 3, 2006 @ 12:38 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
chinabull2000


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I kinda feel sorry for the guy, but hell yeah he should've been truthful, how on earth did he think he could hide that fact for long?
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May 3, 2006 @ 12:41 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
TiNkErGrRrRrR


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Yeah..how on earth did he hide that fact..
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May 3, 2006 @ 12:41 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
holding4u


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China - how many people do you know that lie as long as they can until something happens to make them fess up.
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May 3, 2006 @ 1:12 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
chinabull2000


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China - how many people do you know that lie as long as they can until something happens to make them fess up.
Unfortunately I know a lot of people like that, but the denture thing was just TOO obvious!!
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May 3, 2006 @ 1:29 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
nah12


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if i must confess..... my name is NOT Glenda
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May 3, 2006 @ 1:39 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
richmondcowgirl83


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I dated a guy who wore them, he didn't tell me for the first month we were dating he actually slept with them in for the first few nights I stayed with him. Once we got comfortable around each other he didn't tell me anything he just left little clues around. I was cool with it.
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May 3, 2006 @ 3:53 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
WickedWench


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Maybe I"m missing the point here. Not telling someone you wear dentures, to me, isn't a big deal.

I do agree omission is a deception but it's teeth. If after getting married, he turned around one day and said "I have 4 children from another marriage"? That's different. Or disclosed that he was far far in debt and now it's going to affect you, yup I'd be miffed.

But dentures? That's kinda like not telling someone you dye your hair. It's innocent.....to me
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May 3, 2006 @ 3:56 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
spongebob777


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My chompers are the real deal.
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May 3, 2006 @ 4:05 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
HarleysB_WV


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Dentures??

I occasionally joke about wearing them myself, but now that I think about it, I can't ever remember announcing to a date that I wear them. I guess they're just not that far up on my list of "important" things to tell my date....lol

I sleep with my dentures in most of the time and rarely ever think about them unless I'm soaking them or what not. But day to day they are the last thing on my mind. Hope potential dates don't have an issue with dentures, because I'll be in big trouble if they do!!! It's just not something I think about telling them.

Maybe MD needs to add a place for the mention of dental work on the profile pages??
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May 3, 2006 @ 4:15 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
TiNkErGrRrRrR


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Maybe MD needs to add a place for the mention of dental work on the profile pages??



I don`t see where it should matter either..perhaps theres guys or women out there that have a.......gummy fetish..
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May 3, 2006 @ 4:47 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
bevrice


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Lol, wench, am with you on this one. What should it matter? Gee, as long as they don't go around without them, now THAT is a turn off, for sure. Most people even sleep in them, my mom did, you never saw here without her teeth, so for all intents and purposes, they WERE her teeth. Gee, most people my age look better with dentures, anyway, their teeth are nicer and whiter with dentures than with their real teeth.
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May 3, 2006 @ 5:44 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
holding4u


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Dentures don't matter. That is the point - people lie and cover up things that turn into something ridiculous when it could all have been avoided by telling the truth.
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May 3, 2006 @ 6:11 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
SylvanDreams


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A friend of my niece's wore contacts that changed the color of her eyes. She was so afraid her boyfriend(s) would find out that she slept with the contacts in, or took them out after the guy was asleep....silly girl.... if all he wanted was her eye color, he was not worth her time anyway.

I place dentures in the same category. My mom always wears hers 24/7. No one had to know she wears them. What difference does it make?

What about tooth caps and bridges, fake fingernails, boob jobs, having had an appendix removed, or a gall bladder, ...what about kidney stones? Should someone tell a person they're dating that they are subject to them? Where would it end?

Yeah, maybe they should tell, as it might be a shock to see my niece's friend with different-colored eyes, or to see someone without teeth....but I hardly think those are deal breakers or even major lies.

Maybe the guy just forgot to mention his dentures because he does not think about them, especially if he wears them 24/7 like my mom.

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May 3, 2006 @ 7:21 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
HarleysB_WV


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people lie and cover up things that turn into something ridiculous when it could all have been avoided by telling the truth


I'm sure that I am misunderstanding this. Wearing my dentures is as natural as breathing for me. Just because I don't think about them doesn't mean I am lying and covering up the fact that I have them. If a guy comes right out and asks me if I wear them, then I'll say yes, but otherwise it's the same as using a tampon. There are just some things that people don't think about, but it's certainly not lying or covering up the truth.

Please correct me if I am misunderstanding your point. Thanks!!
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May 3, 2006 @ 9:32 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
holding4u


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The thread was not an insult to denture wearers - just a little humor on how a little deception turned into a big one - when all along it didn't really matter.
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May 3, 2006 @ 9:45 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
JesterDrawers


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If a guy comes right out and asks me if I wear them, then I'll say yes, but otherwise it's the same as using a tampon.

Well, okay....as long as you don't get the two confused.......

Truthfully, I don't think it would bother me if she told me or not....I think I'd be interested a little more in HER than in whether her teeth were God-given or store bought!
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May 3, 2006 @ 11:07 PM Love, Truth and Dentures    
HarleysB_WV


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The thread was not an insult to denture wearers - just a little humor on how a little deception turned into a big one - when all along it didn't really matter.


lol.... I'm not insulted.
I guess I just don't understand why not mentioning that a person wears dentures is considered a lie or a deception. I don't tell simply because I don't normally give my teeth a second thought, not because I am ashamed of them or don't want anyone to know. And little things only turn into big things when someone chooses to make them bigger by over-reacting to them IMO.
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May 4, 2006 @ 12:01 AM Love, Truth and Dentures    
JesterDrawers


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After 3 months of marriage, she discovered he wore DENTURES!!!

The fact that he wore dentures is no big deal.
The fact that he did not feel comfortable enough, after 15 months and a trip to the altar, to ever mention it, and indeed, to try to hide it - THAT is a big deal! I'd love to know his reasons for not wanting to share that about himself....
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May 4, 2006 @ 12:54 AM Love, Truth and Dentures    
WickedWench


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I'd love to know his reasons for not wanting to share that about himself....


Maybe they weren't his?
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