| May 3, 2006 @ 1:31 PM |
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yugioh476
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hi, i begain to say i am changing well certain things about my at the beginning of the year. to have a better lifestyle.
1 was i told her i am clearing up my acne.
who really wants acne serisusly? I don't serisusly.
also i thold her i am changing my self so i can learn better for sure.
i think i forgot a few things here maybe.
what i didn't say to her that that i was not chaging things that are not really broken. you know the old saying if it's not broken don't fix it?... well i changed something here and there. also to better education for the future.
she thought i didn't really love her. i asked her why do you think i was sending those cards to you?
then i told i did love here serisusly every thing is straight from my heart.
i sent her 1 ecard for the missunderstanding.
to say to her i'm only fixing things that are broken.
the thing's i'm not changing about myself is;
me being sweet, nice, anything else.
i am being truthful here.
what do you think?
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:35 PM |
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Cupcake43130
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Well....I'm really confused by your post. I read it twice and I still can't figure out what the question is.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:39 PM |
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yugioh476
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sorry. i guse i got side tracked.
here is my question:
how do i say to her that i truely won't change on the inside?
she is special to me. that's the ? above.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:40 PM |
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Jankia
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what do you think?
Your only 22,acne will go away with age.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:42 PM |
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yugioh476
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truely not. i'v found that my acne is going away by detoxing my body within.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:43 PM |
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MotownManiax
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??????? 
Hmm, so what you mean is you can change some of the things that outwardly repulse her but will not change your inner self. She has to accept that for what it is?
 Am I even close? (Gawd, hate it when I need translations for some of these posts...lol)
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:45 PM |
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yugioh476
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@MotownManiax yes that is what i'm saying here. everything else is good. so far.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:46 PM |
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Cupcake43130
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^^^^I hear ya MoTown.....I'm still confused  .
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:48 PM |
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yugioh476
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how do i ask her to accpt that somethings will changes?
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:48 PM |
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MotownManiax
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Well, yug, all you can do is tell her your views and be truthful. If she doesn't accept it, move on. Sheesh, you're only 22? You're just starting your relationship life?
Hope that helps. 
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:50 PM |
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yugioh476
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@MotownManiax
yeah that helps. thank you
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:50 PM |
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MotownManiax
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P.S. -- Not to beat ya up, but for a start you might want to clean up your profile info...lol.
"I'm smarter, intellgent, Understandable, i'm knowledgeable, gracious, more."
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:51 PM |
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richmondcowgirl83
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if she can't accept you for who you are on the outside then she probably won't even take the time to see who you are on the inside. She seems shallow to support you for changing if thats not what you truely want FOR YOU.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:51 PM |
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yugioh476
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thanks for the info
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:56 PM |
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wandaful123
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Awww, yugio... be nice to yourself and not for another. If someone doesn't respond positively to you, pick yourself up and move on. Continue to work on the things about yourself "you" are not happy with. Take it a day at a time and enjoy the journey. 
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:56 PM |
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yugioh476
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she seems to support most of my changes. minor details.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 1:58 PM |
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yugioh476
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@wandaful123 thanks for the info, support.
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| May 3, 2006 @ 2:00 PM |
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richmondcowgirl83
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it shouldn't matter if she likes it or not. The question is do you?
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| May 3, 2006 @ 2:42 PM |
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nowhinning
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Change only what you do not like about yourself. NEVER change for anyone, you may not like who you turned out to be. If they do not care for who you are now I say BYE BYE!
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| May 3, 2006 @ 3:39 PM |
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zulamaze
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LOL--- Why is he asking us?
Afterall, we are still on here LOOKING.
Have you noticed how we tend to hand out advice --
like we have all the answers....
maybe we need the advice?????
Or maybe I am just speaking for myself...
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