| May 5, 2006 @ 7:43 AM |
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willsmalto
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ok I've got this crying and stuff from almost every woman I've gone out with.......wait a minute...oh no, all the women I've dated( if my memory serves me right).
To the men:
Has any of you folks noticed this? how do you feel when a lil talk or argument reduces your partner to tears?
To the gals:
Are they tears of remorse, regret, happiness......crocodile tears or you gals just want to be petted? I don't get it.
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| May 5, 2006 @ 7:47 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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 I don`t cry...
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| May 5, 2006 @ 7:47 AM |
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HarleysB_WV
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Well Will, that would depend on the woman and the situation. Me personally?? I can cry when I am very happy. I can cry when I am very angry. I can cry over sad movies, books, etc. I'm not going to say it is 100% a woman thing, but from what I have seen myself, a lot of women cry for varying amount of reasons. And yes, a few have actually been known to cry just to get what they want or to make a man feel bad (crocodile tears). Unfortunately I have yet to figure out why we cry when we do, but have realized that it's hard to not cry sometimes. LOL.
I hope someone can give you a better answer!!
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| May 5, 2006 @ 7:48 AM |
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wandaful123
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You may want to reconsider the type of women you are dating? 
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| May 5, 2006 @ 7:54 AM |
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willsmalto
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I don`t cry...
I just don't believe ya Tink.....lets be honest here lol
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| May 5, 2006 @ 8:03 AM |
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willsmalto
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You may want to reconsider the type of women you are dating?
I don't think reconsidering is the best solution (for me) cos I've tried, tried and tried again to no avail. I thought I was the problem but a few guys I know bitched about the same issue
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| May 5, 2006 @ 8:06 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I just don't believe ya Tink.....lets be honest here lol
 Ok..I cried at my dads funeral...but I don`t let myself cry over a man.. 
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| May 5, 2006 @ 8:11 AM |
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willsmalto
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Unfortunately I have yet to figure out why we cry when we do, but have realized that it's hard to not cry sometimes.
Harley, you cracked me up here. I think it's a kinda mannerism when SOME women shed tears especially in a relationship, isn't it?
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| May 5, 2006 @ 8:18 AM |
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willsmalto
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Ok..I cried at my dads funeral...but I don`t let myself cry over a man..
Tink, you must be an "iron lady" then. I still have to make acquaintance with the very few women of your calibre. I wish I had one now lol
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| May 5, 2006 @ 9:13 AM |
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Loreli
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I know women who don't cry over their guys, they get mad or they get happy without the tears. It's just an individual thing, and sometimes hormone induced! Heck-I just watched the final episode of Saved by the bell where Zach and Kelly get married, and I got tears in my eyes! 
But seriously, I don't like yelling so I can cry when I am really p o ed. Sometimes things are just so sentimental, like a kiss, or a gift, or a hug at the right time that I sniffle.
Everyone is just different! (or you pick each of your date times at the wrong time of their month!)
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| May 5, 2006 @ 9:14 AM |
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bevrice
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Well, I don't cry, either, not around anyone, my kids only saw me cry one time. My tears are private and not a weapon, they are because I am hurt, not to use to hurt anyone else. Lol, now, I do cry at sad movies, and weddings, sweet things, and silly things, but those are not the kind of tears you were talking about.
As for your women's tears, you will have to ask them, we have no way of knowing why they are crying, could be for a number of reasons.
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| May 5, 2006 @ 9:37 AM |
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willsmalto
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crying at sad movies, weddings, tragedies like those in the Middle East make sense. I'm not embarrassed to admit that i've shed tears in the past cos of the above mentioned reasons especially when I witnessed crimes and horrors committed against innocent pple. I think it's a kinda expression of my feelings
But I don't get it when a woman cries over nothing, absolutely nothing
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| May 5, 2006 @ 10:10 AM |
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Loreli
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I'm tellin ya- Sentiment or hormones!
(maybe you are doing something so incredibly sweet, it touches their heart and soul...)
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| May 5, 2006 @ 10:14 AM |
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lacyvsq
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I think she is wanting to soil your handkechief so that she can launder it for you and return it -- thus guarantying that she will see you again. Stop carrying tissues or forcing her to rely on the napkins on the table.
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| May 5, 2006 @ 10:21 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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This is part of a poem..perhaps it will help you understand Will. 
When GOD got on the phone, the man said, "GOD, why do women cry so easily?"
GOD said....... When I made woman she had to be special:
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort...
I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children......
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining......
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt them very badly.......
This same sensitivity helps her to make a child's boo-boo feel better and shares in their teenagers anxieties and fears.......
I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart......
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
I gave her a tear to shed, it's hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed. It's her only weakness....
It's a tear for mankind...
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| May 5, 2006 @ 11:31 AM |
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MotownManiax
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I've had a couple girlfriends that could be characterized as "criers".
One was just an emotional basket case. Toward the end it got to be almost tragic-comic. We "should" have broken up at least three weeks before we actually did, but she was going through one of her never-ending crisis's so I thought, under the circumstances, why add to the trauma? Then I finally realized, there will "always" be a crisis with her, and if I used that as an excuse to keep putting off breaking up it'd never happen? I finally ended it, and had to absorb reams of abuse that I "abandoned" her in her time of need.
Some guys like drama queens -- I don't. 
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| May 5, 2006 @ 11:37 AM |
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wandaful123
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Some guys like drama queens
Some guys are them 
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| May 5, 2006 @ 11:39 AM |
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silknpearls
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Lacy, too funny!
Unless she is just being hormonal, cannot see a woman crying for NO reason. Maybe you just do not know why she is crying? Have you asked? Maybe you are just dating basket cases? Not sure what your criteria is when you look for a potential date but maybe you should reconsider how you choose them?
I usually do not cry even when I have a reason to cry. Think it comes from being a single parent. Who knows? Anyway, tears can be healthy too. Crying for someone who passed away is a good way to help a person through the healing process.
LOL wandaful - too true!
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| May 5, 2006 @ 12:03 PM |
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lacyvsq
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Have you asked?
Silk -- Great minds run in the same channels.... that was initially to be my post before. It goes right along with the thread about what goes on in the minds of women.
The only dates where I have cried were those immediately after my father's death when I was trying for distraction from grief. God bless that man who watched as I literally salted my food with tears. I believe there is a bank somewhere and when you are kind in such instances, you are making a deposit and it will return to you compounded, not from the same source, but from the bank.
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| May 5, 2006 @ 12:10 PM |
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willsmalto
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wow Tink! that poem of yours tops the posts on this thread. I think it just melted my soul
Bravo!!!!!!
Sentiment or hormones!
crying as a result of hormonal reflex might not be the good type cos this could happen anywhere...in public.....oh God! ....... a real pain in the butt
I think she is wanting to soil your handkechief so that she can launder it for you and return it -- thus guarantying that she will see you again.
cool  but this doesn't have to be an everytime kinda thing
Some guys are them
drama queens? I hate them like hell.....oops, do we have to hate somebody?
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