| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:15 PM |
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Wibber
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After like 2 or 3 months with no contact after a first date. WTF? I get this phone call tonight, and it's this kid I met at the end of September. I thought we had fun, we had some drinks, went back to my place and kissed a bit, then said goodbye and that we'd get together again. He even called me later to tell me how much fun he had.
So I get this call tonight, right in the middle of my Beaujalais Nouveau and he tells me he had a really bad ashthma attack (I can relate) and he was in the hospital, etc. Well what about the other 2 1/2 months?
I dunno what to think. I pretty much had chalked him up as a one date wonder (which is better than a one night stand).
Oh, btw, the guy is 25 years old. 
P.S. I met him on this site!!! Like over a year ago. He still remembers me being excited about the Beaujalais from last year. I never took him seriously, however, because, he's 25.
[Edited on 11/17/2005 7:15 PM]
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:30 PM |
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spongebob777
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Cradle robber   
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:35 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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If he is so young like you say at 25 then WHY did you ever go out with him for the first date? 
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:45 PM |
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Talonz59
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age aside, if HE was that interested he would have stuck around in the first place. He's been playing the field and his field is mighty slim at this time, so it's time to go back to what worked. Kinda like a slap in the face if you ask me.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:47 PM |
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MarysPlace
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So he was bored, so he picked up the phone and called you. No big deal. I mean, you weren't considering a serious relationship with a 25 year old? Therefore, why giving the call a second thought, let alone post about it?
Go out with him if you get bored. But don't take it seriously.
Oh and... you may wanna reconsider posting about people you meet here. There's always a chance that he reads this and that just isn't right.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:52 PM |
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lecriveuse
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wibber, u goober!  i'm not gonna say cradle robbin cos i'd have 2 bop him about being n the craftsmatic adjustable bed. 
seriously, it sounds like u had fun, n u might even b thrilled about him being so young. even w/bad asthma, it wouldn't take him that long 2 recover. if he really wanted 2 contact u, he could've. could u just hang out with this boy until someone better came along, and would u really want 2 do that? ur waaay better than that.
let jr go off n get dry behind the ears. u have ur beaujalais n us. 
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:55 PM |
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buni
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I agree with talonz.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:59 PM |
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Wibber
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If he is so young like you say at 25 then WHY did you ever go out with him for the first date?
Confession time-- I like guys in their 20s. f***ing sue me.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:07 PM |
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lecriveuse
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wibber, must we have the talk or get u fixed?  
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:08 PM |
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spongebob777
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Hell I'm straight and I'd have to think twice about turning down a 25 year old, male or female.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:39 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Confession time-- I like guys in their 20s. f***ing sue me. WHY are you cussing me out. Your the one that posted your business and this is a public forum therefore we have a right to our own opinion and I personally think it's a joke for a 47 year old woman to date a 25 year old.I think it's a joke for a 47 year old man to date a 25 year old too  Yes I've dated younger guys who were 10 years younger but that is as young as I would ever date em. I have limits and morals I donot date those who are my kids ages I'd tell the 25 year old to go back to school and play catch up
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 9:27 PM |
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TiredofZGame
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I have to agree. This has to be what the "kid" was doing, but at any rate....
You go girl! 
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 9:45 PM |
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mrwally1954
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wibber so a 25 year old is OK must admit would love a 25yo but a reality check i have wiped pop of my 25 yo son and daughters butt.
A 25 is also hot in bed goes all night instead of all night to go. What do they really want leaves a question open. May be they are so insecure they need a parental guide. The reason they didnt return was a polite way of saying no realising their mistake.
its like belting Ur head against a brick wall feels good whene you finish.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 9:51 PM |
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buni
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Confession time-- I like guys in their 20s. And there isn't anything wrong with that at all! I have dated younger men and it is fun.You go girl. 
I like older men too.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 11:03 PM |
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showme100254
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Just the idea that you referred to him as a kid would make me wonder...what were you thinking??????? 
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 11:47 PM |
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EyesofBlue72660
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Gail.....I'm guessing it was a booty call - which, hey, if you both know that, where's the problem?
And, whether you go there with him or not, there's nothing wrong with an ego boost!!!!! You go girl!!!
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| Nov 19, 2005 @ 3:23 PM |
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tryitout2005
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Hmmmm....one date.......a bit of smooching.......then gone like the wind? My guess is something he was better came along and bye-bye Wibber. That something better has dumped him and he's gonna try and slither his way back into your good graces.
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| Nov 20, 2005 @ 8:50 AM |
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lecriveuse
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eyesofblue, santa is watching u cos he KNOWS about u digging around n ur filtered mails.  now ur corrupting wibber
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| Nov 20, 2005 @ 10:09 AM |
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EyesofBlue72660
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Lecriveuse....Who, me?!?!? 
Here I thought I was just being supportive of Wibber!!
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| Nov 20, 2005 @ 1:08 PM |
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Wibber
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Eyes of Blue, I appreciate your support. Lecriveuse, I apprecate your humor!!
Said young man called me last night but I missed his call. Then he called late, like when I was watching SNL. I guess I'm supposed to call him today. But I probably won't. And I'm supposed to see him on Tuesday, but that's my TV night.
I'm ambivalent, and the comments that he was with someone in the meantime and it ended aren't making me feel very positive. To be fair, he has moved and changed jobs and then of course that thing where he was in the hospital.
I am so not looking for a booty call, so if that's what he wants, he will be very disappointed.
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