| Jul 15, 2006 @ 7:12 PM |
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Gray81
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Curious to know what goes through a woman's mind when she gets an email or a wink. It's always been my understanding that a wink is the same as "hey I saw your profile, think you're worth talking to." So when I email, I reference something specific I liked about their profile or ask a question or two, to probe for a response. In all honesty, does it matter what anyone says in their emails? Is a response 100% profile driven? Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag? 
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 7:16 PM |
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jamminjerry
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yes it is unsexy to wear that bag during sex!! duct tape that damn hole!!! hey tape comes in lots of cool colors! fake it! say its a tatoo!
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 7:22 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag?
 I'd think it would be a lot unsexier NOT to wear it, but Jerry's right, when the going gets tough, the tough get duct tape!
I don't think there are any rules, it's been discussed over and over, and the general consensus seems to be that there's no consensus. For me, if I get a wink I look to see if it's a man or a woman (yeah, really!). Next, since I'm a paying member, I look to see if they've actually looked at my profile. If so, I look at theirs, and if it looks as if there might at least be grounds for conversation, I'll wink back...even if they're on another continent..talk doesn't cost a cent on the internet! And responses to emails are usually driven by the email rather than the profile, at least in my case.
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 7:47 PM |
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IndigoRose
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I have been winking back at all of them sometimes they wink four or five times maybe it's a Tic??? 
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 8:09 PM |
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dereckv
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Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag?
Now this is truly the question we all have been dying to know about, It is very sexy to wear the bag, especially if you paint it different colors ... I have heard the Tarzan theme bag is perhaps the coolest in town. I wear two when I am going on an outing, great conversation starters and the chicks really dig em .... most women like to squeeeeeeze on them and find them quite arousing. They look best when worn with the Scottish Kilt and are kept full. Bon Jovi had a pink one in his last video. They are becoming very trendy though, think I'll go back to 4 mood rings on each hand.
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 8:12 PM |
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holding4u
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Don't worry about the colostomy bag. One of the most gorgeous men I ever saw had a beautiful wife, two children and a colostomy bag.
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 10:33 PM |
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Gray81
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LOL @ dereckv
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 10:38 PM |
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tyrannyforyou
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at some point, one of those rap artists and his entourage are going to be in a violent shootout and several "victims" are going to be sporting colostomy bags to some award show and then millions of lemming teenagers and 20-somethings will shoot themselves to get colostomy bags in some bizarre crap-bag twenty-first century fad. then they will be not only cool, but sexy in many different colors!
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| Jul 15, 2006 @ 11:13 PM |
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Jankia
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Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag?
Ok,you ask for an expert opinion,so here you go.(I'm a bonafide colostomy bag expert)
My ex had to wear one because of Crohns desease.She would just plug it up for intimate times.I never really thought she would have sex with another guy with that problem and married to me but she did.So I guess its not to "unsexy".
Curious to know what goes through a woman's mind when she gets an email or a win
Now that I'm not a bonafide expert on.
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| Jul 16, 2006 @ 4:24 PM |
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dereckv
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discalimer here!!!! I wanted to express that I made light of the bag, and it is not a funny situation for you folks that are going though it. I often only try to make humour out of a very nasty situations. My grandfather had to wear one as well as a feeding tube ... he was quite miserable and I am sympathetic to anyone who has to endure this type of healthcare problem. This is a serious issue and I don't think it's funny. I only tried to make light of it .. so don't take me too seriously people, I am crazy anyways.
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| Jul 16, 2006 @ 5:16 PM |
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lacyvsq
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Is a response 100% profile driven?
I am an expert on this. Speaking for this woman's mind, no, it is about 80% hormone driven, 5% on whether he has tracking on and I can see that he has at least pulled up my profile, 5% profile, 5% email content and 5% location. In the case of a wink, the 5% normally reserved for email content goes to hormones. That means on an average hormonal day -- or rather in an average hormonal moment, a man in the Houston area emailing me or winking at me after having looked at my profile has a better than 50% chance of a response. Warmth, wit and/or wisdom in his email or profile could not only earn him the 5% for that category, it could also improve the hormonal percentage. If, however,it's a definitely down day, you could be living next door with the most appealing profile and an inspired email after a thorough examination of my profile where you have lined up all of our compatabilities -- and it would just be bad timing.
The bottom line is that you only have a small percentage of control over how you will be received by me. The rest is timing and luck, so don't take a non-response too personally. I have been known to answer email that was more than a month old, but then I am not a typical woman -- and perhaps there is no typical woman.Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag? I am definitely not an expert on that -- tho I'm with Heaven in thinking that it is probably sexier wearing it than not.
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| Jul 16, 2006 @ 5:17 PM |
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lonewolf299
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Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag?
Just as long as you keep it away from an open flame you shouldn't have any problems after all what girl doesn't like a bag full of sh**.
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| Jul 16, 2006 @ 6:42 PM |
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SunBabe
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Just as long as you keep it away from an open flame you shouldn't have any problems after all what girl doesn't like a bag full of sh**.
Uhhhhhhhhhhh...................
 perhaps we can now see where LONEwolf comes from.
what girl doesn't like a bag full of sh**
I can tell you, MOST girls/women don't take it!  If they do, their best move is to toss it back...rightfully.
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| Jul 17, 2006 @ 10:02 AM |
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Bobbelieu
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This has got to be one of the stranger threads I've taken a peek at.
That's what I like about this forum.... 
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| Jul 17, 2006 @ 5:26 PM |
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dereckv
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I am inclined to agree with Bobbo up there.
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| Jul 18, 2006 @ 9:59 AM |
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ArielAV
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Curious to know what goes through a woman's mind when she gets an email or a wink. It's always been my understanding that a wink is the same as "hey I saw your profile, think you're worth talking to." So when I email, I reference something specific I liked about their profile or ask a question or two, to probe for a response. In all honesty, does it matter what anyone says in their emails? Is a response 100% profile driven? Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag?
When I get a Wink, I know someone had noticed my PHOTO - trust me, not everyone read the profile. I dun really know what to do with Winks - though I appreciate the attention.
When i get an email, I'll reply with a "no thanks" even if I'm not keen. S'only polite...
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| Jul 18, 2006 @ 4:27 PM |
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amicishirl
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When I get a wink from someone, I always read their profile. If I think I would be interested in them - no matter where they are located - I will wink back.
If I get an e-mail, I will answer it, even if just to say "thanks, but no thanks" unless it is a "nice boobs" or something similar to that, I just ignore those.
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| Jul 21, 2006 @ 3:03 PM |
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Gray81
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Nice boobs, Shirl 
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 8:51 PM |
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SandyDiggler
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How I look at things...
A wink to me means absolutely nothing, if anything it means "hey you're hot but not worth the time to send an e-mail to." And you know what, I'm sure in a guy's mind that's not what it means at all But it's what I get from it
In all honesty, does it matter what anyone says in their emails?
In my opinion it matters a LOT, then again I'm very picky about who I respond to, referencing my profile, especially in an amusing (funny/witty, not tacky/could-be-taken-badly) way is almost guaranteed to at least get a response out of me. One sentence e-mails are usually guaranteed to get nothing from me.
That's just my two cents. 
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| Aug 22, 2006 @ 9:07 PM |
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UserNameWithoutAnyNumbers
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Is it "un-sexy" to wear a colostomy bag? Don't them things come with a blanking plate for intimate encounters? 
5% on whether he has tracking on and I can see that he has at least pulled up my profile Well I would lose %5 there, I keep my tracking off all the time for when I get click happy and click on a guys profile by mistake, don't want the men on here thinking I fancy them or anything 
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