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willsmalto
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I've come to the conclusion that a woman decides within five minutes of meeting a man whether or not she will have sex with him. Is this true gals? Possibly true, but there is one catch. Most women I know may initially decide to have sex with a guy, but when she finds out he sucks at kissing or is a bad or a mediocre kisser, she changes her mind entirely. He won't even get asked for a nightcap, much less for breakfast the next morning. As their lips part while they stand on the doorstep, she will announce that she has an early-morning meeting or (if the guy was really really awful) that she's actually already married to someone else.
what do y'all think?
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 4:39 AM |
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willsmalto
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This is one of the ways in which men and women differ. If a man is very attracted to a woman but discovers she's a bad or mediocre kisser, he'll probably have sex with her anyway if presented with the opportunity. A woman can't get past a bad kiss. right gals? (Unless, of course, she's a horrible kisser herself, but I'm not talking about those women on here.) My interaction with women has made me realise that a bad kiss, well to most women of this ilk, only spells trouble down the road, so to speak. After all, if he hasn't mastered kissing and fails to see its sensual possibilities, what hope is there for, ahem, anything else?
The disappointment of a bad kiss is a recurring topic of discussion among a group of single women......true, huh?
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 4:51 AM |
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Snappygoddess
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5 minutes within meeting? wow.. that's fast... Speaking from past experience... there is no way I would even kiss a man I am just meeting within the first 5 minutes of being with him. Hug, maybe.. but it takes more then 5 minutes to establish if you even like the way they look or act, let alone how they kiss...
Once I am comfortable enough and we are about to part and have a kiss... then yes, I agree, a kiss says a lot about how a man makes love...however... I have been with men that at first didn't kiss real well, but were quick learners 
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 5:39 AM |
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mailorderannie
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She might decide within the first 5 minutes if she wants to continue to get to know him, but, you are absolutely right about the kiss. If a guy is a lousy kisser, the chances are, hes lousy at everything else too. I can think of two instances where I was interested in a guy, but once he kissed me, any interest I had went right out the window. I've discussed this with a guy friend as well, and he agreed with me...no bad kissers! lol
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 7:46 AM |
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Goodness_Gracie
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Ummmm I didn't kiss and after 5 minutes decide to sleep with him. Have more morals then that!! LOL I am with Snappy....a hug.....
But if he is a guy who wants to see if I still have my tonsils intact!!!! NO WAY!!!! And his tongue tries to lick off or suck my teefer's NOT!!!!!!! You know the kind that think there mouth is a vacum cleaner!
But if it is a sweet gentle kiss and it progresses and slowly nibbles my bottom lip as I nibble his and his kisses take the nail polish off my toes well DAYUM!!
 
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 7:51 AM |
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amicishirl
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Well speaking from personal experience, I think within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone, I will know whether or not there is the POSSIBILITY that I would ever sleep with them. And that first kiss sometimes makes or breaks the possibility. If they are really bad - forget it!
Shirl
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 9:02 AM |
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wiccked
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i agree with you, Goodness Gracie, just because i may tell some dirty jokes doesnt mean i need a Roto Rooter man in the kissing department  i like plain old kissing- and here is a little question for this thread- do you kiss with your eyes open or closed? 
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 9:05 AM |
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willsmalto
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no snappy the 5 minutes is just for the thought and of course is so many minutes, maybe hours away, prior to the kissing time......but your point was though
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 9:17 AM |
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Goodness_Gracie
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Amen wiccked I agree!!!
I kiss mostly closed eyes!!
But then sometimes I like to be playful and peek to see if his are open or closed!
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 9:34 AM |
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jamminjerry
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it seems that you gals have taught me an essential trick in this game that allows me to get out of a postential relationship. one or 2 licks across the nose ought to do the job, and tossing in the old reliable " tastes like sugar but its not" should garantee no phone calls! LOL i have breen thinking about taking this game a bit more serious.
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 9:41 AM |
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wiccked
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jeez!!!! a couple of licks across the nose???????
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 10:04 AM |
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zulamaze
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Well speaking from personal experience, I think within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone, I will know whether or not there is the POSSIBILITY that I would ever sleep with them. And that first kiss sometimes makes or breaks the possibility. If they are really bad - forget it!
I agree with you Shirl -- 5 minutes is short, but I would know
whether it would go any further -- later on. Afterall, if there is
no attraction, WHY go further.
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 10:06 AM |
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ynot77
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5 hrs 37 mins ago Does a kiss speak?
willsmalto
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I've come to the conclusion that a woman decides within five minutes of meeting a man whether or not she will have sex with him. Is this true gals? Possibly true, but there is one catch. Most women I know may initially decide to have sex with a guy, but when she finds out he sucks at kissing or is a bad or a mediocre kisser, she changes her mind entirely. He won't even get asked for a nightcap, much less for breakfast the next morning. As their lips part while they stand on the doorstep, she will announce that she has an early-morning meeting or (if the guy was really really awful) that she's actually already married to someone else.
what do y'all think?
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5 hrs 26 mins ago Does a kiss speak?
willsmalto
Posts: 1109
This is one of the ways in which men and women differ. If a man is very attracted to a woman but discovers she's a bad or mediocre kisser, he'll probably have sex with her anyway if presented with the opportunity. A woman can't get past a bad kiss. right gals? (Unless, of course, she's a horrible kisser herself, but I'm not talking about those women on here.) My interaction with women has made me realise that a bad kiss, well to most women of this ilk, only spells trouble down the road, so to speak. After all, if he hasn't mastered kissing and fails to see its sensual possibilities, what hope is there for, ahem, anything else?
The disappointment of a bad kiss is a recurring topic of discussion among a group of single women......true, huh?
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5 hrs 14 mins ago Does a kiss speak?
Snappygoddess
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5 minutes within meeting? wow.. that's fast... Speaking from past experience... there is no way I would even kiss a man I am just meeting within the first 5 minutes of being with him. Hug, maybe.. but it takes more then 5 minutes to establish if you even like the way they look or act, let alone how they kiss...
Once I am comfortable enough and we are about to part and have a kiss... then yes, I agree, a kiss says a lot about how a man makes love...however... I have been with men that at first didn't kiss real well, but were quick learners
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4 hrs 26 mins ago Does a kiss speak?
mailorderannie
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She might decide within the first 5 minutes if she wants to continue to get to know him, but, you are absolutely right about the kiss. If a guy is a lousy kisser, the chances are, hes lousy at everything else too. I can think of two instances where I was interested in a guy, but once he kissed me, any interest I had went right out the window. I've discussed this with a guy friend as well, and he agreed with me...no bad kissers! lol
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Goodness_Gracie
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Ummmm I didn't kiss and after 5 minutes decide to sleep with him. Have more morals then that!! LOL I am with Snappy....a hug.....
But if he is a guy who wants to see if I still have my tonsils intact!!!! NO WAY!!!! And his tongue tries to lick off or suck my teefer's NOT!!!!!!! You know the kind that think there mouth is a vacum cleaner!
But if it is a sweet gentle kiss and it progresses and slowly nibbles my bottom lip as I nibble his and his kisses take the nail polish off my toes well DAYUM!!
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2 hrs 14 mins ago Does a kiss speak?
amicishirl
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Well speaking from personal experience, I think within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone, I will know whether or not there is the POSSIBILITY that I would ever sleep with them. And that first kiss sometimes makes or breaks the possibility. If they are really bad - forget it!
Shirl
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wiccked
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i agree with you, Goodness Gracie, just because i may tell some dirty jokes doesnt mean i need a Roto Rooter man in the kissing department i like plain old kissing- and here is a little question for this thread- do you kiss with your eyes open or closed?
mmmm ..how bout both?? and it prob depends a bit on the kiss...n intensity..umm anything else i'll just have to fax ya 
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 10:11 AM |
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ynot77
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 OPPPPSSS pardon the screw up
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 10:11 AM |
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willsmalto
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do you kiss with your eyes open or closed?
this depends on many factors....the scene, the person, your mood, the time and the place. like great sex, any tongue action should involve a give-and-take, with both parties allowing the opportunity for interaction in a saliva-laden-minute. closing the eyes is optional. closing the eyes makes it more sensational and intimate but sometimes I keep my eyes wide open just out of curious......to read my partners body language cuz good kissing doesn't involve talking. so just her body language will be able to tell me what to do and what not to do.....like I'd immediately stop if she seemed tensed or started pulling away.....and sometimes I open my eyes just to LOL peek periodically the where-about of our belongings like my drink, her purse, my wallet, especially when we're doing it in a make-out bar LOL.
LOL wanna hear something funny? I once opened my eyes( trying to cheat on my gal) and there she was. fortunately, she didn't spot us.
I think a good kiss starts off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive, gentle opening of your mouth and nudging your partners mouth open using just your tongue and a french kiss takes over.
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 10:13 AM |
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willsmalto
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jeez!!!! a couple of licks across the nose???????
LOL are we speaking here of dogs?
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 11:46 AM |
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wiccked
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i dont know ask jamminjerry!!! 
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 12:33 PM |
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irisheagle
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one or 2 licks across the nose ought to do the job,
i've known Some women that take it as Playing around,
depending on how long you have been seeing them.
Just a thought though.
jim
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 12:34 PM |
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NeverB4Alone
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  Bow Wow !!!!!! Ruff, Ruff  
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 12:36 PM |
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jamminjerry
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well sir, pertaining to dogs: the licking don't work on the canine ones! LOL they git all excited and lick back! 
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