| Dec 27, 2006 @ 12:14 PM |
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unicornlover27
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Will men give heavy women a chance? I would like to know. Does it matter if you are heavy or does it matter how you treat people and how active you are in the dating scene? Let me know what you think. Let it all hang out.
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| Dec 30, 2006 @ 2:34 PM |
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Lady_Panthea
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That is a tough question for men to answer cause if they tell the truth they look like jerks but the silence basically gives that one away in and of itself. Its a sad place we live in today. 
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| Jan 11, 2007 @ 2:45 PM |
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mallidalli
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Men can be such dolts at times...just as women can. Our society sees people (Women) as needing to be perfect....size 10, 36D breast size, long hair, blue eyes....well...not many of us fit that mold. Personally, I feel that a person is only as good as their heart..what makes them up..their willingness to be open and honest and their ability to not be self absorbed. As a larger built woman...I carry 50 extra pounds I have been trying to discard for over a year...and it keeps slowly melting away...my physical appearance will change, but my demeanor and personality won't...I will still be "ME". It is how you handle yourself...how your see yourself....if you see yourself as an overweight, good for nothing (as we all have been told we are because we are overweight) then you will begin to believe it...if we see ourselves as having the right to be on this earth, breathing the same air everyone else is and enjoying our lives...men tend to take a 2nd look....it depends on the man...it depends on the person....good luck
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| Jan 14, 2007 @ 3:01 PM |
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camporee
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I personally am looking for a woman with some meat, not wood and bones. Can any such lady take me up on this one?
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| Jan 14, 2007 @ 9:41 PM |
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swingpup
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I have dated women that thought that they were heavy. Possibly to them they were. I think it's only relevant to those that women that feel they are heavy date. I know personally I would much prefer "dating" a woman that is fun, bubbly, out going, adventures and enthusiastic then a size 6. 
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:03 PM |
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BABYCAKES930179
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YES YOU ARE AWESOME.
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 10:09 PM |
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steveemac
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Let it all hang out.
Unicorn, they arrest people for doing that! 
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| Jan 24, 2007 @ 6:43 PM |
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unicornlover27
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 I won't tell if you won't!   Seriously I just want an honest opinion.
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| Jan 25, 2007 @ 8:07 PM |
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justmike0
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I have viewd your prof. but I seem'd to be a couple of yr.s off your preffence. I'm still 58 going on 18, In body and mind. Take Care and Dont worry it will just make you older, in Mind and Body, Take a look at my Prof. maby youll change your mind. Mike
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| Feb 28, 2007 @ 4:50 PM |
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I12B810
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Heavy ladies need lovins too. Size should not matter, it's their personality that matters.
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| Mar 1, 2007 @ 11:34 PM |
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LeMara
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I believe it depends on how you show yourself to everyone. Just be yourself and the guys will follow. I know, believe me. I was 210 pounds and I had all kinds of guys wanting to hang out with me and stuff. I am just fun to be around because I don't see myself as being fat. Plus I think i have more a personality then those skinny hoes anyways. 
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| Mar 4, 2007 @ 5:30 PM |
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PinkLori03
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i have gone back and forth with weight-when i lost it i did it because i thought i would never find someone who loved me with the bit of extra weight. since then i have come to find that that just isnt true-there are men out there that just dont care. someone showed me that he liked me the way i was and not only that but didnt want me to change-it was the greatest feeling i have ever known to have someone who loved me in that way and now it makes me look at me differently. not only are there men out there who dont care--i have seen shows about men who specifically prefer heavier women-they dont want the size 2,-10 but rather like all the curves and "hang out" features if you will-that to me is encouraging as well. so i guess i could say that now the xtra pounds dont bother me-in fact id much rather find someone this way and then lose the weight so id know they were after me and who i am and not my jean size
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| Apr 20, 2007 @ 2:45 PM |
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dewsweetdew1
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When I was younger I was heavy but still got dates. At least they don't have a weight preference on weight like they do on age here. Men, close to my age seem to have more of a problem with age than weight. The right one will come along and love you for You.
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| Apr 24, 2007 @ 12:11 AM |
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sweetsunshine36
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Ahmen Sister!  I hear ya and Agree whole heartedly.
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| Apr 24, 2007 @ 12:12 AM |
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sweetsunshine36
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skinny hoes have no personality! u r so right
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| May 12, 2007 @ 8:24 AM |
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Eldermint
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When I write to someone, I get more nonresponses than answers. There can be a lot of reasons for that, but one is certainly they aren't attracted to me because of the way I look. Whether a woman who is a few pounds overweight is sexually attractive to me depends on how she carries it. Women who are exceedingly overweight are just not attractive to me but that doesn't mean I don't respect them and it doesn't mean we can't be friends. It does mean we won't be lovers and that's one of the four things that has to be there in an intimate connection -- physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual. Drop any one and the romance won't be there. That's why it's so d*mn hard to form and then maintain a loving, intimate relationship.
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| May 15, 2007 @ 2:31 PM |
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larockonoli
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well, I will try to answer this as honestly as possible. Without being a jerk.
I do not go for dating heavy women, I personally am not attracted to big women. There are a lot of guys out there that are. I have no issues with being friends with big people, or little people, or any people for that matter. I just am not turned on by a woman that is bigger than me.
I was told that "once you go fat you never go back" maybe thats why I am so scared... lol, jk. everyone brings something special to the table...
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| May 19, 2007 @ 9:18 AM |
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hotlips4U2
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Oh some will and some won't. Now that I have lost some weight I feel that the attractiveness comes in a number of things for I too look for someone that takes care of themselves. Because the committment that I want to next make will be forever with someone that also takes care of himself as death comes along when we aren't expecting it sometimes and by taking care of ourselves we hopefully might have a longer time together without carrying extra problems which weight sometimes causes. But patience eventually will point you in the right direction as I am sure with your smile you will shine for someone very special. 
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:29 AM |
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groundedsoul52632
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Ladies,
I just wanted to let you know that us bigger guys have the exact same problems that you do. Look through the women looking for men ads sometimes, and see how many women out there put a "high" preference on body types being average, slim, or muscular. Of every 100 women I contact, only about 3 write me back. Most simply ignore my letters and never respond back...yea that's real polite...lol
Yet here I am, what nearly every single woman wants in her man internally. I don't beat, I don't cheat, and I have never had a one night stand in my life. I am a loving father and have custody, I sacrificed my career to take care of my elderly parents, and went to college in an attempt to learn more about psychology in an attempt to help a daughter with mental and emotional disorders.
And Mallidalli, men are dolts? Excuse me, but the PROPER sentence would have been PEOPLE are dolts. Don't blame all men for what others have done. My ex-wife had a lot of mental problems due to abuse as a child, but you don't hear me saying all women are crazy.
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:31 AM |
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groundedsoul52632
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My apologies Mallidalli, I went back and reread your post, and you did, in fact, include women.
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