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Debunique
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Why is it just when you think you can trust a man you find out he's been filling you full of nothing but lies? How can anyone keep a lie going for so long? I just don't know if I can ever trust a man's word again.
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
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singlesexydad
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
Are all men these days big liars?
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singlesexydad
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
Are all men these days big liars? |
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singlesexydad
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
Are all men these days big liars?
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singlesexydad
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
Are all men these days big liars? |
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singlesexydad
Posts: 12
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
Are all men these days big liars?
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singlesexydad
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:40 PM |
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singlesexydad
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:40 PM |
Are all men these days big liars?
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singlesexydad
Posts: 12
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:40 PM |
Are all men these days big liars? |
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singlesexydad
Posts: 12
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 21, 2007 @ 8:40 PM |
Are all men these days big liars?
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singlesexydad
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Not all guys are Liars, sometimes you have to sift through a little trash to find treasure. That's why I haven't given up on finding a good woman
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| Aug 25, 2007 @ 6:03 PM |
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kehalacante717
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Please dont hold a past man as being a symbol for all men! Its just not that way, and its not fair to you or a new man to do so. I know firsthand how hard it is to trust again. My ex was not my dream guy, thats all I can say without sounding like a major bitch, but I know that the man I now see is not him and not anything like him-which is part of why I like him so much! We all take a little mistrust with us into a new relationship if we have been used, abused, cheated or otherwise hurt & angered by a past relationship (mental/emotional baggage), but you have to use common sense and logic as well as feelings in getting to know a person and in getting close to them. Common sense and logic tells you they are two different people with two different minds, hearts and agendas. Emotions tell you whether you can begin to feel anything for that person in any honest way. Just take it slow and get to know that person for themself, not for the sins against you of a past man. No-one is "exactly" like another person, and even tho we all make mistakes, we shouldnt hold it against ourselves or that new person either. Get to know a man and keep in mind, this is the net so people, whether male or female, will play up the good and downplay the bad in order to be accepted and liked. It doesnt mean they are big liars, it just means they like you enough to want to impress you and keep you around. Its just not the same as a straight up lie. A straight up lie would be a married man claiming he is single or something such as that. So give a man a chance and wait before you allow yourself to fall for him till you know he is honest and will be true to you. All of us want to show our best side on dating sites if we are looking for a mate, its just human nature to do so. So, all in all, NO not all men or women are big liars these days, I got lucky enough to have met one who is honest, so will you if you give it time.
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| Aug 27, 2007 @ 1:26 PM |
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dissunflower
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I like your attitude.Want to come and give some of it to the men of Henderson,Ky?
Diana
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| Aug 28, 2007 @ 11:19 AM |
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kehalacante717
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You have to give a man a chance, it takes getting used to being with someone new especially if they have been alone any amount of time. Unreturned calls or emails doesnt always mean something negative, such as lies. Be patient. Give them a chance to explain and stop thinking they are ALL alike, as they are as different as you and me. You will not meet a quality man with a negative attitude. You get what you give in life.
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| Sep 20, 2007 @ 5:49 AM |
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exvagabond
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Big liars? Well, there's this prevalant myth of "first impressions" preached in school to induce obedience, and spewed by Advertising to induce you to spend money. If First Impression trumps everything, then the tendency is to tell people what you think they want to hear. Of course that's not a very good trick, since you can't live with someone and keep secrets for long. But apparently that lesson doesn't take. Appearance-Over-Substance still rules. It sells a lot of fashionable junk, and millions of people believe it and buy into it. And so their attitudes toward each other take on the odor of a sales pitch. Caveat emptor.
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| Jun 12 @ 10:26 PM |
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julie40403
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Will be VERY hard for me to ever trust another man again, as well. My last boyfriend was telling everyone else that he was single and had alot of free time on his hands. At that same time, he and I were seeing each other for a year, and he was telling some b*tch in Northern KY that he loved her every day. The minute I found out what he was doing, I dropped him like a hot potato. It's been over 2 months now, and I hope he is just as miserable now as he made me......
So many men are players.
Been divorced since 1991, and will NEVER get married again......
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| Jun 13 @ 6:58 AM |
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exvagabond
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So many men are players. We mustn't ignore the 300-pound bear in the room: Most couples and most marriages break up. So, most people don't know what they want, and/or are insonsistent about it.
and will NEVER get married again... Once burned, twice warned. No company is better than bad company. Sometimes pleasure is the absence of pain.
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| Aug 5 @ 9:13 PM |
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mylenation
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Well the prevalent thing to say is No all mean are not liars . I do think that some do skirt the issue and it ends up badly for them . If one lie's and doesn't see the problem with that then that is his/her own issue, because it has a way of creeping back into the picture and then BOOM she/he can't trust you anymore. I refer to Man/woman only because I caught a lady in a lie and not only did it hurt it wasn't cool, but I was totally a gentleman about the situation. My buddy who was with me wasn't, but then again that is another story for another time . I think that when you go down that road of telling lie's its almost like playing a old school video game you got killed on said level and in order to continue you must add more money , now money has no bearing on telling lie's but the principle is the same in order to continue down this slope the new lie must be better or believable than the last one ?? I hope this was helpful to anyone out there who is either going that route or thinking about getting off of that route. Oh and by the way the truth is the best route to go no matter what .
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| Sep 20 @ 10:40 PM |
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cme36
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Well, for Miss “Julie40403” I would love to know why you dared to call the lady in Northern Kentucky a “B*tch.” What did she have to do with HIM lying to YOU? Lady, I don’t know who’d want to marry you anyway. You have a real attitude problem if you have to make some innocent woman the villain in your sad scenario.
Wasn’t she just out there trying to do the very same thing you were trying to do – find a good man for herself? And there are plenty of those out there too, I’ve had a few that were the best ever. How dare you call her a “B*tch.” I haven’t read anything on this site that has made me so angry.
I just HATE women who feel they have to compete with other women, put them down, and make them the enemy. I know I am lucky to have so many wonderful supportive women friends but it is not accident for God’s sake.
It is really very simple. If you want love, just give love. It’s a Universal Law. Haven’t you heard of it. Whatever you give you get back. If you gave love to that man and he wasn’t capable of loving anyone as good as you loved him maybe you won’t get that love back from HIM. So what, if you give love it HAS to come back, maybe from the next man coming around the corner, but it will come back.
You wish him MISERY! Lady, you will get that misery right back. Why couldn’t you have said to yourself, “You know, he really wasn’t able to love me, it isn’t my problem, it’s his problem. I loved him, but maybe that interesting man over there will be able to appreciate me and the depth of my ability to love.”
I think you don’t love yourself enough to realize you could attract just what you want if you could change your cold miserable (there it is again) attitude toward all people. (I am still seething over the “B*tch from Northern Kentucky” remark. Did you ever think he was telling her he loved her every day because she was so LOVEABLE!? She deserves a sincere apology from you.
On the other hand when you read the sweet, truly loving, and gentle responses from kehalacante717 you know why she is finding a loving man in her life. She is supportive in her encouragement. That’s like all the women I know, not a bitter bone in her body. She is the essence of what is wonderful about women in the first place. No wonder men love us so much. We’re magic like she is magic. Look at her picture. That sweet feminine energy is beautiful.
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| Sep 27 @ 6:25 AM |
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Drew4u
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you just keep trying until you find that right one, there's a ton out there, travel you just might find one.
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