| Nov 4, 2006 @ 5:40 PM |
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nlwright
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Why do most of the ladies on here, expect to get Mr. America, when alot of these ladies are only average themselfs. If they were they would already have somebody. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. They are living in a dream world. When it comes to a relationship its not whats on the outside that counts, its what on the inside. Yes I agree their has to be attraction to the person you are dating. Everybody on here should be looking for somebody and not just using it as a chatting room.
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| Nov 4, 2006 @ 7:36 PM |
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sciurusniger
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Everybody on here should be looking for somebody and not just using it as a chatting room. So THAT'S the secret definition of MatchDoctor's logo,
"free community for singles and friends"
And here I thought they really meant just that.
How foolish of me.
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| Nov 4, 2006 @ 9:13 PM |
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SunBabe
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Oh crap. We're supposed to just pick someone and bring them home? 
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| Nov 5, 2006 @ 2:24 AM |
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callmemax
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are your eyes closed, cause you're dreaming of who you'll get, or are they closed, cause you SAW who you were assigned?
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| Nov 5, 2006 @ 8:18 AM |
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ripley1965
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nlwright,,,,not everyone is out expecting to meet Mr/Ms America but i do agree that yeah some are. No matter how much any of us b*tch and moan and groan about it,,its not going to change. But yanno,,,i agree that its not all about looks. Some of us have certain things that we look for that HAVE to be there. Just an example and im only speaking for myself,,,,i am a smoker and i am also hoping to meet someone who smokes as well. I will not date a non-smoker. Been there done that and not traveling that road again. lol There are other things of course that ppl can compromise on, but some you just cant. So before you leap to the conclusion that maybe someone you are interested in doesnt return the sentiment and you assume its becuz of looks,,,,,,it very well just may be that it's something in your (my,theirs) profile that they just dont click with.
Just food for thought,,,,
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| Nov 5, 2006 @ 10:13 PM |
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Sexyscgirl
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  I agree, not all of us are expecting to meet Mr./Ms. America but every person has there preference to what they like and no one should settle. Everyone should strive to find all the qualities they want in that special someone but don't let there pursuit turn ugly and make them cruel to anyone... No looks are not everything but it makes it easier haha.  
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| Nov 6, 2006 @ 1:54 PM |
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funguy007
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Thank you for your replays ladies, lets me know. It's the old finicky Morris the cat syndrome, right? 
Funguy
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| Nov 9, 2006 @ 10:06 AM |
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ladyc4
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I'm new to this site, but as a veteran of the online dating scene( as a middleaged widow in a small town, what am I supposed to do, sit in my house and expect men to fall out of the sky??) I have to counter the lead post with an observation of my own;
The men seem to be looking for either "Millionaire Barbie", or women who are absolutely destitute( must be rescuer syndrome, and of course a woman who has no place to live and no income is pretty easy to control.) there doesn't seem to be much call for average women who can handle their own life, and have no pathological FEAR of being single. I'd love to hear reactions to that observation...
Cindy O
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 7:22 PM |
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Danger
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actually...i think there are more men on here hoping to find the beauty queen they've longed for, for years....
women seem to be looking for more of a 'mature' individual...but then again, you wouldn't find me putting my phone number in my profile either....thats like really tacky or...really desperate! 
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| Nov 23, 2006 @ 11:46 PM |
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justagirl2005
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you know what, i think the problem with these sites all over the u.s. is people really are looking for the beauty queen or the mr. america. very unrealistic to say the least, but anyway,is human nature, if people would just give the person they meet a chance, maybe they would see the good points in them and it would make the not so attractive person be more attractive to them in their eyes. i can speak from experience, i once met a guy who i did not think attractive at all, no bells or whistles going off there, but i stuck around as a friend, and you know ,,,the more time i spent with him the more he grew on me, and he really did start to become attractive to me,,,,,,,,we were together for 4 years. people need to be not so quick to judge and give it a chance. thats why so many are single and still areeeeee!!! 
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 7:38 PM |
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jc_roofer
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im totally on here to find a millionaire Barbie. im hoping shes a nympho that owns a golf course and steakhouse too
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 9:29 PM |
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justagirl2005
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what he really means is he is looking for a high maintenance person who doesnt know the meaning of the word commitment or faithfulness. and has an iq of 10 
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| Nov 27, 2006 @ 4:46 PM |
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jc_roofer
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BINGO!!! that would be great!!! are you applying for the job? lol
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