| Feb 25 @ 8:01 PM |
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teejay3666
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How come there aint any hot single women in michigan!
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| Feb 26 @ 9:10 PM |
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gabrielle
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I have hot flashes, does that count? 
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| Feb 26 @ 10:37 PM |
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RightWingRepublican
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The real question is, there are indeed hot women in Michigan, but why is that the only thing you mention?
Why not "hot and smart" "beautiful and intelligent" etc etc.
HOT doesn't always mean GOOD
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| Feb 28 @ 2:34 PM |
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teejay3666
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Ok,,, your right. My bad. How come there aint any smart, intelligent, attractive, single ladies that live in michigan? I'm sure there is,,,, they just arent on here! Where are ya?
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| Feb 28 @ 9:25 PM |
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RightWingRepublican
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We're out there, but you have to look for us.
Try stepping outside your usual "box" and try someone you usually would not go for. You may find what you're looking for.
Have you tried My Dating Spot?
http://detroitdate.securesites.net/
It's all Michigan people. You may have some luck there, i didn't. But try it out.
Good luck
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| Mar 6 @ 9:06 AM |
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lowlicker5
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yes that counts
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| Mar 9 @ 12:28 AM |
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Luv2LikU
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They all left for other parts of the country because the only good looking guys here are stump dumb.[B]
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| Mar 9 @ 1:48 AM |
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Luv2LikU
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How come there are no men left who know how to speak the English language with some semblance of intelligence or who know how to dress without looking like "thug" clowns with their pants hanging down over their butts with their "panties" hanging out? When a guy is approaching the age of 30, he should be ready to become an adult and leave the 16 year old mentality behind. Unless they are looking for 16 year olds. Trust me, dressing like a child will NOT stop the aging process and the last thing anyone wants to see is a fifty year old man dressed like that! Ewww!
I have a 25 year old daughter who judges a mans mentality by how he speaks and dresses. In her opinion, if a "man" has the look of a clown, he's going to act like a clown.
I work with many guys like this and they are as dumb as bricks. Two of them ( God forbid ) have little baby girls ( one isn't even a year old yet ) and these morons are always talking about how they are " little sluts ". WHAT KIND OF "MAN" SAYS THAT ABOUT THEIR OWN DAUGHTERS? Especially their BABY daughters? I'll tell you what kind, the kind who have NO VALUE as humans. They also say that THEY come first. NOT their kids. This is a low life, gutter trash mentality. Where are the grown up men?
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| Mar 9 @ 2:06 AM |
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TroutFishing
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wow - what a rant. you should be a writer for a comic.
(laughing)
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| Mar 9 @ 9:10 AM |
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RightWingRepublican
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Hi Luv,
I totally understand what you said, that's exactly how i feel. 
It's true!
Those are the same guys that claim they can't find a good woman. I can't imagine why! lol
One other thing. If you ever meet a man who claims their ex girlfriend or ex wife are "crazy" or "cheated on him" RUN LIKE HELL.
They ALL claim these two things when you ask about their ex's.
Next time you meet a man, ask him about his ex. If he says either two things, laugh and run away.
My best friend and i have turned it into a game. We keep score.
We are up to 35 men said the ex cheated
and 24 said they were "crazy"
Crazy usually means the man wasn't doing his job in a relationship or neglected the woman until she began to get angry.
That's what they all say when they screwed up another relationship. It's common and we think it's funny.
try it out.
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| Mar 10 @ 12:03 AM |
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BIGRICK
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please dont think all guys think that way.i for one look at everything inside. i belive thats what makes a person a good person.if all your looking for is hot try a cup of coffee. 
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| Mar 10 @ 1:05 PM |
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RightWingRepublican
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Well that's refreshing to hear Big Rick. 
Like ive said, hot doesn't mean good. I think that's what these young guys get in their heads.
I like to think i'm one of the hot and good ones lol
But, we all have our faults.
How someone looks is not in the equation when i meet someone.
I won't even talk to these guys that think they are the shit. i don't waste my time on them.
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| Mar 10 @ 7:08 PM |
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odysseusMi
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One other thing. If you ever meet a man who claims their ex girlfriend or ex wife are "crazy" or "cheated on him" RUN LIKE HELL.
They ALL claim these two things when you ask about their ex's.
Next time you meet a man, ask him about his ex. If he says either two things, laugh and run away.My best friend and i have turned it into a game. We keep score.
We are up to 35 men said the ex cheated
and 24 said they were "crazy"
Crazy usually means the man wasn't doing his job in a relationship or neglected the woman until she began to get angry.
That's what they all say when they screwed up another relationship. It's common and we think it's funny.
That's an ugly generalization and has no merit. Quite frankly, it's these types of generalizations one will find in articles that populate newsstand rags like Cosmo.
Let's put it this way, turn the tables so to say as an example....
If I said every woman on here that had kids was homely looking, searching for a man to help with the bills and help raise the kids, and expected her man to listen to her blather on and on about how evil their ex was for not doing this or that... deep breath... well then, that would be a pretty broad generalization too. Shucks, I wouldn't be surprised if there was an outburst from the masses of women that use this site.
Of course men can't say that on here because we're in the 10-1 or more majority. Women here have their pick of the litter so to say, so men have to keep their mouths shut in order to have a chance. (Personally, I don't care about my chances here, so I feel a little more at liberty to speak my mind when I'm motivated to do so.) Anyway, if you were to poll some of the men and ask them anonymously how they felt, all too often you might find that men do get the feeling I suggested above when it comes to women with children on dating sites.
Now having used that as an example, would I or any other intelligent man rely on that generalization when it comes to making a choice for someone to date from a website? Maybe, maybe not, depending on experiences, but for the most part I would say an intelligent man is going to take that with a grain of salt. However, for any man to openly suggest that generalization is truth would be wrong.
Just as wrong as you suggesting that all men who have had an ex that is crazy (yes, some women are legitimately nuts) or who had a wife that cheated (yes, some women do screw around) are men to run from.
To be sure, I don't mean this with anything personal directed against you. I am simply making a point that we can't lump all apples in one barrel and claim them to be bad. With all due respect,
OdysseusMI
(Please place the emoticon showing the little yellow smilie guy stepping off his stump right here. Thanks.)
[Edited on 3/10/2009 7:40 PM]
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| Mar 10 @ 9:16 PM |
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RightWingRepublican
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I totally understand what you're saying. I take absolutely no offense to it at all.
That's the generalizations that i'm talking about. It's ALWAYS the cheating ex or the crazy ex story. That's what we always get. We have yet to hear anything else, over 50 men have used the same story and usually within a few minutes we realize they themselves are a little nutty and weird.
When i ask them to give me an example, it's just "she was crazy" etc.
I had an ex call ME the "crazy ex" once not knowing he was talking to a friend of mine who knew the whole story already. It wasn't even a wacky relationship.
I broke up with him because he wouldn't get a job and i even broke up with him very nicely, i tried to be as kind as i could. We never fought, disagreed etc. he was just a loser. He had all sorts of "crazy ex" stories to share with my friend. None were true. LOL.. so when you hear it over and over, you have to wonder what the man did to either make her crazy or was he just mad because she dumped him.
Of course those women you use as an example exist. I've seen it with my friends before. Beware of the actual crazy ones.
I can only speak from experience.
But if you hear the same exact reason over and over and over, you're going to take notice.
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| Mar 10 @ 10:28 PM |
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BIGRICK
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personally i dont think its anyones concern what happened in my 29year marriage.thats not why i am here. so that should have no bearing on it.we are all here for one reason or another but i doubt anyone is here about there past. there here for there future.i think anyone who places blame on another is just here for a game and they are starting by playing the blame game.you will never find whats ahead of you if you spend all that time looking behind you . 
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| Mar 10 @ 10:53 PM |
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RightWingRepublican
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Well that's great in theory. But i am not going to keep repeating mistakes with people because i don't compare past to present.
if you hear the same lie over and over, you need to remember that next time you hear it.
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| Mar 11 @ 6:36 AM |
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odysseusMi
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Thanks for your thoughtful reply RWR. Understand where you are coming from. Just some more food for thought: sometimes those "lies" are not really lies at all.
While I truly believe that our past influences who we are now, I do think that comes with a caveat. Perhaps the better perspective would be to steer clear of those that want to wallow in their past, or to keep dragging it around like some steamer trunk full of gold. (How sad it will be for them when they find out that it's been filled with lead weights all along.)
Maybe that would be the better tact instead of suggesting that everyone is this or that.
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| Mar 11 @ 7:56 AM |
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RightWingRepublican
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Unfortunately it's not always that easy.
Of course i wish it was, but it's just not.
I try my darndest not to repeat history. Even if it means the occasional stereotype.
We have to or our history could repeat.
There are cheaters and crazies out there and i believe that maybe a few of these guys actually have the right to call them that, but for the most part i gathered most do not.
It's amazing how we become the crazy ex even if we do nothing wrong.
My Father used the cheating ex excuse to get my Mom 35 years ago. He admitted years later that it was something him and his friend said in order to get women to feel bad for them. My Mother still gets so mad if this is brought up.
Just like women have ploys, men do also.
Those who need one are in fact crazy. lol
It's a shame this can't be easier. That we all just can't be honest.
I'm honest and i'd like to see some honesty.
Ok, so tell me some of the things women have said to you. Do you have any good stories? I am aware that alot of ladies are lying about their weights online. Have you had any of those?
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| Mar 12 @ 3:03 PM |
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BIGRICK
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i have had that happen. its sad really because they choose to lie as to be honest who wants to start a life based on a lie.first lie tell a lot about a person. although never nothing good.personally i live by a saying i made up a long time ago its better to have lost at love than to live with a phyco the rest of your life. and how better to find this out than by there first mistake. like most people i am not here for the game i am here to find love. how ever there those who are here for the game so just becarefull. 
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| Mar 12 @ 3:39 PM |
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RightWingRepublican
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Well i had a friend who pulled that on a man she met online.
She said she was 160lbs, when she is actually about 250lbs. She called me crying that when they met a the restaurant, he called her a liar and stormed out.
She had been talking to him for months before they met.
I asked her what the hell would make her lie about something like that and she said that after that long, she thought he would like her for her and not care. (this is a typical excuse for doing it)
She went on to call him all sorts of names.
I explained that it was her fault for lying. Even if he didn't care what she looked like, she still lied. You cannot start something good off with a lie.
It's VERY common for women to lie about this.
it's a shame, i happen to think women who are a little bigger are very pretty. I'm sure there are men who feel the same way.
You seem like a man with a good head on his shoulders Rick, you won't have any problem finding a good honest woman.
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