| Jul 3, 2006 @ 5:42 PM |
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mrlaughfs
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most of women i have talked to on this site are rude and possibly have mental problums no wonder the same faces are on here months at a time and if you run the numbers i would say for every 10 i have talked to 1 is somewhat decent i have meet alot better quality women at work and thats pretty sad 
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| Jul 6, 2006 @ 12:38 PM |
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muckie
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Getting a picture might help your odds... When we run across people with no pics it tends to lead us to the conclusion they have something to hide... like a HUGE boil!!! 
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| Jul 18, 2006 @ 1:00 AM |
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winemakerben
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A photo does not help. The Quality of this site is very low, but not gone. All of the internet is that way, and has been for years. Good people are still around, but the sexual preditors have given everyone a bad name. Truth is non-existant, and the vast majority has ulterior motive.
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| Jul 18, 2006 @ 8:06 AM |
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YouNeverKnow69
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There is nothing wrong with this site.......I haven't really come across any rude women or anything like that...........just remember.... if they don't respond then they're probably not interested or if they do respond and say they are not interested, well thats not being rude, just truthful.
Also try posting a photo too....it'll probably increase your responses or worse yet, may decrease them.
Have a wonderful fun filled day.........
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 6:11 PM |
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missyats
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Truth is non-existant? nope, that is sooo wrong. it may seem like it but it is out there waitting for you to find. where, well, i havent found that out yet, but i have hope. Also, the vast majority may have ulterior motive, but those really looking are ulterior motive free. you just have to be careful about who you chat with.  who knows what you may find?
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| Jul 19, 2006 @ 9:17 PM |
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not12bs
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people dont want the truth....they want their perception of the truth to fit their needs.......the truth is ugly....very ugly and we arent conditioned to like ugly
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| Jul 21, 2006 @ 12:37 PM |
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funandflirty654
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Well the thing is when you lie even before you get into a relationship with a person, it just leads to more lies to cover up the original lie. As I see it, if you are truthful from the start, they you can really get to know people from the inside out. I am truthful in my profile and because of that I meet people that I can be friends with. So I think that the truth is there but if you are truthful from the start you shouldn't have to look for it. It will be right there.
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| Jul 21, 2006 @ 7:06 PM |
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mrlaughfs
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Tellin the truth is not something to populer on this site or many other dating sites you just have to be careful who you meet i have meet women on these sites that look nothing like there pics and then get mad when you tell them if they would have posted what they really looked like you would not have wasted your time i have a photo myself but i only show it to women i am interested in
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| Jul 21, 2006 @ 11:39 PM |
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missyats
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well, i agree with funandflirty, tell the truth and you will get it. 
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| Jul 22, 2006 @ 5:28 PM |
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teelynn
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I do have to agree with mrlaughsf, as far as posting correct pictures. I see alot of women posting glamour shots that don't really look the true you. I think if you're going to post a pic like that, then put another one up that shows you how you look in your everyday life. I clean up pretty well, but I think I'm just average in my everyday life. I hope you find who and what your looking for mr. Just don't give up, you usually find someone when you least expect it.
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| Jul 22, 2006 @ 7:39 PM |
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not12bs
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i always get a kick out of those "glamour" shots....they are so phony looking....give me an average everyday woman....with a brain! and i'm happy....of course...you women are taught to be deceptive in the looks department...by our society...from little girls on....i like my chicks naked (without makeup) but most women are afraid to go au naturel....come on girls.....back away from the mirror!
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| Jul 22, 2006 @ 7:55 PM |
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teelynn
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I never wear make up, unless it's for a special occasion.I don't have the time, energy or the willingness to put forth the extra effort so many people expect. Society needs to back away from the "perfect model" image and realize that true beauty comes from within.
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| Jul 22, 2006 @ 8:05 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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i always get a kick out of those "glamour" shots....they are so phony looking....give me an average everyday woman....with a brain! and i'm happy....
 what if she doesn`t have a brain.. 
as for glamour shots...to each their own i suppose..seen plenty of men with them there glamour shots..
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| Jul 22, 2006 @ 10:06 PM |
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not12bs
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no brain? well...guess she is for the pretty boys then...lol....i have no use for her
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| Jul 23, 2006 @ 12:08 AM |
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missyats
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ok, no glamour shots? what happens if that is all we have at the moment? i mean my shot is very real, but can it be classafied as a glamour shot? It was taken in a real park and that was real water and everything. So, what so i do now if it is a glamour shot? remove it and leave it blank? the people that have pic get looked at and the people that dont rarely do. so, what happens if the glamour shot is the only shot that is current and up to date? not post it? i rarely wear make-up, but i like to. being a single mom takes alot of time, so i have not got my pic updated to the me of JUST me. I dont want to post my kids for obvious reasons and that shot is the only one i had, so does that make it not the really me? i dont think so, but others may. i guess that if the shot is all you have, go with it. also, if you are looking for someone with a brain, you really have come to the right place. there a lots to chose from if you do find it. 
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| Jul 23, 2006 @ 12:44 PM |
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teelynn
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Missy, I think your pic is very real. I was talking about those glamour shots where they put all that pancake make up so you can't tell what your face really looks like, and dress you up in clothes you wouldn't normally wear. I don't have anything against them either, I've had them done myself, what an ego boost . I can just see where some men might think they are false advertisement, and men are just as guilty. I had one guy tell me he was 5'7 ( I'm 5'8) no big deal, until we met and he was only 5'4. I think you get what you put into this sight, and I'm wondering if mrlaughs is just as guilty as being rude?
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| Jul 23, 2006 @ 1:16 PM |
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funandflirty654
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Mrlaughfs, tell me how many woman have you met irl that hasn't walked the other way. According to your profile you want a woman that is honest, but you said that it is ok to lie. Well I can see why you have some many forums on here because you don't get too many responses because you are so rude in your forums. I am for men/women given their opinions but you think everyone should have your opinion. Sorry I am my own person and I believe that telling the truth when you are trying to meet someone is the way to go. Your lying just make you like bad in that person's eyes. As for glamour shots, I believe that you should have another pic besides the glamour to show peeps what you really look like in everyday life.
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| Jul 23, 2006 @ 6:41 PM |
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not12bs
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personally...i want someone to see me at my worst....then if they dont run (like most)....cept the one that was in heels...she was easy to catch.......i know they like me for me....am i right?
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| Jul 23, 2006 @ 7:17 PM |
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teelynn
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I agree, looks fade, real quick especially with no personality to help carry someone along
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| Jul 24, 2006 @ 11:02 AM |
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one_dimple
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If something sounds too good to be true....than it probably isn't as good as it sounds. Beware!! I think the majority of people on here are average, normal people, who like me, don't give out a lot of personal 'honest' information to just any ole body. And the option we have on here is to IGNORE those we feel are scamming.
We all probably have met people on here who are too nice until you send them on their way...and all of a sudden..."the nice, laid back fellow or gal", turns ugly. I know I've met a few...and consider myself lucky I didn't give them anymore of my precious time. But, I don't hold any grudges.
It's been mentioned before here..that this site is a FREE community for singles and friends. If there is more friendship going on than romance...then thats okay. I think this is a great site. It's well laid out and easy to move around in. AND, it's free.
Keeping ones expectations in the 'cruise' zone helps starve off disappointments.
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