| Sep 13, 2006 @ 8:06 PM |
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irisheagle
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it's funny, how when people break up even though it's a mutual
understanding, cause you were both hurting each other,
And how one stops saying those 3 little words of
endearment and the other wonders why. i stopped
saying those words awhile back and now she says
That she noticed i don't say them. isn't that part
Of breaking up? 
I'm just curious what you think, is the other one trying to hold
on to what once was?
Maybe, she hasn't accepted that it's over and hope that
there is still a chance?
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 1:57 PM |
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tyrannyforyou
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it takes a while for a person to adapt to the whole change if the relationship lasted for a while.
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 2:13 PM |
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definitelydi
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Three little words of endearment?
"Kiss my ass!" 
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 2:18 PM |
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tyrannyforyou
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no, di. it's "cash or charge"
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 5:34 PM |
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irisheagle
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Three little words of endearment?
"Kiss my ass!"
i guess that would be fitting on the way out the door 
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 6:18 PM |
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Empath
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If I have given my love, I don't stop loving...ever. Even after realizing a relationship is a bad idea; it just shifts to a more platonic feeling.
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 7:13 PM |
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irisheagle
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now that's an interesting thought, empath,
didn't think of it that way. thanks
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| Sep 14, 2006 @ 8:56 PM |
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Empath
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quite welcome, Irish, anytime.....
I just had my ex call me two days ago. He was in tears and feeling 'empty'. When I asked him why, he said his girlfriend had broken up with him the night before. We still love each other, and say so once in awhile. We both know it'll never happen again...we already tried twice. He was good enough of a person to earn my love, why would I stop loving him just because we didn't survive as a couple? As a friend, I will always be there for him, always have been, always will be.....and he is the same with me. Lucky? I suppose, but really, it is just my way.
[Edited on 9/14/2006 9:03 PM]
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| Sep 17, 2006 @ 11:46 PM |
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DoorWatcher
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Empath....am I missing something?
Don't you have a new love?
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 12:51 AM |
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irisheagle
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 Just an FYI Empath,
now you can actaully say that,
You Have Met someone that doesn't need to be
3 sheets to the wind, to get on the dance floor... 
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 3:58 PM |
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Empath
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Door Your question is valid, though I really prefer not to discuss it in a public forum; however since I was so excited about the relationship and publicly expressed that....I have to deal with the consequences. But not to another's embarrassment, I hope you understand. I got cold feet and backed out. I have things going on in my life that I could not live with the decision to leave them behind....for example a mother who weakens daily, even though she is in remission, and we don't get along well together. There are other reasons too, but they will have to remain private. DJ is a wonderful man, one of the best I've met, and I would remain his friend always, if he was willing to. I absolutely hate that I have hurt him. It was a hard decision to make, but I feel it is the right one. We've been just friends for awhile now.
Regarding being able to be friends because of having someone else....yes, when that happens it does help. However, there is ALWAYS a period of adjustment to go through....length of that period all depends on the person/people. There are always boundaries to be re-negotiated because the relationship dynamics have changed. Sometimes you'll find the boundaries being stressed, and you have to remember the ultimate goal of friendship. You have to have respect for one another, and for yourself, or it just isn't possible to remain friends.
[Edited on 9/18/2006 5:11 PM]
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 4:27 PM |
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ravensday
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I hate you??? Go EFF yourself? Leave me alone??? Which 3 little words are you talking about?
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 4:44 PM |
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irisheagle
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I hate you??? Go EFF yourself? Leave me alone??? Which 3 little words are you talking about?
"I LOVE YOU"
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 4:45 PM |
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tyrannyforyou
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watch it. that sort of talk will get you banned from the forums.
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 4:50 PM |
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irisheagle
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^^^^^^^ 
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 5:03 PM |
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Empath
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watch it. that sort of talk will get you banned from the forums.
Which?
"I LOVE YOU" ?????
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 5:13 PM |
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irisheagle
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"I LOVE YOU"
?????
yea those were the ones i was refering to
when i started this thread.
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 5:28 PM |
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Empath
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pssst...Irish....I think we all know that.....
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 5:30 PM |
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tyrannyforyou
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keep saying the "L" word- i warned ya.
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| Sep 18, 2006 @ 5:33 PM |
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irisheagle
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 Must not Be my Day  
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