| Mar 23, 2007 @ 12:48 AM |
should i break up? will the 2nd time be less painful?
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SilverMist344
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me and my bf had been going out for a year. i love him, and he loved me... we had been having problems since the summer. During the summer, he started to distant away from me, and i asked numerous times, he said that everything was okay. and during september, one of his old girl friend told me that i'm hurting him and told me that he told her to tell me. i was like O . O, i cried for 2 days straight! cuz i'm suppose to be his gf and help him with things, and he is suppose to lean on me!
And i talked to him, we worked stuff out. and few month afterwards, he started to be a jerk..... finding fault in everything i do.... so i told him off and broke up with him. during valentimes day, he brought me flowers, sent me flowers, and wrote cheesy poems and did everything to get me back. he told me that he loved me tooo... and i took him back, cuz i still love him.. with all of my heart
once i took him back, i started to have security issues.. and getting jealous over very very stupid things.... and i dont want that! i dk how to stop all the feelings... i'm soo confused beause my brain is telling me to end this, but my heart is telling me to hold on to him. i dk wut to dooo
i should be breaking up with him
its just SOO hardd! > . <
but should i break up with him?
will it hurt as much as before?
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| Mar 24, 2007 @ 3:51 AM |
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blueyes101
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Jealousy will drive you apart one way or another. many people stay in relationships for the wrong reasons, look inside yourself to decide why you are together. I you really want to have a future with this guy, make it work, if you see no future, walk away now, it won't get any easier, I have found it is easier to leave on your terms. BTW, If you decide to walk away, write down your reasons on paper, and look at them every time you feel like calling him, or he contacts you to get back together.( keep those reasons fresh in your mind ) JMO
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| Mar 24, 2007 @ 3:59 AM |
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signme
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Blu--good idea about writing down those reasons. I've never thought about that but it would help you to stand firm on your decision.
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| Mar 24, 2007 @ 4:45 AM |
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| Mar 24, 2007 @ 3:35 PM |
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AngelLight
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Deep down, it sounds like you already know what to do as difficult as it may be.
In the mean time, tend to your broken heart. It will eventually heal.
Take good care of yourself!
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| Mar 24, 2007 @ 10:30 PM |
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dowens
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Silver....I agree with Angel.....it sounds like you already know what your decision should be!
.......as far as it hurting more???......My guess would be that it'll hurt much more, only cuz it sounds like you've never really dealt with it the first, second, or third time. (between him, the old g/f and you....guess thats 3 times)
Be strong and good luck!
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