| Dec 11, 2007 @ 6:27 PM |
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jdctx
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If I ask who has been cheated against I imagine I wil get a lot of answer but if I asked who has cheated before I doubt as many would be so open..
But I am wondering from the cheaters perspective why do they cheat did they feel what they did was wrong what lead them to it.
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| Dec 11, 2007 @ 7:10 PM |
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drs297
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pretty simple... If you are going to put me in charge of the bank expect I will cheat, same goes with most other games
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| Dec 11, 2007 @ 7:21 PM |
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southernangel32
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  took me a minute to get that.  i think maybe Angel is rubbing off on me. as far as cheating, nope, never have. i have been the one cheated on and couldn't put another person through that.
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| Dec 11, 2007 @ 7:32 PM |
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drs297
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say it isn't so. we can only handle one angel.
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| Dec 12, 2007 @ 4:12 AM |
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missbehavyn
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People cheat? cmonnnn now... no way 
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| Dec 13, 2007 @ 12:49 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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| Dec 16, 2007 @ 8:25 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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I see no one is gonna admit to cheating. I will. I've been on both sides of this cheating business. From walking in on a girlfriend blowing some guy on my sofa, to srewing women right in front of my second wife.
Why did I cheat? Because it was offered to me, I never bothered with looking for it. My wife at the time was aggresivly bi-sexual, and was always bringing women home from work, most of whom I screwed, sometimes with wifey joining in, sometimes with her just watching.
The result of all that screwing around? It took away any kind of specialness for sex between us, screwing her was no different than screwing anyone else, there was no bond between us, it was just, if it it feels good, do it. She became just a friend instead of a wife, and when I think back on it, that's probably all she ever should have been, was just a friend.
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| Dec 16, 2007 @ 12:15 PM |
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pamdemonium
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as far as cheating, nope, never have. i have been the one cheated on and couldn't put another person through that.
Ditto... 
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| Dec 16, 2007 @ 1:47 PM |
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Empath
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I'm a cheater. I did, once, and it ruined a marriage..a marriage that was already on it's last legs, and never should have been in the first place.
Why? Because I wanted to feel loved. Was it right? No. Did it make me feel loved? Hell no, I hated myself for it, and because of not being able to live with myself for doing it, I've made sure it never happened again.
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| Dec 16, 2007 @ 2:47 PM |
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jamminjerry
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there is no honor in cheating. therefore, a cheater has no honor. should one cheat a cheater, does that not give back that which was taken? such a game we play, but is that not why we are called players! selah
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| Dec 16, 2007 @ 5:53 PM |
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painter007
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I have told my sons if they ever cheat......they dont have to worry about what their gf would do to them,.......They would have me to deal with. Cheating is one of the cruelest things people can do to each other...It sticks down deep in you forever........
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| Dec 16, 2007 @ 6:13 PM |
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jamminjerry
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she is beautiful, is she not. selah
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| Dec 20, 2007 @ 9:15 AM |
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bevrice
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Painter is right. It is never right to cheat. I was never cheated on, and never cheated, but that doesn't mean I don't understand how that would hurt a person. What ever happened to people putting themselves in the other person's place? If it is over, get out, don't hang around and hurt the person you are with.
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| Dec 20, 2007 @ 10:14 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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Hurting the person youre with is secondary effect.
The real damage is you are cheating yourself. You have broken a promise to be faithful. Doesnt matter to whom. You made this vow, committment. It breaks a moral, and ever personal moral you break yourself, brings down your self worth.
Ill teach my sons why its important not to cheat yourself first. And to know the value of nobility and diligence. That alone should be enough for them to understand and never cheat.
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| Dec 20, 2007 @ 10:17 AM |
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bevrice
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Good for you. We do have the freedom to hurt ourselves, however not good for us that might be, but not the right to hurt others.
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 9:48 AM |
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definitelydi
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The real damage is you are cheating yourself. You have broken a promise to be faithful
This is a very good point. When you cheat, you're undoing all of the goodness in your relationship. Your conscious is no longer clear...which has to be the only upside of being the cheated on.
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| Dec 22, 2007 @ 2:13 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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thanks DI. yet nopt only in the relationship with that other person, but yourself, and your god.
Those are two amjor swingers you dont wanna wreck the relationship with. Dont get me wrong. It hurts to be cheated on. No one wins when someone cheats.
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| Dec 24, 2007 @ 8:14 PM |
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chatty
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I know first hand the pain that cheating can inflict and I know one thing I will never in a million years ever cheat or leave my spouse for another. Why bother getting married if you can just get mad say your spouse is a bad spouse and cheat with anyone you want? I could never cheat. Who wants to start another relationship built on the pain of others?
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| Dec 25, 2007 @ 7:18 AM |
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| Dec 27, 2007 @ 12:03 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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and ity was. cheat free lol
ok so santa cheated me, I was a reallllly good boy this year. lol
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