| Apr 22 @ 8:10 PM |
After the breakup is it a bad idea to come back to MD?
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z_bach
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About a year ago I met someone from MD. We hit it off, got engaged...and things ended badly.
I used to really enjoy this site and would like to come back, but I'm not sure this is such a good idea.
Now's your chance to vote me off the island.
PS I'm new to forum land, so I'm not sure how many rules I might have broken here.
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| Apr 22 @ 8:44 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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After the breakup is it a bad idea to come back to MD? Do ya like to gamble?
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| Apr 22 @ 9:34 PM |
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signme
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I met someone here also. We dated for about 9 months or so. The break up was also bad but I have a lot of friends and support here. That's why I'm still here.
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| Apr 22 @ 9:36 PM |
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Goodness_Gracie
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Your adults and life does move on......if you have made friends why not stay on MD? The choice is yours.....
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| Apr 22 @ 9:56 PM |
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SunBabe
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You know, Z~, "Manure Occureth"...and it's happened to many who have chosen to return or remain.
There will be occasional bumps and possible strains -- especially at first -- but considering each of you, I'll bet you can both find comfortable ground.
Yep, some have staked out 'territories' within the site -- and others simply acknowledge that they aren't together any more and even accept each other as friends: even the most sincere hopes and dreams don't always come together for a myriad of different reasons. It sure doesn't mean one or the other has to be labelled the "bad guy" all the time. It just means things weren't meant to be.
On the other hand, I had one experience that made me feel very uncomfortable -- I felt my long-term "playground" had been invaded; my "privacy", even though public, was being exposed. I felt "stalked", which may have very well been true (mistrust does that, yanno).
Hey, no harm in trying...we've always enjoyed your Z-isms and wit. 
(The biggest thing is to maintain respect for the other person -- something I'm guessing you two can handle  Afterall, there was a lot you always appreciated about each other -- as well as each others friends -- even before "taking the plunge".  )
Best of luck -- to you both. You're both neat-o people who deserve friendship and happiness, something that this site is known to promote.
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| Apr 22 @ 10:00 PM |
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robodad
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Now's your chance to vote me off the island. Give me $20 and I'll vote for you. 
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| Apr 22 @ 10:06 PM |
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signme
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LOL Robo--I love it! 
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| Apr 22 @ 11:05 PM |
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redtigr
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I'm so sorry it didn't work out.
Z - Before the match, you were an individual. During the match you were still an individual. You're an individual now, too.
Relationships are the business of those who are in them. When it doesn't work out you dust yourself off and carry on. Details of the bad things are best kept private - even when asked, it's best to show discretion.
You've done nothing I know of to alienate anyone here. So is it a bad idea to come back?
I say: only if your experience here was unpleasant.
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| Apr 22 @ 11:29 PM |
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PullMyFinger
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Z...you're a good guy, come back or...
1. I'll write a scathing blog about you and make you look like a total dumbass
2. I'll write a caustic blog about you and make you look like a booger-eater.
3. I'll write a vitriolic blog about you, make use of a thesaurus and use every means possible to make you appear like our favorite dipshit on here.
Now, do we really want that to happen?
I didn't think so....
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| Apr 22 @ 11:38 PM |
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z_bach
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PMF, you mean you are going to reveal the true me to the world? Sure would save me the trouble of working on my profile.
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| Apr 22 @ 11:39 PM |
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Skydognc
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and when PMF gits done, Ill shoot your ass iffin ya leave!
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| Apr 22 @ 11:45 PM |
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PullMyFinger
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Well.....no.....2 blogs from you will be enough for people to realize you're really a flannel wearing dork....I'd just make you look like a skeezing windowlicker who happens to wear flannel.
For keerist sakes, quitcher whining and just come back.....wuss.
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| Apr 22 @ 11:53 PM |
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redtigr
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What is the point of my sincerity in the midst of all this sarcasm?
Yeah, like they ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ said:
Get yer ass (ha ha) back here. The blahg pages need your scorn..
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| Apr 23 @ 12:00 AM |
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PullMyFinger
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Patrice is the only person on MD that can make me feel like I should go to my room without dinner, no TV or even phone calls to Sci....
but you're still a wuss.....
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| Apr 23 @ 12:33 AM |
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z_bach
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It's good to be home.
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| Apr 23 @ 3:03 AM |
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mystery2u888
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I think you are fine...come on back here..........  I remember you.......just take little steps ......in ......... 
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| Apr 23 @ 10:45 AM |
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redtigr
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Patrice is the only person on MD that can make me feel like I should go to my room without dinner, no TV or even phone calls to Sci....
EEEeeeeewwww... I've become my mother!!
You'd just climb through the window and run wild through the forum forest, so no point in "grounding" a wild man...
It's never a bad idea to come back to MD...
(but it's a very bad thing to leave  )
Hee - haw !!
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| Apr 23 @ 2:57 PM |
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Makya
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I used to really enjoy this site and would like to come back, but I'm not sure this is such a good idea.
If this had happened with someone from your city or better yet your block, would you move? Doubtful.
As ^^^^They said and as Nike says "Just do it" 
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| Apr 23 @ 6:27 PM |
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BandTMom
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Please stay, Z.
We miss you when you aren't here.
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| Apr 23 @ 6:34 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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Mums wants ya to stay, so ya really dont have a choice, Ya staying or Ill hunt ya down drag ya back and brick up the door way. If it gets to hairy brother Z, just point me in the direction, I got super shavers and a lumpy stick.
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