| Oct 23, 2008 @ 9:21 PM |
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theshygirl
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So my ex fiancee has called me twice this week...after weeks of not hearing much out of him...Tuesday he called to ask me how court with my ex husband went and to ask if he had gotten the date right for my grandma's birthday and to ask if he could still call her to wish her a happy 97th...and then this morning...out of the blue he called to tell me that he was missing me and still loves me. What ...if anything should I pull from this and why after two months of walking around angry at me...would he suddenly pick up a phone to call me and tell me these things after he basically told me that we needed to get out of each others lives?
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 12:44 AM |
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Ruthless666
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Who knows why he'd call. I'd take a stab in the dark and say he's screwing with your head.
You seem to be moving on....don't take any steps backward. I'm sure you know you deserve better.
Here's a clue......you can predict future behaviour from past behaviour.
Be strong! 
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 12:46 AM |
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theshygirl
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thank you...i am getting much stronger and moving forward....its just hard when something like that happens ...sort of sends you spiraling back about ten paces. Thanks for the advice and believing in me
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 12:55 AM |
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Ruthless666
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You're more than welcome sweetie.
But remember, he can only play mind games if you let him.
Of course it's hard when you still have feelings for him, but hey....there are plenty of fish in the sea. If you're into fish 
Yep, you're gonna be ok. 
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 8:56 PM |
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fromscratch
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Get caller ID and dont waste another moment on him......get your shy azz outta the house and live... 
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 9:08 PM |
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Carol386
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Don't look back - if he did it once, he'll do it again and again - I know its hard (been there, done that - got the broken heart to prove it). Belive in yourself - you are a strong woman 
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| Oct 27, 2008 @ 1:25 AM |
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theshygirl
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lol scratch ...ok....thank you..but that's what gets me in trouble in the first place.
Carol thank you for your post...and I'm sorry you've had the unpleasantness that is a broken heart...your also a strong woman and thanks for the words of encouragement.
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| Oct 27, 2008 @ 5:16 PM |
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custis
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(Imitating Stevie Wonder) "I just called, to say,,,,,I'm hornyyy!"
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| Oct 27, 2008 @ 7:37 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Yeah, for real....The dude is probably just wanting to hit it a few times so he can bust a nut or two. Probably had a fight with whoever he's tapping regularly and figures you can be his side piece
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| Oct 29, 2008 @ 1:01 AM |
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meanjolene
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Make it impossible for him to call you.
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| Oct 29, 2008 @ 6:48 PM |
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poniepower
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Yeah, for real....The dude is probably just wanting to hit it a few times so he can bust a nut or two. Probably had a fight with whoever he's tapping regularly and figures you can be his side piece
Sounds like something my last ex b/f did to me...and I believe it to be true!
To the OP, Stay strong honey...I've been hurt by men like this also in the past. I know it hurts, and part of you wants him back, especially if he's pulling the "i still love you" card. My x bf of almost 4 yrs STILL to this day tries it with me, comes yelling through my window @ 4-5 in the morning....YOU Need to stay strong...listen to all this wonderful advice you've gotten from these other people hon I wish you the best!!
Jini
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| Oct 31, 2008 @ 12:18 AM |
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theshygirl
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To those of you who said he just wants a piece of ass......he's 2100 miles away...so sorry but your definately wrong on that part. To the rest of you thank you for your advice..but i'm not sure this is what it's really about....see he and I broke up because we had to basically...I couldnt afford to live there with my kids anymore because my ex husband was not paying his child support and my ex fiancee got laid off from work and because of the economic stuff going on it was very hard for either of us to find decent work. So I made the choice to come back to NM....he dindt want me to go but we had no choices left. Then when I got here he was having a hard time and wanted to date so that maybe he could find some comfort..that part I did feel he was wrong about but I let him go because I love him and wanted him to be happy..then we didnt talk for quite some time and then he called me back after like a month.....out of the blue...now he's been calling every day...I don't know if our situation is different than those you are familiar with or not...but i'm pretty sure it doesnt boil down to a piece of ass.
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| Nov 2, 2008 @ 6:35 AM |
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dreamlover4U
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Only you can decide for yourself what he means to you. If you are still in love with him and he you, maybe you should tell him how you feel and what it means to you and hope for the best. People will make mistakes in life, but it is for us to figure how to get past mistakes and make life better. Never let money get in the way of love. Money can come and go, but true love is not something you find too often. If I could find a man that would love me unconditionally, I would live in a tent if I had to, just to be with him.
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| Nov 2, 2008 @ 9:40 AM |
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Angel178
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Just a question.....
Why didn't he move with you? 
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| Nov 2, 2008 @ 1:37 PM |
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Donnerbee
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I know how that feels to have to leave the one you love because of a job or money really sucks. Its alot harder than someone dumping you. But you really need to let each other know how you feel and believe that if it is ment to be you will find your way back. If your one of the lucky ones you both will find each other again, and it will be efen better than the 1st time you were together. Never give up on love it will be worth it.
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| Nov 3, 2008 @ 1:26 AM |
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theshygirl
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Angel, He didnt' move with me because he has kids in Mass and I would never ask him to leave them. Donner, Yes I hope he and I are some of the lucky ones. We both know we still love each other dearly.
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| Nov 25, 2008 @ 5:05 PM |
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SusieM
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glad to know you have moved on!
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| Nov 26, 2008 @ 4:53 PM |
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thor22
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well, I think he is just horny and wants some...he's trying to play ya, just walk away, hey...
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 1:09 AM |
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theshygirl
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I dont think that anyone understands it is not horniness...as a matter of fact we dont talk about sex at all and even if we did we are 2100 miles apart. lol. nice thought guys but no it's not just that.
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 2:23 AM |
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thor22
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well, he is far away from home, (that means you), its the holidays, (that means you), be patient and see if his tune changes after new yrs....
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