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Aug 3 @ 10:30 PM A 'good' ? breakup     NYFemme Posts: 35 So this is my first thread, so be nice the novice please lol My question involves everyone boys and girls ok i know we are all here to meet people and obviously we all want to meet the person that fulfills our criteria. Whether that means a specific type of realtionship or a certain level of friendship, we all have an idea of what this person or persons will fit into in order to well let's say qualify.. So with that said, my question is..how do you respond to nice folks who write you but you are not interested in, regardless of the reason whether it's a physical issue or an intellectual one..I'm not talking about abrasive people but really nice people but you just don't see even a friendship as an option.. I'm a painfully honest person and would never mislead someone, but I wouldn't want to hurt the person's feelings so what do you all do what do you say to that person and how? Please share..thank you   Aug 4 @ 12:27 PM A 'good' ? breakup     BluEyedQT Posts: 498 If we talk about the initial email, it depends on what they write. I'll say, "thanks for the note, but I don't think we're a match and wish them well". If they compliment me, I always thank them for the compliments. You do take a risk though when responding to the one's who can't handle the rejection. You can be sweet and thoughtful in your response, and they will write you back calling you names and otherwise insulting you. Don't take it personally. Just be grateful that your "spidey sense" told you early on that this was not the person for you. I have also gotten many responses from gentlemen who appreciate me even responding to them and wishing me well too. Ya takes ya chances.   Aug 4 @ 12:41 PM A 'good' ? breakup     Loreli Posts: 25,413 There are auto responses to use if you can't think of anything to say   Aug 4 @ 2:17 PM A 'good' ? breakup     chubs Posts: 2,592 oh wow, do you really mean a person can get their internet feelings hurt? I'd better quit now before that ever happens to a tender-hearted & trusting guy like me   Aug 5 @ 4:28 AM A 'good' ? breakup     NYFemme Posts: 35 Just be grateful that your "spidey sense" told you early on that this was not the person for you. you are sooo right!! and of course I have done that many times and yes somehow so many more men feel they must insult you for the rejection, whereas one would think they'd thank you for not leading them on or wasting their time..and yours :). I dont really get the insult bit ..oh well we do all take our chances. Thx QT   Aug 5 @ 4:30 AM A 'good' ? breakup     NYFemme Posts: 35 haha Chubs too cute! i dont hink you will be running too soon, ive seen your posts lol u r a tough cookie to crumble :) and yes some of these boys take the rejection waaaayyy too seriously..omg

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