| Feb 2, 2006 @ 9:03 AM |
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scarletsara
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I have been dumped for the first time in my life, no explaination, just
a total blow off. I don't know how I will ever trust men again.
This is for him 
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| Feb 2, 2006 @ 2:18 PM |
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2Biatchy4U
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w0w
you are 45 and never been dumped till now?
lucky you 
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| Feb 2, 2006 @ 2:26 PM |
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waiting41
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Scarlet, I am soooo sorry this happened to you.
I have alot to say here. I have to pick up my kiddies.
Hang in there.  It does get better. This too shall pass.
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| Feb 2, 2006 @ 2:47 PM |
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notsoplain
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I am sorry for you too Scarlet. It is one of the more difficult things we have to deal with. You may feel hurt now, but you will survive and things do get better. Hang in there girl.
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| Feb 3, 2006 @ 6:47 PM |
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7eternity
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You gotta be kidding... 
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| Feb 3, 2006 @ 7:02 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
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Wasn't EXACTLY *getting dumped* but the end of the relationship was more his idea than mine. Did not make me hate men but I did take some time to *get over it*.
....and @ 53 it was the first time that ending it wasn't completely MY idea....but hey...Always wanting to learn new things.
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| Feb 3, 2006 @ 7:11 PM |
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msdodie835
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scarlet...you will survive, give it time. i know questions are running thru your head..probably blaming yourself...he just wasn't in to you. a really good guy with lot's of love in his heart will find you or you him, hang in there girl it is not the end of the world even if it does feel like it.
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| Feb 4, 2006 @ 1:58 PM |
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MICHIGANGIRL11
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I was dumped back in October, instead of just coming out and saying it was over he led me to believe if I gave him a couple of weeks to get "his life in order" everything would be fine. During that two weeks I found out he bought a house and moved his girlfriend in w/him. I don't hate him, I feel sorry for him.
I'm not sure I am able to trust a man again. I also feel like such a fool for believing everything he said, why couldn't I see the real "Ric"?
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| Feb 4, 2006 @ 2:33 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Dont feel bad MG, I just had one TRY to bluff me but I caught him in mid air  Boy did he go BOOOMP when he fell
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| Feb 4, 2006 @ 3:45 PM |
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7eternity
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I'm not sure I am able to trust a man again.
MG,
Just because you couldn't trust your ex doesn't mean that you can't trust other men. Everybdoy is different.. Leave the hurt your ex left you behind, give it up and move on.. Be someone new. Better yet, be someone better. 
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| Feb 4, 2006 @ 4:17 PM |
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exiled131
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wow, hope my streak of not getting dumped lasts until i am 45. by then i will be dating 18-24 year olds. nothing like trading in a 40 year old for two 20's. 
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| Feb 5, 2006 @ 10:27 PM |
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the_real_me_ok
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sheeeeeeesh exiled......lmao 
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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 11:31 PM |
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BadgerMe
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Everyone should have a good dump now and then.
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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 11:36 PM |
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irish20835
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never hate ...but yes made me wary and less trusting for a while
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| Feb 10, 2006 @ 1:55 AM |
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crackerchickie
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How about dumping someone and having that make you mistrust of the opposite sex? Or have I done things all wrong again? 
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| Feb 10, 2006 @ 2:44 AM |
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father_heart
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I will ever trust men
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Im sorry i thought you chosed that slime ball. I was unware that we men did. I must ahve missed the vote. Sorry, Well i tell you i wouldnt have voted him on ya. I know who that feels. Just happen to me. HEY WAIT AMINUTE, then it must be yourfualts!!! now i dont know how Im ever gona trust a women again. right said fred? said fred said right.
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| Feb 10, 2006 @ 2:50 AM |
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father_heart
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then again, i hate to say this. If my girlfriend told me that she was never dumped before... you know what Ild have to do. I think many men woud. Sounding about it now, just thinking about seems well, im repulsing. not in like a eww gona sick way the push that plate of freaky away
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| Feb 23, 2006 @ 11:21 AM |
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Kaz683
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How! How old is this woman? Losing trust in men because of getting dumped once?
I got dumped about 18 months ago.
I was quite relieved because it saved me the trouble.
I had pretty much concluded I didn't want to be with the lady, but was still hoping we might work something out.
She pulled the trigger on the relationship first without any notice.
It came as a bit of a shock and surprise since women usually like to talk these things over first, but I'm quite content with how it all worked out.
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| Feb 23, 2006 @ 8:10 PM |
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UnconventionalCreativity
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I don't hate the opposite sex. However, I had a boyfriend over a year ago who was my first "serious" boyfriend. He hurt me more than I could comprehend at the time since I was such a young-en and never truly experienced heartache until that day, but it hasn't put me off the opposite sex. I am more guarded now, yes, but you will eventually get over it. It depends on the person too; some people are extremely emotional and take it to heart for years to come, but there are those that pull through and eventually start dating again. You just have to give yourself time to heal.
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| Apr 23, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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RustyRae48f
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yes   but it never lasts too long  just a hopeless romantic..Still Hoping 
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