| Nov 10, 2005 @ 7:21 AM |
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AladinSane297
Posts: 102
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I'm not sure which way is the worst... I've been dumped quite a few times and they all hurt.... hell... I'm not even sure if I was dumped this last time... here's how it went :
on Saturday she loves me, wants to marry me and spend the rest of her life with me.... on monday she loves me and wants to marry me but she needs some space so I should move out for a while... on Thursday she loves me but she's "in love" with someone else (an old boyfriend that she hasn't heard from and has no idea how to find) and she's giving me the rings back.... but we're still in a relationship.
talk about an emotional roller coaster ride.... it's been one hell of a week
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 10:06 AM |
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Wibber
Posts: 162
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Get rid of her. She sounds like trouble.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 5:46 PM |
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exiled131
Posts: 1,808
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she is either bipolar, confused, or just plain old full of (expletive deleted but rhymes with knit)
If she is: bipolar- run, run fast and never look back
confused- talk it out with her. she may not be ready for this level of commitment
you know what to do if it is third one.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 9:02 PM |
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AladinSane297
Posts: 102
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getting rid of her isn't as easy as it sounds.... I'm still living here and we're still sleeping together.... I've put an offer in on a house but everything takes time... and I can feel us drifting further and further apart.... don't you hate that feeling when a relationship is dying and you don't know how to fix it?
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 9:06 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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Don't even try and fix it. To be honest, she sounds like a player and a user and you are well out of it!
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| Nov 11, 2005 @ 7:24 PM |
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newleaseonlife1963
Posts: 19
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Amen, China!
If you are trying to buy a house, do not include her in any way. She is playing you until the ex-boyfriend decides what he wants from her.
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| Nov 12, 2005 @ 8:22 AM |
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lecriveuse
Posts: 1,865
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u cant do it alone, aladin. she must move towards u, 2. i'm with wibber -- back away quickly. it's good u found out now than later on. it may seem it isn't, but it is. imagine being legally tied up with her. eek!
no one likes to be dumped/rejected, but the other alternative isn't much better. staying around someone who expressly doesn't want to be with u? personally, i don't want to stay anywhere i'm not comfortable or wanted. u should wait for someone who truly appreciate u and isn't changing her mind daily. 
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| Nov 12, 2005 @ 8:45 AM |
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AladinSane297
Posts: 102
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I know you're right.... and in a way I know I'll feel better sometime.... knowing this doesn't help the heartache much though...
once I move out and can get through the first few weeks of being alone maybe my thoughts will change.... but trusting someone with my heart again is going to take a long time
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| Nov 12, 2005 @ 10:04 PM |
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Vena1113
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Life is certainly too short to spend your time feeling hurt because the person you love doesn't love you back. It's not fair to do that to yourself. Just be kind to yourself and know that there is someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are. When that day comes you will look back and thank God this girl hurt you. I promise!
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 12:49 PM |
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catman602
Posts: 735
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My ex-girlfreind dumped me in a bad way . I am TOO trusting . she wanted to go to this one bar alot . Well ... she did not drive . I saw that she was getting alot warmer toward him then me . I asked her " is there anything between you and him " she said no . 2 weeks later . on way home from work she told me . " i will not be seeing you tonihgt " well .. that hurt . I asked why and she said " I am going with bill .  . 10 years later and I still ask " can we be girlfreind and boyfreind ? " well .. som things I don't like anymore about her . A.) she smokes . B.) she calls after 10pm . C.) works more then before . Seven times I asked her and 7 times she has said no .
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 9:34 PM |
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buni
Posts: 978
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Aladin....What more do you need to hear to know she is playing with you and most likely using you? She straight up told you that she is in love with another man, why oh why don't you kick her out...uhhh the house is yours isn't it?
At least make her leave or you leave?(depending on who's house it is)
Just my Opinion, but she is probably seeing him already and just told you that she hasn't seen him.What other explanation is there?I mean, you were engaged and going to get married and then poof all of a sudden she changed her mind and told she she loves another.....sighhh
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 7:19 AM |
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AladinSane297
Posts: 102
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I know Buni... and I already put an offer in on a house... it's all paperwork now.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 9:27 AM |
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carriageman
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getting dumped is no fun . being used is no fun . been there done that. mine was after a 7 years relationsip. (at least we didn't live together) and she dumped me and moved on ... was laways she loved me but didn't wantto get married ...then she dumped me moved to az and 2 months later was married.. two years later was divorced andshe wanted to come back and try again ... I said you had your chance and blew it .. go enjoy your new life and i will mine .....and have ...i guess best revenge is no revenge . just getting on with your life and leaveingthem to thiers . they say there are 3 stages to being dumped ... first is hurt then anger then acceptence .. but I suscribe the a 4th stage and that is indifference . .
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| Nov 16, 2005 @ 9:55 PM |
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strawberrylombardy
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I don't know if I am posting right.
anyway, nothing changes if nothing changes. better to be hurt now that much more later.
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