| Mar 5, 2006 @ 1:17 AM |
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Wulfchyld
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What is you limit. what makes you kick them to the curb? And what is your method of removal?
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:29 AM |
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jazzy73703
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It depends on the situation and the guy as to how and why. I've broke up over incompatibility of sex before or infidelity (big issues), or something as simple as we just weren't compatible as people. One husband was a big Momma's boy and his family was mentally abusive to me (we were living with them at the time). I left him and later told him it was over on the phone (he was such a big baby). I've thrown them out literally, broke up through email, over the phone. Different strokes for different folks. Isn't that what they say
Jazzy
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 10:57 AM |
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painter007
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lol seems I get kicked to the curb the first mistake I make,,,,people seem to want perfection, and why not? Just turn your puter on, scan the smorgesborg and wham....a new mate. Everything is so perfect in this make believe world.....
The only thing I will kick him to the curb for....cheating and hitting. All else is workable with patience and forgiveness
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| Mar 5, 2006 @ 7:32 PM |
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Loreli
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The only thing I will kick him to the curb for....cheating and hitting. All else is workable with patience and forgiveness
I agree.
Lying (where they were, who they were with, how they spend joint finances) is not good either, but might have a chance to be fixed if it happens after the relationship starts.
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| Mar 6, 2006 @ 6:18 AM |
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LSU79
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It's usually not "kicking to the curb" Whenever you're dating someone, sooner or later it gets to the point of the relationship getting to a more serious plane. Then, if you've realized they're not "the one" then it's time to end the relationship. That doesn't mean anything is wrong with them or they've done anything wrong.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 7:10 AM |
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Wulfchyld
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Paint, i'm with ya on the lying. However can I smack that hiney even a little? (toss in a little hair pull and a smok after) 
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 8:47 AM |
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father_heart
Posts: 1,110
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she dont smoke
hugger painti
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 9:07 AM |
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Hiwayman54
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Generally I never let things get that far. In the 1st place I never date anyone until I've been around them long enough to see if their worth my time and effort. And I'll only put into any friendship equally what is returned to me.( including financially).Pampering and spoiling women is not my style.I've always figured they put their pants on the same way as me.....one leg at a time.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 9:42 AM |
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Jankia
Posts: 11,892
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Being unfaithfull is the road trip.
Everyone is a liar about something but if you lie about your commitment of love,the lie came after the cheating.
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| Mar 7, 2006 @ 11:58 AM |
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mangolover60
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Kicking to the curb?? They may wander back up to the house. I blindfold them, and drive them to a dumpster in another town. 
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| Mar 8, 2006 @ 11:52 PM |
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WickedWench
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Dishonesty in any form, be it cheating, manipulating or lying.
Drugs
Alcohol in vast quantities.
Abuse ( of any kind to myself or my kidlet)
Stealing
Not going to work for no valid reason
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| Mar 9, 2006 @ 9:49 PM |
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Wulfchyld
Posts: 459
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Jankia, what are you a liar about?
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| Mar 9, 2006 @ 10:08 PM |
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Jankia
Posts: 11,892
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Awww Cmon Wulfchyld,you canot tell me you or anyone you have ever known has never lied about anything.Thats a sin we all can confess to.
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| Mar 9, 2006 @ 11:53 PM |
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Wulfchyld
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I grew out of it a long long time ago. With my folks truth or lie you were dead meat. It is so much easier to be truthful and offend a few than to lie and offend many.
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| Mar 10, 2006 @ 1:35 AM |
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sissycat411
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Cant handle continuing a relationship with:
1. Abuse of any type...mental, emotional, physical
2. Lying....I believe people can handle the truth...as long as they can always depend on it....If you get the truth...you can either work on it...or part ways...
3. Abusive drinking....substance dependency of any type...unless your partner is willing, for him/her self to get help.
4.Abuse to children of any type...now that does not mean proper discipline...a good spanking never hurt anyone...if done with care and love.
5. Stealing.....big character flaw....
6. Cheating......not a second chance....its over
7..Not working...unless there is a legitimate reason
8. Cruelty to others or animals......big character defect again
9. Uncontrolled temper....immaturity....
10. Laziness......
11...overly emotionally dependent
12..disrespectful
Hell........I think I'm going to be single the rest of my life...
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Just saying it like it is......it's over........and shut the door....
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| Mar 12, 2006 @ 11:12 PM |
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Dreams_child
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Sissycat... I think I'm going to be single for a long time too because I agree with you completely.
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| Mar 12, 2006 @ 11:25 PM |
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luvshorses644
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I agree with Sissy on the not working, think that is up there with me: last relationship lived with me for 13 months and never worked a day, never contributed towards the bills, moved his son in, put a lock on one room and I had no key.
I tossed him out .. took 6 months and a lot of paperwork.
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| Mar 13, 2006 @ 12:27 AM |
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sissycat411
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luvn....sorry to hear that hon....but its true nowdays....you let them in the door.....they have rights....and it takes papers to move them out.....when you figure they are leaching on you....
It's just not so easy to say...... hit the road jack/jackiel
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| Mar 24, 2006 @ 8:51 AM |
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tezra
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Dishonesty or disrepect of any kind towards me or mine. That includes stealing, lying, cheating, or any kind of abuse.
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| Apr 5, 2006 @ 3:14 AM |
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princessfroggy
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good point
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