| May 13, 2006 @ 6:14 AM |
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Specilady
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Well then why would you make it a requirement on your profile Sweetheart lol?
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| Jun 19, 2006 @ 10:58 AM |
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SensualGemini
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The reversal of "just being friends" blow off....
...Having heard we can just be friends a time or two, I thought if it worked for women... well, why not?
...Having dated this reasonably classy lady that never, ever cussed, nothing ever out of place, etc., there was simply no connection on my part. I told her so and mentioned that "we could be friends," but the relationship was not working for me.
...Her response was .... "If you want to be friends with something, go buy yourself a f***ing dog!" ... well, I already had a dog.
...Conclusion is that there is no easy way to break up. Rejection always bites a little, or a lot; depending on the emotional connection at the time. At least I did not use a post-it note... :)
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| Jun 19, 2006 @ 9:35 PM |
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apmnally
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i was stting at a bar with my ex having a beer when he say's right out of the blue (we were togeather for a year)'' i met this great girl on the net and she is gonna come and live with me she is really cute oh and thinner then you but we can still have sex until she arrives'' i felt like throwing the beer bottle at him but instead i took the high road told him i hope they have fun and left the best revenge for me was when the girl turned up and the picture he had seen was taken way to long ago she was no longer thin or cute.
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| Jun 20, 2006 @ 3:27 AM |
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CharlesV
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1. "We can be friends right? I'm friends with all my ex's."
2. "Day after my birthday, I felt all new, everything different."
3. "I was reading something, it said we met on the wrong day. Now I just feel all off kilter."
4. " I cant focus on my spirituality with you around." (same as top of this thread)
5. " My ex found a great way to make up. Gee, I thought we were finished."
6. "My ex needs me."
7. "My ex needs me."
8. "My ex needs me."
9. Fiance: "I suddenly made a turn in my life, now i am so confused. I really need time, take a break. Please understand, I cant help it. Something came over me, I just need time to sort it out." Three weeks later she was engaged to someone and I'm too embarassed to explain how she told me.
10. Fiance, after almost 14 years together as bf/gf, exclusively, wildly in love, and within 2 months of our wedding: Disappeared and I never heard a single word again ever. I still dont know what happened or to her. That was 1992. Girls, please dont do stuff like that. It really nearly killed me. Up to then, I had spent nearly half my life with this woman and we had 150% trust between us-- i thought all women were like that.
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| Jun 22, 2006 @ 9:52 PM |
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gr8guy2know
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Charles, I can sure relate to the fiance thing. After my fiance listing an apparent list of great virtues that I possessed, ie. the best boyfriend, best lover, best companion, most compassionate, most supportive........and the list goes on........
She cut me with........."but I just don't think we're compatable enough to get married". Like what the hell does that mean. What does she want? Someone to kick her and spit on her everynite?
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| Jun 25, 2006 @ 1:37 PM |
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just_a_girl399
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One that I've been told recently is "I'm too picky".
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| Jun 26, 2006 @ 12:30 AM |
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SeekinginMO
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Boy, some of the lines here are just classic! How about "I'm not ready to be in a committed relationship because I don't make enough money to do things with you" 5 days before my birthday. Now, at my age, birthdays really aren't any big deal, well having one IS because the alternative is kind of ugly, but the timing just sucked! I really think he broke up with me because he didn't want to buy me a birthday present and the truth is, I would have asked him NOT to! Geez!!
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| Jun 26, 2006 @ 4:01 PM |
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roffleberry
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You know, I didn't know there was a name for "the deadly silence". I guess I've used it in sorting through e-mails on webdate.
Reral life is much tougher, though. You have to deal with facial expressions and whatnot.
I find that, "I'm going to be doing some things with some friends." can often afford a window of opportunity to escape before inquiry hits. The mind reals in a "Just what are you getting at?" sort of fashion.
How do I know? It's been used on me. Now I use it occassionally, but with great success.
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| Jun 28, 2006 @ 5:50 PM |
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irisheagle
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hey HarleysB_WV,
i'm a Redneck Without a Dog, a Gun, Or a Truck.
So that Puts my Ladies At the top don't it? 
if i can find one that dont play games that is.... 
i think The Worse one i've heard was,
"I have to give my husband another chance"
after a bunch already. lol
TOAO
jim
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| Jun 28, 2006 @ 6:02 PM |
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irisheagle
Posts: 2,540
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gr8guy2know
[QUOTE"Someone to kick her and spit on her everynite"]
Beleive it or not there are some women that Want that in a man.
Something about him being in control, Grant you not many.
and i have noticed that being the guy that sends flowers whenever,
or being Mr. Nice Guy hasn't got me Squat.
i actually talked to a woman once that Wanted to
be the submissive in the relationship, blew me away.
i'm all about love and affection, not Fighting and hitting,
That BS. To me anyway. arguing and having different opinoins, yea,
but not to the point of abuse. That's Stupid.
TOAO
jim
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| Jul 4, 2006 @ 2:06 PM |
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mrperfecttt
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i hear you loud and clear... for the record mr perfecttt is not a player very ture i had been talking to many ladies and was man enough to call them when i found the true one then i dont understand why the other got mad i never told any one i was with them..i never knew what i was looking for until i met this beautiful woman... i want call out any names..but some times i feel shes given mr perfecttt the blowoffs ..time will tell and i hope im wrong ..and for the record.. if something dont work out between you and some one that dont make them aplayer..a player would be the guy who is seeing more than one and not telling them..again i have been 11o percent honest with every one and guys its time we nice guys stop being so nice we always finish last...mr perfecttt
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| Jul 4, 2006 @ 5:33 PM |
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PrincessHelloKitty
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When a guy blows me off, he just normally doesn't respond to my emails or phone calls. What a chicken with no balls. Do chickens have balls? Oh no, that would be a rooster.
When I blow a guy off, I just tell them I'm feeling smothered or I'm not really ready for a relationship. Most of the times, they just stop calling me before I had the extream pleasure of doing it myself.
Of course, since I have to get the last word in, I just send them a nice little email telling them what I think of them, if it was someone that I actually liked.
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| Jul 6, 2006 @ 11:31 PM |
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irisheagle
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i think it is so funny That mrperfecttt Made What i call a Pretty good post,
Then cancels that handle, Go figure. lol
yea i know What a Player is and he's right about it. My 25Y/O son Sees Many women and don't tell The others who he's Seeing.
but to me, a Player is also anyone that accepts loans or gifts,
knowing Full Well They have no intiention of staying with that person.
So far as BLow offs Well, I'm not too good at that myself.
Like you PrincessHelloKitty i too like to Get the last word,
But With me when i do try to get the last word,
i usually end up getting back with them,I'm Such a Softy,lol
I just don't like Giving up on Something that i Know is meant
To be,especailly if i been in the relationship awhile, ya know?
if it's been just a few weeks then that's a Totally different situation.
and I'd have no Problem letting them go, unless it was Love at first Sight.
Then i'm Screwed, LOL
TOAO
jim
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| Jul 6, 2006 @ 11:54 PM |
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southernlady238
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Actually, my favorite, and it was one I used was "I can't be with you because I hate your best friend".
It was true. His best friend was the most obnoxious, loudmouth, bigotted, mysogynistic cokehead I'd ever met!
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| Jul 6, 2006 @ 11:57 PM |
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nuclearvanilla
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In a way, this is a healthy way to get it out, IMHO. We're bringing up some old skeletons, sometimes humorously, sometimes not, but maybe it's closure either way. I almost wish I hadn't analyzed that, it seems presumptious, and I apologize for that beforehand. Anyway...
I'd say the best "line" for me was a sort of drawn-out thing. I had essentially belittled a girl and her sense of worth to me(obviously a bonehead thing I regret), but almost simultaneously, she discovered she was pregnant from her ex. She simply hadn't noticed in the two months since then, during which time we got together. Well, suffice to say, I wanted to let her know my feelings and ideas towards her. At the time, I felt I truly loved her, and I was very gushy, and I wanted to apologize for my actions and see what may progress between us. I wrote all kinds of things down for her to know when I went to visit her one time, and she gave me something like this, "That's nice, but my brother doesn't want to see you, and to be honest, I think my mother forgot who you are already. I don't know what you're trying to get at, but it was just a silly mistake on my part, and I'd prefer forgetting you exist."
I thought that was a pretty, um, poignant blow-off. 
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| Jul 7, 2006 @ 12:55 AM |
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willsmalto
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you're a great guy but blah blah blah....I hate this especially the "b" word
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| Jul 7, 2006 @ 3:41 AM |
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redtigr
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This is one I liked: NOT
".....I like you as a clever friend but not as a lover ..........still would like to come to your place sometime."
AND THE WORST OF ALL: After 8 months and future plans:
"Pretend like I never existed. O.K.? "
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| Jul 8, 2006 @ 11:35 PM |
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irisheagle
Posts: 2,540
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"Pretend like I never existed. O.K.? "
 im' Actaully embarrassed to Say i've used that one before,
knowing full well, That was the Stupidest thing i Could Say..
LOL
TOAO
jim
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| Jul 9, 2006 @ 6:13 PM |
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just_a_girl399
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I didn't realize there were so many lines being used, wow. Another one that I've been told is "I need time to myself now".
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| Jul 10, 2006 @ 6:23 PM |
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irisheagle
Posts: 2,540
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I need time to myself now".
i Have heard that one before too. lol
And That other one
" It's not you it's me" Sheesh!!!
But lately it seems That they just stop Contacting
you and never really tell you or let you know What
ya did wrong, if anything. Maybe we're just not on the
same life path or what ever it is, but they should at the least
give a Truthful reason,
Like Maybe" Your Thingy is just Too Big" LOL.
at least be upfront, ya know.
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