| Aug 4, 2006 @ 12:37 AM |
Do you believe in LOVE at first site?
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laceywiggles2
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This should bring about a bit of conversation from the Missouri SHOW ME members of Matchdoctor. Let's hear your thoughts, that's why this has been posted!
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| Aug 4, 2006 @ 3:55 AM |
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ol_hillbilly
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What about us folks that are near-sighted?
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| Aug 5, 2006 @ 12:22 AM |
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laceywiggles2
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OHHHHH poot Hillbilly, leave it to you to come up with that comment . . . . back to the drawin board of words I go . . . 
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| Aug 5, 2006 @ 1:55 AM |
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ol_hillbilly
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I spose we could just feel our way around.
Meybe, "Love at first feel". 
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| Aug 5, 2006 @ 12:15 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Ok, ladies, hep me out here . .. Hillbilly has me laughin so hard, I can't think. Must be that color of hair doc was referrin to earlier. 
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| Aug 5, 2006 @ 5:22 PM |
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mdwstgrlIA
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maybe LUST at first site... love... nah.. not for me anyway. 
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| Aug 8, 2006 @ 5:44 PM |
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lookingforu417
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I do. Someone once told me that you fall in love within the first 3 seconds and then spend the rest of the time denying it. What are your thoughts on that one?
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| Aug 8, 2006 @ 7:53 PM |
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tomccc
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It's never happened to me, but that doesn't mean I don't believe in it.
Could happen for some people, I'm sure.
You never know.
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| Aug 8, 2006 @ 8:41 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Looking, not me. When I'm in love, I readily admit it, although it had been quite a few years since I could say that. At my age, if it's love, you don't want to NOT let the other person know, because you might not get another chance. Course, that is the case with all humans in life, however, I'm convinced that the days are shorter then they use to be.
I keep telling myself what the country song says "If tomorrow never comes, would he know how much I loved him?" I sure hope so, because I'm going to tell him.
Now, I'm not sure about this 3 second thingy though. Usually takes me a bit longer than that. I scope things out carefully before opening my mouth. Course, I admit, doesn't mean it's not there sooner. But, takes me more than 3 seconds on anything I do . . . 
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| Aug 13, 2006 @ 10:54 PM |
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parTgirl
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at one time, yes, I believed in love at first sight..now it's so much harder; it's more like 'are there any sparks/chemistry'...
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| Aug 14, 2006 @ 9:44 AM |
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doc65270
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i fell in love one time a long time ago. i was 23 she was 19 and had two children already. i first seen her at the skating rink. she was only about 5' blond hair blue eyes and buck teeth. the cutiest thing you ever laid your eyes on. only problem was she was married. but i was in my prime and i didn't care. i was in love. i had an affair with this gal for 5 months then her hubby came home from over seas and got out of the marines. i couldn't stand it any longer so i went back to viet nam. years later she got divorced (hubbys choice & fault) she tried to find me but came to a dead end besides i was married. a few years went by and i was divorced and i was going through ohio where she lived. i called my friend ( he married her cousin) they came out to see me and when they got there, this cute little blond was sitting in the back seat. she ran to me with opened arms. she had just remarried 5 months before i seen her again. we still talk sometimes, i have gone to ohio to see my friend and usually have lunch with her a couple times while i am there. her hubby don't like it but we don't talk about love or anything like that we just talk about whats going on in our lives. we both know we still love each other but there is a ring that keeps us apart. but i still love her as she loves me. now thats a sad story i dont care who you are.  so i just keep looking trying to find another love of my life if there is one.
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 1:54 AM |
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doc65270
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well dang i guess that story got em all with lock jaw.
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 3:08 PM |
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zippy8264
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That is a sad story Doc...but I truly believe that if something is meant to be ...it will be - and this situation would make ya wonder...lousy timing...or just not meant to be??
I do not believe in love at first sight - LUST...oh yea baby...but not love...in my life and in my world love has to grow - it is not based on what your eyes see, but what your heart sees, and the heart does not see the exterior!
- The world according to ZIP 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 8:09 PM |
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doc65270
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well just about 14 years ago there was this gal that i felt a strong attraction to and i started seeing her. she was 600 miles away. i started falling in love with her. i often thought could it get any better than this. everything was just perfect. we didn't fight about money, kids, cars nothing. it was just great. then we had our first disagreement. after i had moved and made a comitment she decided she wanted to go out with someone else. now i was living with her it wasn't like just dating. i did something i can't believe i did. i let her get by with it. i loved this gal so much. its just crazy what love will make you do. well we got past that and moved on. then we had our second argument.  she wanted to go out with someone else.    i put up with this garbage for 7 years. then i called it quits. believe it or not that was the only disagreements we ever had. whats worse i went back to her. she changed, things are different, HAWGWASH!!!  slowly this woman destroyed everything i ever felt for her. and i'll tell ya when it happened. i came on off the road one friday got home about 5 pm she was in the tub and came out and said she was going out with her sister for a while. i said ok i'll get a shower and join ya. she said not tonight it was just her and her sister tonight. i thought oh ya do you really think i am going to buy this. well i let her get dressed and gone a couple hours and i went out to see where she was. i found her and i just sat in the shadows where she couldn't see me. i was there for about a hour then she came out with some guy hand in hand. got into my car ( i had her car) and didnt' go anyplace. just sat there. so i walked over to the car shined my flash light into the car he had her blouse undone and she had his pants undone  i just walked away. then she jumps out of the car and said its not what you think it is. i stoped and turned around and said if he wasn't doing this and you wasn't doing that what was you doing? she said you don't understand its not what you think it is? i gave her some sign language  as i walked away. and never went back she destroyed eveything i ever felt for her to and including friendship.
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 11:04 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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You are right, Doc, love makes you do things you would never tolerate otherwise. Been there, done that whole scene. You will do things when you are in love that brings you down to your knees, until you just can't take it anymore. Looking back, you realize just how tough you were (or stupid) at putting up with it, and realize, you're more experienced for the teaching, and hopefully will never do it again. Least I hope not.
People often look at me and say I'm a B**** and cold. What they fail to see is, I've got a heart of gold and hate to argue. The cold standoffish person they see is only a high wall to keep me from going down that road of doing things I've done before that left a hole in my heart.
Zippy, I'm with you. First site for me is "rut roh, I think I LIKE that man!" Pure lust. Give me some time and the love begins to unfold (with lust included of course)! So Lacey likes lust, nobody ever claimed I was perfect . . . 
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| Aug 17, 2006 @ 11:21 PM |
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doc65270
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well lacy you know life is like a school you learn a lot. its just a shame that people have to be that way. it was a good lesson learned very hard but a good lesson. i could never do that again. people just don't change they are how they are their not going to change for you or anyone else. and i am not speaking of little changes like pickin up your socks etc. and when these things happen to someone it is much harder for the next person that comes along. thats one reason why i have not dated for such a long time i needed to get some things out of my mind. when i was done with her i couldn't trust not one woman. but i am over that now and look at things differently. but it does take a toll on ones life. but for a min lets forget about the cheating part look at the dangers involved here like rape, murder and lets not forget about the social deseases that is floating around. and in her doing so she was putting me in danger of those deseases also. and i also refuse to argue about anything! as one gal found out about and most argunemts are over stupid stuff. well i'll find me a gal someday and if not i will be happy with myself. 
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