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| Dec 9, 2006 @ 9:05 AM |
Fate, roads, life in general.
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simplylindylu
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You ever wonder how much of your life is just fate? How much is meant to be? and wether the choices we make are to teach us some kind of lesson or are we actually just moving down the right path in life? The what ifs, the what could have been, and the what is......
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| Dec 9, 2006 @ 10:07 AM |
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Chuck65201
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I can relate as I do not really know where "HE" is leading me at times or where I am going at times but I have come to the fact if I just live in today and just take today for what it does and will bring I tend to be on the coarse I guess I should be on whatever that is supposed to be.
I gave up on dreams of grandure awhile back and high level goals and have settled into just as I said above "just living in today"
Nobody can tell the beggining from the end but if we just try to stay in the moment and live in the day usually all will be well.
Just my opinion 
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| Dec 9, 2006 @ 3:49 PM |
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stilsearchn
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hey Chuck, good reply, I come up with the comment once in awhile
"God isn't finished with me yet, I am a work in progress"  aren't we all! LOL
I have also come up with comments and it may be religious as well,
I am not done painting my canvas of life yet, the choices I make and the places I've been in the past, got me to where I am today and basically if people can't take what they see within me, then I have no use for them; it is where we've been that got us to where we are today and so forth.
Does that make sense?
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| Dec 9, 2006 @ 3:57 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Stil, that makes 'perfect' sense to me as I try to live that way myself. What is, will be, take it as it comes.
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| Dec 10, 2006 @ 10:27 PM |
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doc65270
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well i feel that the road of life has its bumps and curves. as far as a relationship we could make the right decission at one point in time but that don't mean that we will make the right decissions throughout that relationship nor does it make the other party involved make the right decissions. i believe that emotional problems is the largest sickness in the world today. yes i call it a sickness because its just like a cold, you can get it but it takes a little time to get over it. sometimes people don't ever get over emotional problems. all emotional problems are is things that we have been through at our expences. too often we are reminded of our past by things that others do, say etc. the first thing we need to do is realize that the things we was told etc is not true. and we also have to realize that when a person comes into our life that they had nothing to do with our past. 99,9 percent of people today suffer from some kind of emotional problems from a previous relationship. and that is very sad. untill one gets the emotional problems taken care of no relationship will work. there are far too many people out there playing games etc. now i do have to say that the dicissions we make in our life could have taken us down a different road but we can't see the future so we have to make decissions on what we know at that time in our life. but the things we go through in life makes us stronger and wiser if we apply those things to our life other wise thay do nothing for us.
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| Dec 11, 2006 @ 8:30 AM |
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simplylindylu
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Interesting input.... I've often wondered if my bad choices have rolled down hill and affected others to make bad choices, sure hope not, hopefully they were smarter than I was. But I've always beleived, no matter how long or short of a time people come into ones life, that they were there for a reason, either to learn something from me or me from them.
How many of us base our emotional feelings on material things? What happen to following ones heart, reguardless?
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| Dec 11, 2006 @ 9:13 AM |
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doc65270
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i don't look at material things that much but the things i do have are quality. for example my steel guitar is a zum the best made. and it sounds good too if you can find someone to play it.  but there is a lot of really too much attention paid on what a person has and what they look like. but thats ok because as time moves on they are not going to be so good looking either. ugly will bite them bunns
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| Dec 11, 2006 @ 9:43 AM |
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simplylindylu
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I've seen people go for the so called material and finacially side of it, what happened to the chemistry and heart felt feelings? working thru life, not expecting it all to be there up front? Anything worth having it worth working towards.
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| Dec 11, 2006 @ 6:08 PM |
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doc65270
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seriously look at todays standards. 1> you have to be fit and trim. 2> you have to have a nice car. 3> you have to have nice cloths. bibs don't count no matter what brand they are. 4> you have to have a nice home. 5> most people want you to have a lot of $$$$$$ to spend on them. stop and think about it thats how 75% of the single people look at things if they want to admit to it or not. i have a nice little house in the country not expencive but livable. my car is ok but not what most of the people would like to have. i ware bibs. money is another story. i am doing ok in that department but it goes much deeper than that.
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| Dec 11, 2006 @ 7:34 PM |
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simplylindylu
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Thats exactly what I'm getting at... what happen to feelings w/the heart and not the pocket book???
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| Dec 11, 2006 @ 9:38 PM |
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stilsearchn
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I think it all comes down to sex with a lot of people.
I say go with your instinct/follow your heart, but even then you can get
burned, even if the guy/gal say the right things to get you believing and trusting
in them to maybe look toward the future (recently happened to me); you can't
believe everything you hear.
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| Dec 12, 2006 @ 12:18 AM |
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doc65270
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your so right a lot of people know what to say to get their score. they don't care about nothing but what they want. i have a couple sayings in my life that i live by. one is i listen to what is being said to me then i watch to see what the action shows. actions speak from the heart. if a guy or gal wants to get it on put it off. if they leave you because of it then you know what they wanted. and when i say put it off i mean like a few months. if they truly love you and want to be with you and build a solid relationship with you they won't care about puttting it off. i will keep my personal feelings and beliefs out of it for now.
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