| Feb 13, 2007 @ 4:08 PM |
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tomccc
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s it just me, or does there seem to be a proliferation of attached people with profiles on singles sites? Then they post requirements on who can and can't contact them as if they have a right to dictate policy. My feeling is, if you aren't available, you shouldn't be on a singles site in the first place. Chances are your significant other would not approve if they knew. I would certainly want to know why my sig other felt compelled to spend time on a singles site. I find this to be annoying. How do you feel?
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 4:14 PM |
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cowboyII
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i feel ya mighta opened up sumthin here, and i dunt mean in a good way.....
go easy on em lacey..... 
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 4:36 PM |
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cowboyII
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guess i could add sumthin.....theres alot of people on here that say their single when their not, theres some on here that r involved but come here ta post and talk with friends, its a open site n forum. u puttin it like its a bad thing is like sayin that its wrong fer the gays, asians, germans, canadians..etc....on here. some come here cause its fun and some come cause their lookin, im just sayin it is what it is and thats the way it is. 
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 6:29 PM |
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simplylindylu
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Leave it to you CB lol But you have to admit there are married ones that ARE in here looking to make time w/someone, misleading if your one of the single ones getting hit on. And yes, I'm sure there are some in here that have found their special someone but just want to keep in touch w/the good friends they've made, not a problem.
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 7:05 PM |
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cowboyII
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leave it to me?....what did i do?  
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 7:23 PM |
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tomccc
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That's right simplylindalu, and if they are married or involved and even just want to chat and make friends, they are taking time and energy away from that single person in their search for someone. The single person could have used that time to meet someone that might be the one. I don't think that is fair. That's all I'm saying. If one is involved they should be pursuing hobbies or volunteer, or work or making friends with other married or involved people, not wasting single peoples time.
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| Feb 13, 2007 @ 10:28 PM |
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simplylindylu
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What I was meaning was married ones sometimes mislead and I know theres men and women both, so don't think I'm pickin on just one sex. As far as time, its free and most people have extra of it, and yes, we're in here searching for that special someone but then too... u have to figure no matter how hard you look chances are if the times not right or your not in the right place it ain't gonna happen anyways so why not make use of your time by finding friends? One never knows maybe they happen to know someone that will fit you perfectly? You always have options. And I'm sorry, but I've been single for 10 yrs and I don't feel its a waste of time talking to people, need to get out of that tunnel vision. You can meet some really nice people, take CB for instance.... nahhhhhhhhh hold off on that one lmao
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| Feb 14, 2007 @ 10:46 AM |
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doc65270
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well this is it, its a free sight anyone can come on here that wants to. now lacy is shall we say attatched and she is on here but it wouldn't be fun without her and she states on her profile that she has someone but just enjoys the friendship on here. as far as someone contacting you well its your choice if you want to speak in return. now there are others on here that their other half don't know about well thats their business. cheating was a tad bit harder before all this computer junk came up but with the computer it sure made things a lot easier and convientent also. i don't think that some things are right but then again its not my job to run everyone elses life or say who can do what and who can't do. there are lonley women out there and some might not mind a married man for a fling. and visa versa. some are swingers and swappers thats their business. you have to find out who is what and go from there. this is the 21st cetury and there is more corruption now than in years past. progress is good but then again it has its draw backs. i look at it like this if i have a girlfriend or a wife and she is running around on me behind my back. she will find someone she wants to be with more than me and she will not stop at that she will leave him for someone else. i don't worry myself about this stuff. i can contact who i want to an i don't have to answer to no one but myself and i don't have to answer any e mails that i don't want to. simple isn't it.
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| Feb 14, 2007 @ 4:10 PM |
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jellybean635
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I am not sure that I understand the comment made, if they say they are single and looking when in all honesty they are married, they will get caught in the end, I am on a few sights and even a swingers site, I am not a swinger, but that is the only way that I can get in touch with a couple of my friends, since they never answer emails unless it comes from that site. I DO NOT SWING and it says that on my profile and that I am only there for converstaition onlY
Most people do not read the whole profile before throwing an email ones way. Example
On My space, I specifically stated that I am not looking for love and I do not want to correspond with anyone on the site other than my family and friends. well I have gotten so many emails that it is unreal, and they do not read.. So maybe some of these married people say they are married or taken and people do not take the time to read the whole profile before sending an email.
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| Feb 14, 2007 @ 5:16 PM |
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cowboyII
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so many great points here, like i said before.....sumone opened up a can they shouldve opened....
lindy....hun, babe, darlin....BITE ME.....
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| Feb 14, 2007 @ 6:37 PM |
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simplylindylu
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CB? In your DREAMS! lol
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| Feb 14, 2007 @ 6:39 PM |
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cowboyII
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i know......just like every night with ya..... 
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| Feb 15, 2007 @ 1:42 AM |
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doc65270
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just stick around and read thats how you learn things. i would have never pictured jellybean as a swapper.  and if only friends and family can send you messages how is a guy to get hooked up with you?  lets see now you don't want to love or be loved?  well its your story you tell it like you want to. 
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 12:35 AM |
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laceywiggles2
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 OK, Tomccc, now it's MY turn!!!!
Don't cut down people that come to this site because they are attached. I happen to be one of those, and you know what, it states it plainly in my profile. Now, it's not MY fault that some of you men don't read the profiles. The truth is right there in black and white.
As for why I'm here, you see, about 10 years ago a relationship of 6 yrs went down for me, and I was hurt, bored and lonely, so I started up on a chat site, and no not this one. It was a site that ended up having to be paid for to continue to chat. All those wonderful people that I had become friends with moved to this site, so here I am. I keep in touch with those people, and have made new friends to boot. Without these chat sites I would not be where I am today, which is tall and stronger than ever. I made friends that made me laugh every day, I made friends that pushed me to see that not every man is as a**.
So, simply stated, if you will read my profile please, don't disrepect me because I am attached. Read the darn profile, rather than just viewing a face that tickles your fancy.
I personally dislike people that criticize those of us whom are honest. So, before you let your mouth run, get the facts first. I agree, there are lots on here that are players, that's not my fault. My profile is more than honest. And, for your information sir, my boyfriend knows I am on this site. With the honest person I am, it was one of the things I told him at first, along with the fact that I danced in a local bar every weeked with guy friends and always would, even if he were around. And, you know what, I was thanked for my honesty and nothing more was said. And, we've been dating 1 1/2 years now . . .
So, again, read the profile, the whole thing, don't just look at a face!!!
Sorry to my friends for the uproar above, BUT, I truly dislike being "tagged" as a player or dishonest!
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 12:54 AM |
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doc65270
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lacy don't let him get you in a huffy because of what he says. we all know your attatched and thats fine we wouldn't enjoy it as much if you was not on here. you do and say things to make us laugh and just add to our happiness. you say you got tall. i thought you was a midget. and you told your b/f about dancing? on the tables? now i am putting my seat belt on and hanging on cause i know she is going to give it to me now. both barrels even. love ya lacey
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 1:00 AM |
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laceywiggles2
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Doc, LOL, on the tables????? Couple of weekends ago, Lacey couldn't even do a turn dancing by the bar . . . . she fell down and went boom.  And, my boyfriend did it to me. I was pretty snockered, was having a blast. I was doing a twirly dance and down I went. YEP, and I had a skirt on too. But, I did good (I think), and sit down like a lady, sit there and laughed, looked up at the guys and just smiled.
At that point, what could I do. But, I hurt my tush. I don't roll like I used to, I now just go boomy!!!!! Everybody just laughed at me and told my boyfriend, wow, we haven't seen her like that in a long time. He just laughed and told them, I've never seen her like this (better late than never, right?).
Normally, Lacey doesn't drink, I just needed to cut loose (I didn't say fall).
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 12:43 PM |
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imbelievn2ru
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What bugs me is when men don't really truly read a profile completely for whatever reason. Don't just look at the pictures for you will miss a lot especially if you stereotype others.
There is not one thing wrong with being on this site....If you notice under the logo it clearly states that it is for Singles and FRIENDS. So what is wrong with that!
Too many people are too quick to judge....that includes you tomccc!
So if you don't like it get off the boat! Don't judge the actions of others till you have walked a mile in there shoes.
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 6:30 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 7:52 PM |
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doc65270
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excuse me isn't that their shoes???????? 
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 8:40 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Doc . . . . . hush up!!!! LOL (I's still love ya). 
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